I hope levida does go back, finds him there, and strikes up a conversation. Hopefully she comes out of her shell and lets him know of her interest in him. He has a interest in her or why would he have offered the cookie? I remember, and am often reminded, of when we were first dating. I was fixing my truck and my future wife was sitting there watching. She finally commented on the muscles in my arms flexing as I twisted a screw into place. That got a smile and led to the bedroom later that evening where I was able to flex a lot more muscle for her.
Forget the rejection and go over to chat with him. Who knows,............He may invite you home to meet his wife and kids.
In other words, I can't be bothered to read what you wrote. A passive-aggressive insult to your writing. That's what it really boils down to.
Don’t sexualize workers, male or female. If you must, leave your card. They are simple to print up. “I’d like to treat you to a coffee, if you are interested ” is good enough