The real 100+ sex partners thread

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OP: Why don't you just work in porn, and get paid to do what you're currently paying to do?

Also, yes, vanillas are boring, the sheer number of people you have touched sexually is the only thing that makes life worth living.

 

For what it's worth, sex with someone you can't understand is always super hot!

 

Trash huh? Makes the argument even more convincing if you have to belittle them and froth at the mouth while doing so

 

Coming in late to this but i really like the vastness of this site..
How many partners have you been with?250+ easy
Is it an estimate or did you keep track?est
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting?stopped counting at 75ish and that was over a decade ago
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have?quite a few but that was mainly bad bj's from girls who cant facefuck to make me cum, and a few really tight women and untrained women
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle?yes due to the issues its caused in my relationships
How have you met most of your partners?hooking up for sex personals and paying for it directly
What is your sexual orientation?slightly bisexual
How old are you?37
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs?swinger who is a john at times who is a cheater at times who is a bul at times. I love swinging and group sex, adult theaters etc etc
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)?I have a slave i met on the internet and have trained her, i also have a lady that im working to rebuild our relationship with.
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes?
Do you have children?yes
Are you low, middle, or upper income?middle
What are you politically?I dont speak politics with people
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy?condoms at times and role of the dice
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex?quite often but i like it
What was the best sex you've ever had?with my lady
How was the worst sex you've ever had?met a hung t girl that was too rough for me to enjoy it
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced?all the time
Do you prefer less experienced people or more?more
What do you look for in a partner?a body that attracts me sexually and visually
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced?bdsm stuff
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced?not really at least i dont think
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. in my teens
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life?very
Would you die if you had to be monogamous?no but it would be hard. im at the point now where i know i like variety but want my partner to know and be involved if she wants to but let me do me if she isnt
What`s your favorite sex act?giving double vaginal on a woman
Are you sexy as fuck?dont think so but i do give off the fact that im very awesome in bed and that seems to work for me

 

How many partners have you been with? 5000 ... minimum
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? Man, I can't even count that far when I'm drunk.
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? I ran out of fingers.
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? Just the one.
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? It's not a lifestyle. It's a business.
How have you met most of your partners? I have no statistics on that.
What is your sexual orientation? North.
How old are you? Too old for this crap.
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? I'm a straight-up butch-dyke with a dick.
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? My mom's really good to me.
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? I feel kinda empty after 4 rounds.
Do you have children? You don't want to know the answer to that. Come to think of it I don't either.
Are you low, middle, or upper income? When I come I'm usually not in.
What are you politically? Correct.
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? Pray.
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? No but others have.
What was the best sex you've ever had? 3 asian girls on a waterbed.
How was the worst sex you've ever had? When the waterbed suddenly started leaking.
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? At a certain point they were all that way.
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? As I said: not much choice here.
What do you look for in a partner? I usually don't look inside.
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? Uhhmmm.
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? I got older.
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. In 1997.
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? Wut?
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? .....
What`s your favorite sex act?
Are you sexy as fuck? Hell yeah

 

How many partners have you been with? an awful lot
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? stopped counting years ago
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? as above
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? yes, I regretted my time in India and all experiences I had there.
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? no, not any more
How have you met most of your partners? in clubs I guess
What is your sexual orientation? bi- friendly. I do men sometimes
How old are you? over 18
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? swinger,sex worker and I like bukkake,group sex, gangbangs,orgies and bdsm.
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? I live in a poly community.
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? n/a
Do you have children? no
Are you low, middle, or upper income? wealthy
What are you politically? I'm not
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? condoms and IUD
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? yes
What was the best sex you've ever had? I keeps happening
How was the worst sex you've ever had? bad
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? yes
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? hard to find any that are more
What do you look for in a partner? intelligence, kindness, cheerfulness
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? group sex
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? yes
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. when I was in school
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? it's important, but no more than other things and less than love
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? probably
What`s your favorite sex act? 69 and tribbing
Are you sexy as fuck? LOL, yes

 

Had to google that one. Thanks for replying to the thread.

 

What happened in India?

 

So, my fellow sexually experienced people:

How many partners have you been with? Who the hell can count? I lost track around 60, and even then probably wasn't counting right, LOL. Definitely over a hundred; I'd think somewhere between 100 and 150, probably more, who knows?

Is it an estimate or did you keep track? Estimate

If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? Around 60.

Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? No regrets! Of course, I had some bad experiences! Who hasn't? One I can recount was a guy who totally lied to me in order to get me to say yes to him. Another guy just didn't care about my orgasm, and another got all pissy at me when I explained to him that I needed to touch my clit in order to come. He thought his c0ck was the end-all, be-all and took it personally. Things like that can happen to anyone- it has nothing to do with my being promiscuous.

Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? No, why would I?

How have you met most of your partners? Online, AFF, and other kinds of personal ads, clubs/bars, and of course, swing parties/clubs

What is your sexual orientation? bisexual (female)

How old are you? 39. My "slut phase" as I call it, lasted from about 26 to 35. I'm honestly not very interested in multiple partners these days, but I would definitely go for it if I met the right people.

Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? I was a swinger, but I'm not any longer. I was into threesomes, moresomes, orgies, swing parties, and of course, good 'ol pickups.

Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? I'm in a non-monogamous polyamorus relationship with a man who is married. His wife also has a partner. My boyfriend is bi, and he has some same sex partners, but I am is only other female partner apart from his wife. I don't currently have any other partners. I'm sorta, kinda looking for a gf, but it's really tough since most girls who are into girls aren't interested in a bi girl who has a regular male partner. I met my bf on OKCupid, if you can believe that! LOL

If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? When I was single, yes- I wanted a partner.

Do you have children? No, and do not want any.

Are you low, middle, or upper income? middle

What are you politically? Extreme liberal, though not libertarian. However, I do tend to be fiscally conservative.

What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? Condoms and yearly checkups. I was on the pill, but it messed with my hormones, so we're using condoms again for a while until I can get it out of my system and try a new brand.

Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? Everyone is at risk of violence, especially women! I have never had a violent experience, however. I always made sure that I was in a safe environment. I only went to swing clubs that had very strict house rules, and made sure I was with people I trusted to have my back if something went wrong. I always met internet dates in public places, and only then after a long series of emails where I could suss out their general attitude towards women and sex. Finally, I never, ever "played" on the first meeting. If a guy put pressure on, he was OUT.

What was the best sex you've ever had? With my ex sex friend. He was AMAZING.

How was the worst sex you've ever had? With a guy I met at a swing club. He was freaked out by me, just scared stiff. It was mostly because he'd never been with a "gaijin" before (I am an American expat living in Japan) and partly because he just wasn't used to a woman being assertive sexually. He lost his erection, and went around the club telling people that he was sacred of me. What an incredible turnoff...!!

Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? Sometimes you can tell, sometimes not. My bf isn't all that experienced- he'd only had sex with two other women when he met me, but DAMN he is bloody GOOD at it! Even our first time rocked me.

Do you prefer less experienced people or more? Difficult question. I have to say that I prefer more open minded people- if someone is truly open minded, their experience level doesn't matter that much, because they will be open to learning and won't be intimidated or afraid to try new things.

What do you look for in a partner? A sense of humor, open mindedness, s/he has to be open to non-monogamy, they can't be *overly* jealous or *overly* insecure (everyone gets jealous and has insecurities) and they have to be able to communicate very honestly and openly. They also have to be easy going, feminist (I'm big on equality) and yeah...they can't be religious. I'm an atheist, and I have never been able to date a religious person. Intelligent, honest, and straightforward. As for looks, I'm into just about any type.

What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced?
BDSM, pegging, cream pie (guys who eat their cum out of you) and of course, I was able to explore my bisexuality, which was always lurking but just didn't come out until I had more experience and thus courage to explore it.

How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced?
I became more confident and secure. Less shy, much more expressive, and much more open minded.

When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. I have always known!

How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? Very. It's my favorite hobby! I like to learn about new toys and techniques, I like to talk about it, particularly sexual politics, and of course, I like to DO it.

Would you die if you had to be monogamous?
I wouldn't DIE, that's silly! LOL. But I could never have a non-monogamous relationship. I'm just not wired for it. I only date people who are non-monogamous themselves.

What`s your favorite sex act? Why do I have to pick ONE?
Top ten, in no particular order:
-pegging my bf
-BDSM, particularly humiliation play and spanking
-oral sex on a girl (damn I LOVE pvssy!)
-Be given oral by a guy or girl
-doggy style
-watching someone masturbate
- MMF threesome (I don't like MFF anymore because I hate sharing the girl with a guy - too confusing!)
- tried and true missionary position
- cream pie
- my bf coming on my face

Are you sexy as fuck? I'm sexy and I know it...!

 

You think this post is about you, don't you, don't you, don't youuu....

When in reality, it is about sharing experiences with like-minded people. When sex is a big part of your life, you tend to enjoy talking about it.

That's right - just like you being less experienced doesn't make you a better person either, right? Right. To each his own. No need to get your panties in a knot.

Who has admitted they feel alone? And even if someone DOES feel alone, so what? Everyone feels alone at some point in their life, so what does that have to do with anything? Virgins can feel very alone, as can people are IN relationships.

It's not the nature of the relationship or the length of it that matters, it's the depth of the feelings people have for each other. A person can have an incredibly emotionally fulfilling experience with a one night stand, and there are married people having sex without feeling ANYTHING for each other.

Stop judging. Don't like the posts here? You are free to not read them.

 

Ahh Blond Girl, it's so refreshing to find another free spirited woman. We are like rare jewels.

 

That hasn't been my experience. I usually find that other sexually free spirited women are highly competitive and have no desire to speak to me. Hopefully, you will turn out to be one of the rare exceptions.

I haven't responded to the survey because I don't care to read comments from others about how I have lived that part of my life. I didn't make those decisions to please random strangers, and I don't consider myself any kind of a role model. I've always made decisions that seemed right for me, at the time I made them.

Even my husband didn't ask for an estimated total number of sexual partners. I gave that to him voluntarily. He didn't really care. Our relationship is about right now, not the past.

 

Did I mention that I liked that about you

 

Don't worry KJ, I got your back! I'll put the haters in their place if necessary :boxing_smiley:

Post away! :2thumbsup:

 

Maybe you misunderstood me. I was speaking in regards to your belief about why this thread was begun. You seemed to think Chera started this thread because sh/e (?) was lashing out at monogamous people. You also seemed to think it was about sexually experienced people bragging or showing off, and attempting to make lesser experienced people feel inferior.

I've run across that sort of thing before, where anything a sexually experienced person says is taken as a jab at others rather than an honest expression of their own thoughts and feelings. Thus my comment "This thread isn't about you" -- not AIMED at you, and you shouldn't take it as such.

You are of course, welcome to voice your ideas or opinions. I would say however, that if you came here to express your concern for promiscuos people you are here for the wrong reasons as that is not the subject of this thread.

Who is this "everyone" you speak of? To the contrary: I'd say the more sexually experiecned people are, the less they connect sex with love exclusively, or feel the need to make sex about love. In addition, you might be surprised to know how emotionally fulfilling sex can be even if you aren't in love with your partner. For example, I have had really emotional sex with sex friends whom I had no romatic feelings for. It's no less intimate, no less emotional, just different.

I can't comment on that, and frankly, I don't think you can, either. Instead of making assumptions based on your own personal feelings about sex and intimacy, why not ask him how he feels? The way you've worded this is more of an accusation and recrimination than an expression of concern, unless I am reading you wrong? I admit I might be; perhaps I should give you more benefit of the doubt. But since the tone was very critical in the first two quotes, it logically followed that the tone was meant to be critical throughout. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Regarding sex positivity: being sex positive doesn't mean you never critically examine the downside of being promiscuous. There IS danger in it, and if you follow this lifestyle you have to understand the dangers as well as the pleasures. You must talk about them in order to understand what they are, and know how to mitigate them in order to be as safe as possible. That is why sex positive sex educators never call it "safe" sex, but "safer" sex. Thus, it makes sense for the questionaire to contain some questions to ask about the downside of this lifestlye.

As for the last sentence in regards to monogamy: That people embrace non-monogamy and reject monogamy is NOT a criticism of monogamy. It is stating of a personal preference rather than an attack on your personal values. For example, if I said, "I hate strawberry ice cream. I would die if I only had strawberry ice cream to eat." is NOT an attack on the people who like strawberry ice cream.

Okay. I'm glad to hear you say that. I just wonder though, whether you really do undersand that a bunch of promisucous people wanting to talk about their sexual experiences has nothing to do with your preference of monogamy. We don't really care if people want to be monogamous, and in fact, more power to you for your choice.

 

Really? In what way are they competitive? "I've fvcked more people than you have, so I'm COOLER" ? That seems really, really stupid and petty to me.

I'm sorry you had that experience. I really can't understand why people would feel competitive over something that...isn't competitive.

At any rate, I'm friendly, non-judgmental, and not competitive, so feel free to chat with me any time.

 

Well with a body like that who could blame you or them it should be shared with everyone across the land

 

Thanks for the well-thought out, intelligent reply.

I guess I have the answer to my question of whether you were being rude or not. Yeah. Not surprised.

 

In general, I find American women to be more competitive than men, but not openly; more in a gossipy, backstabbing kind of way.

I was around a lot of other sexual free spirits mostly in college. Most of us went to the same hookup parties, where girls were in constant competition for attention from guys. Everybody wanted to be the most popular with the hottest guys.

I only made two close female friends in that group who made an agreement that we would never compete with each other in a nasty way. Instead, we shared information about the guys we had been with, and watched each other's backs. Like, if I was going to some guy's dorm room, I would tell one of them where I was going, who I was going with, and whether I was planning to stay over or come back to the party.

I don't remember the exact quote, but one of them said something like this to me: "There's no reason for us to compete, because we're both eventually going to get most of the same guys anyway, and neither one of us is looking for a serious relationship. What the hell is there to compete over?" I wish that more of them had shared her attitude about it. That's the way to have fun!

She and I got into several threesomes with guys we met at parties. She gave me my first enjoyable bisexual experience. And the other friend is the one who is currently involved with me in a partner swap arrangement with our husbands.

:cheers2: I will!