Girls say they hate to be seen as sex objects yet they dress just way to look so (mini shorts, etc). This confuses me. Anyone to enlighthen me on that? I can't see any man in mini short myself.
that is confusing... Lol. But I think I can shed some light. Girls do some things when they want to be seen. This is usually when they want attention, and probably mostly at a young impressionable age. They misunderstand that negative attention for positive attention. Grown ups don't play attention games (for the most part). They make a conscious decision to not play on the misconceptions of others. So a mature person; the type of person you'd probably find interesting, doesn't wear miniskirts much. Or skimpy bathing suits. But might not be above wearing lingerie on occasion....