The truth about women's orgasms, a lie?

Why do women keep seeking sex even though most of them don't achieve orgasm from male partners? Intercouse specifically. What's the point? Could it be that all these women who claim to not orgasm are actually having orgasms?

 

If you ever have your penis in a vagina and play with the button ... Youll know what a female orgasm feels like around your penis.

 

Nearly all of the women I've been with have had an orgasm from penetration alone. Check out my thread "How to give an orgasm from penetration alone" for details. I just bumped it for you so it should be at the top

 

I can't imagine telling my husband that I can't orgasm, but I really am. ?? That doesn't make sense.

Every woman is different. I like being on top, that definitely is most arousing to me, and I can orgasm easiest that way, other than oral or him using his fingers. But, some women might be able to orgasm in positions that I just can't.

Remember, we're not all alike.

 

Wow.... I learn something new every day on HF.
I thought that Jane only preferred being on top to prevent me from wandering off and starting work again.

 

Well, in your case, that could totally be true.

 

Now I am giving you all the secrets of a 40 year relationship.
If I had been wandering off and watching porn, our relationship would not have lasted more than a week and I would have ended up posting here asking you all where it went wrong. LMAO.

 

women seek sex? where are these women?

 

You don't have to have an orgasm as a female to enjoy sex. There's so much going on and many chemical releases I mean I've been in situations before, drugs help, where I can't physically achieve orgasm but I'm that exhausted I need it to stop and I don't like, aww I didn't cum.. Just means I'll have wet spot panties until I get the job done. But yeah nah, orgasms aren't a deciding factor during sex. They're cool yeah, but some are so intense to get to, perhaps pending on the partner they aren't totally worth it.

I used to feel that I would add the partner number once she achieved orgasm that was my pinnacle. And I'd get worked up when I couldn't do this for a woman but as I get older it's not a bad thing and uncomplished, it's just what happens. when I am with my older female aquaintence, it's more about the romance and the connection of the sex and orgasm. At times when she leaves, I gotta have a bath and get it done and other times, it feel an accomplishment to be so worked up and not have the big O, get the missus to do that after.

 

Everywhere.

 

To guys, that just sounds dumb

 

yeah that's cool. but for the guys that "always make the woman cum first before i have fun" just c'mon, get it over with already.

 

Irminsul, I think a guy has a duty to help a woman achieve her climax if he's engaged in intercourse with her. Isn't there some discussion in magazines or talk shows or something about premature ejaculation? I think there's a real issue around it. You make it sound like there isn't.

I feel obligated to at least attempt to help a woman achieve orgasm. When I haven't in the past, I now regret it.

 

Sex doesn’t always have to end in an orgasm for me. Sometimes I’m not in the mood but I have sex because my husband is. But most of the time, I want that. I’ve dated selfish guys who when they got off, show was over and it’s no fun.

 

The tricky part is they dont even know themselves. Now I know what that sounds like, but try get Irms to explain why she just cant get over that line sometimes, she cant, because she doesnt know why

You are a guy, so pretty much everytime you have had an orgasm thus far its at the same time as that ejaculatory reflex, you have never really seperated the two

When the girls talk about the big O versus the little O, do you even understand what they are talking about? And as a guy, if all else fails and you can just rub one out and get the big O everytime, why would you give a shit about the little O anyway?

You have guys here on HF that talk about always cumming too quickly, others that talk about taking too long/cant cum with their girlfriend anymore - you think those two groups understand each other? Either of those groups understand why they are that way

So why do you think its any different with the ladies, why assume they all understand each other? Or even themselves?

Every female takes longer to cum than any single male? C'mon

Again, little O vs big O, do you really understand what they are even talking about? Think about it

 

they're not looking very hard then.

 

Why dumb?

Lack of perfection in life should never be a bar to pursuing the good.

 

All humans whether male or female love to enjoy pleasures from sex. If a woman is not achieving orgasm from the male partner then it is the fault of the male partner for not understanding the female sexual response. A man can orgasm any time without much effort. But for a woman they need more time, the right mood, the right way of stimulating them. This needs to be learnt by the man. I always get the peak of sexual pleasure by making my wife reach orgasm before me. If all men aim to make their woman reach that sexual pleasure then this will bring sexual enjoyment to its peak.

 

I wish I had an orgasm every time I have sex, but it just doesn’t work that way unfortunately. Doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy it, the touching, the kissing, the learning about his body and what he enjoys. An orgasm does really top it off though. I think I need to make a resolution to have more orgasms

 

......or....its her fault