The real 100+ sex partners thread

How many partners have you been with? over 50 i would say
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? Estimate
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? I never really started
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? A lot of bad experinces
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? No
How have you met most of your partners? School
What is your sexual orientation? Straight
How old are you? 17
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? No
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? No
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? No
Do you have children? No
Are you low, middle, or upper income? I don't have a job :/
What are you politically? Don't care
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? Condoms and I'm on birth control
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? No
What was the best sex you've ever had? My boyfriend at the time came back home from visiting somewhere for Christmas and my dad was at work so we had sex about 6 times when my dad was out. The first time he came SOOOO much.
How was the worst sex you've ever had?Probably the first time I had sex.
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced?
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? More experienced for having fun only, less experienced because I find it really cute and adorable
What do you look for in a partner? Confidence, Confidence, confidence
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? Many different positions and blowjob techniques
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? I feel like I am more fun and outgoing. I am not slutty at all. I make sure that who ever I have sex with, they will not tell anyone, so far no problems.
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. Never did
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? Pretty important
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? Yeah I would
What`s your favorite sex act? Just plain fucking??
Are you sexy as fuck? I think so

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How many partners have you been with? 3
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? It’s an estimate, but it’s a pretty accurate one.
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? Right after my most recent partner.
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? I do regret some of it. I’ve had two bad experiences.
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? Yes.
How have you met most of your partners? In college.
What is your sexual orientation? North by northwest.
How old are you? I’m well beyond warranty.
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs? No to all of those listed. I am, however, into MFM threesomes.
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? I’m married (37 years and going strong.)
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes? No.
Do you have children? No.
Are you low, middle, or upper income? I’m third shelf from the top, in back, next to produce.
What are you politically? Very, very disappointed.
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? Barbwire and anti-personnel mines.
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? No.
What was the best sex you've ever had? Every time I’ve cum and many where I haven’t.
How was the worst sex you've ever had? That’s an oxymoron.
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? Yup. All my partners have had less experience that me.
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? Dunno. I’ve never been with anyone who had more experience.
What do you look for in a partner? A pulse.
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? Oral sex mainly.
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? I’ve confirmed that there are better ways to have sex than using my left hand.
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? I’m different than everybody. So is everyone else!
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? On a scale from black to white, sex is about a six.
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? I’ll die regardless of what I am!
What`s your favorite sex act? Anything involving tropical fruit and a harmonica.
Are you sexy as fuck? No, but I’ll fuck anything that’s sexy!

 

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Ok, yall throw the rocks but the number is pretty close. I took a sociology course about 25 yrs ago and when the same question was asked I was able to pretty confinately count to 280. After that the numbers run together but my wife and I were in the lifestyle so over the next 20 years yall pick a number. I am comfortable with a total of about 350.

 

There pretty good numbers

 

At 64 I would estimate around 250. My fb is at approximately the same number which is why we are always talking about our partners and experiences and what a turn on it is. She said her ex husband and other partners are intimidated by her but as for me the fact she keeps me at least makes me think my skills are ok lol

 

So, my fellow sexually experienced people:

How many partners have you been with?
Hundreds of men over the last 33 years, 3 women (two girlfriends of three years each and one prostitute)

Is it an estimate or did you keep track?
I couldn't be bothered to keep track of the guys, since all but about a dozen were anonymous encounters in different gay sex venues like bathhouses.

If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting?
n/a

Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have?
Most of the sex I had with girlfriend #1 was not the greatest because she hated sex (she barely tolerated intercourse, and found fellatio and cunnilingus icky) (all sex with girlfriend #2 though was awesome, except near the end where I was unable to orgasm while fucking her without imagining it was a guy's ass that I was fucking).

As for guys, I really wish that I would've focussed from the start on more real and intimate encounters with guys in each other's homes for more meaningful sex, and maybe even love. That much cruising was a waste of time and unfulfilling. I've had lots of bad experiences, where with all but a dozen of the hundreds of guys I've had oral sex with anonymously in the bathhouses etc. I disappointed myself by losing all of the very powerful gay desires I walked into the establishments with when a real guy was in front of me. With hookups in each other's homes, I've been disappointed with two guys, one who turned out straight and just wanted a blowjob without reciprocation (contrary to his profile ad), and showed no desire for me; and the other who wanted me to fuck his throat and swallow my cum, but I was unable to cum, which pissed him off: after I hungrily swallowed his load he kicked me out of his house.

Do you sometimes question your lifestyle?
I definitely question all the anonymous gay cruising, quite unfulfilling overall (except when I lost my gay virginity as an adult in a bathhouse).

How have you met most of your partners?
99% via anonymous cruising in gay sex venues like bathhouses, gay sex clubs, large gay orgies, video arcade booths with glory holes, porn theatres (both straight and gay), back rooms and patios of gay bars, etc. The remainder of the guys have been through gay online hookup sites and apps and friends that became lovers.

What is your sexual orientation?
Kinsey 5, mostly gay.

How old are you?
63

Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.?
None of the above. Just a guy who was constantly rejected by girls and women all my life, until finally losing my virginity at 27 with a woman who became my girlfriend for 3 years on and off, when the third time her breaking up with me shattered my heart, and gay desires came rushing into my consciousness. Then jerking off to tons of gay porn, especially each time another woman rejected me, and running out to different gay sex venues for 27 years when my gay desires became too powerful for just masturbation. Finally doing anal with another man stopped all the anonymous shit, and started up my hooking up with local guys in each other's homes for more meaningful sex, with one more girlfriend in the middle of that for 3 years on and off just before Covid. And fully gay ever since.

Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs?
No bukkakes with women or men, though I would love to be the recipient of a bukkake, or even be the giver of a male recipient in a beautiful gay cum fest. I've had tons of gay group sex, all the way from threesomes to huge gay orgies. But I've yet to enjoy a beautiful gay gangbang, as a giver or receiver, both of which I would love, especially as a bareback receiver.

Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)?
Unfortunately no present relationship with a guy (I'm done with women).

If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes?
I would love to be in one or more gay friendships with benefits--have one or more versatile fuck buddies who I also like very much doing friendship things together. That's my biggest wish, by far. I'm also open to falling in love with another man and becoming boyfriends, though I'm not sure about having an open relationship with him. They can become so messy.

And who doesn't feel empty inside sometimes? I think all but a very few highly spiritually realized people in the world feel empty inside, and more than just sometimes. I'm definitely one of them, and ultimately know that only spiritual meaning can fill that void. But sharing sexual and even romantic love with another man could provide temporary distraction for me. And I can't wait for another man's semen fill some of the emptiness in my body.

Do you have children?
No

Are you low, middle, or upper income?
Low income, having focussed most of my life on volunteer spiritual work, with short periods of middle class income as a computer programmer/analyst.

What are you politically?
For most of my life liberal, but since Covid very conservative.

What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy?
All three women I have fucked I've used condoms, accept one time with girlfriend #2 when she convinced me to stay uncovered one night in 2018 because she "was in her cycle at a point where pregnancy was not possible" (lol, even into my 50s I clearly was naïve and inexperienced with women): sure enough, 1-2 weeks later she told me she was pregnant, and that night "miscarried" (all of it might've been fake and just more manipulation on her part). Neither of my two girlfriends were on the pill.

With guys since 2013 when I started doing anal, as a top, it's just been condoms. But a couple of years ago I went on PrEP and started quarterly testing, and carefully vetting the men I've slept with, but as of yet I haven't been able to penetrate a guy's asshole (though lots of cockhead rubbing on the outside of assholes) because of erectile issues with my antidepressants (I have an appointment in January with my doctor to go on Viagra or Cialis). As of yet, knock wood, I've never had an STI in my life, even after sucking hundreds of guys cocks in bathhouses, gay sex clubs, etc.

Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex?
The closest I've come is driving through a very bad neighbourhood in L.A. on my way to a gay sex club while visiting the city. There was also another bad neighbourhood in downtown San Francisco when I lived there for a year that I had to sometimes walk through on way to e.g. a Circle Jerk club (the bathhouses and gay sex clubs I went to there on a regular basis were in better neighborhoods).

What was the best sex you've ever had?
By far it was when I lost my gay virginity, as a top, with another man, in a bathhouse in Berlin. Finally inserting my cock into another man and fucking him was the greatest sexual experience of my life, and almost spiritual. I can't even begin to describe the emotions I felt, and the closeness I felt being inside this other person (what I never felt with women). All the confusion I had been experiencing for the last 21 years disappeared, confusion that I had with powerful gay desires continually driving me out to find sex with another man, in all kinds of different gay sex venues, only to be disappointed each time when all my gay desires drained out of my body as soon as I was naked with another guy. I always went through with having oral sex with him, and multiple other guys each night in that venue, but without any desire for them or enjoyment of sucking or getting sucked, and certainly not feeling any of the powerful anal desires that I always had at home for other men in my enjoyment of gay porn and gay fantasies.

But something major clicked inside of me when I kept all my gay desires for this man in Berlin, especially my anal desires. My bi-confusion was gone and I very happily accepted the gay side of myself, and really loved it, and was proud to call myself bisexual. I stopped all anonymous encounters and started hooking up with local guys in each other's homes back in Canada, and never lost my gay desires when naked with them ever again, always feeling such passion for them and their entire bodies, not just their genitals, and loving kissing and everything--though it still took another 10 years for me to finally accept my actual homosexuality, and live as a gay man. I think it was being thousands of miles away from my home, and how cute that Berlin boy and his ass was, that allowed my internalized homophobia to quiet down, and I could finally be myself. Once I could experience how beautiful my gay side was, I could never hide it from myself ever again. And it just kept growing and growing.

How was the worst sex you've ever had?
There's been a lot of bad sex, including with my first girlfriend and that female prostitute once (all 3 prostitutes in this--what turned out to be a brothel but advertised itself as a swingers club--were ugly) and a whole ton of guys, but I would have to say the worst sex I've ever had was with a guy who turned out to be straight, but advertised himself as bisexual, who really ended up just wanting a blowjob. But I could see he just felt no desire for me sexually, not even my cock, and was unable to reciprocate. I even stupidly tried one more time with him (both times at his place), but it was the same. Unlike him, though, I was able to fake it with those hundreds of guys in those gay sex venues for 21 years, when I felt (had lost) all gay desire for them or their cocks. I faked huge enthusiasm while sucking them, out of compassion for them and not wishing to disappoint them. This guy couldn't do even that. Yuck! It's why I pretty much just try to hook up with gay men nowadays.

Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced?
I've had oral sex with countless less experienced men, but all three women I've had sex with were more experienced than I.

Do you prefer less experienced people or more?
I definitely prefer more experienced lovers, because they cannot only give me more pleasure and teach me how to give them more pleasure (the main reason I'm having sex is to give pleasure, though feeling true intimacy is a big second), but I also have to try less hard, and they're more accepting of what I'm doing to them.

What do you look for in a partner?
That is quite a complicated question. Sexually, I'm looking for a man who is either fully homosexual or mostly homosexual, is experienced in making love with a man, enjoys everything sexual, loves another guy's entire body and soul, loves kissing and holding and touching, loves receiving a rimjob as much as I love giving one, loves getting his ass fucked, ideally has at least a 7 inch cut cock (I'm at 7.5"), ideally is open to topping my virgin ass, and is overall just very passionate in his lovemaking. Otherwise, I also like a lover who is intelligent, funny, loving, compassionate, kind, and giving. In a FWB or romantic partner, I'm looking for a guy who also loves the outdoors, has the same political views as I do, has some spiritual nature, and is all of the things I'm looking for in a bedroom partner (above) but also outside the bedroom. ...Oh my God, the more I'm writing these things, the more I realize how much, how very much, I need a partner like this in my life.

What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced?
Definitely discovering anal sex with men after very experienced oral sex with them for 21 years was HUGE. I could not believe how much I out of this world enjoyed rimming and tonguefucking another man's asshole, and penetrating him with my cock, fucking him deep and hard. It went way beyond all my fantasies. It wasn't just cock that I was in love with. I discovered, if it was even possible, even more desire for the male asshole. Perhaps because it's the doorway to not only his inner body, the gay male body I wished to join in union with, but it's also the doorway to realizing my true homosexuality. I at least found fucking another man's ass was most undeniably gay, unlike just sucking another guy's cock. God, I can't tell you how much I loved it! Years later I also fucked my first female asshole, with girlfriend #2, which I also enjoyed more than vaginal intercourse, perhaps because of my ultimate love for the male asshole, but also because it was the only time that I could fuck her bareback and cum inside of her. I also discovered with her some light bondage and discipline, though I wasn't a major fan. She also discovered how much she loved pegging my ass with her strap-on dildo and the power feelings it gave her. But all I could think of while she was fucking my ass was how much I wished it was a real man fucking my ass with his real cock. I think it just solidified my desire to finally bottom for another man, and give my ass and all of myself to him.

How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced?
Without a doubt the more sexually experienced I've become, the more confidence I feel in AND OUT of the bedroom. Also the more sexually experienced I've become with guys, the more open I am not only to enjoying hanging out platonically with gay men, but, most of all, to actually falling romantically in love with another man. I've already in the last two years had romantic crushes (though unrequited) with a couple different guys. And with all this, I have become more open and out of the closet with my regular friends, less and less ashamed of who and what I am, but actually happy about it. And I believe I have become less judgemental of people in general, which is a very big thing. The more I accept myself, the more I can accept others as who and what they are.

When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol.
I didn't know of anyone who still had their virginity so relatively late in their life (I lost it with a woman at 27). I didn't know of anyone who kept trying so hard to date first girls and then women, only to be rejected time after time. Perhaps as a guy especially, I took this very hard (though I'm sure girls and women who never got asked out felt really bad as well). I felt like such a loser, and even contemplated suicide a lot, and one time was literally at the brink of committing it (I had written my letter and left it in my car, and walked myself to the brink of Niagara Falls to throw myself in).

Then of course I realized I was also very different from everyone else in my life when I was overcome with powerful, uncontrollable gay desires for other men, my enjoyment of thousands and thousands of hours of gay porn and cock edging, and running out to different gay sex venues continuously to find real sex with real men. I didn't know anyone else in my "real life" who was doing such insane things. I didn't know a single bisexual or homosexual person, male or female, in my life. And then to top it all off, almost always losing all gay desire when I was naked with a real man, those hundreds of times attempting to fulfil my powerful gay desires, something I never had heard of or read about ever happening continuously like that for any other guy in the world. I was now not only very different from everyone in my real life, but also everyone in my bisexual/homosexual world. I'm a very very weird, fucked up guy.

How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life?
I of course have other parts of my life, especially family, friends, work, sleeping, eating, and a very strong spiritual life (a Buddhist practitioner for over 30 years). But I still have to say that gay sex dominates my life: I can't ever get enough of it, continuously long for more, much more, and spend so much time masturbating to gay porn and writing about gay things (like this). Maybe things would settle down if I had a regular, ongoing FWB or boyfriend, with whom I have regular sex, and especially meaningful sex, intimate sex, loving sex, and can then focus much more on everything else in my life.

Would you die if you had to be monogamous?
If it was with a truly loving partner, and our sex was always great, then I would be OK staying monogamous. I think that's my natural state anyway. But it would have to be with a man. After my last relationship with a woman I came to realize that I can't ever have a serious relationship with a woman again, because I can't go without sex with other men.

What`s your favorite sex act?
By far my favourite sex act to date is rimming, tonguefucking and cockfucking another man's asshole. And it hasn't happened yet, but I'm sure full-on penetrative bareback fucking and breeding another guy's asshole, shooting my cum seed deep inside of him to become one with him, will become my favourite sex act.

Are you sexy as fuck?
You know, I never really felt sexy as fuck, though tons of people have said that I'm quite handsome, and lots of men have loved my 7.5 inch cut cock, though it's not that big compared to a lot of guys. But since I shaved my head just 6 weeks ago for the first time, both men and women have actually shown a lot of sexual desire towards me like I've never experienced before. It in turn just gives me more confidence, which makes me even more sexy to others, and makes me feel more sexy in my body. I can't even imagine how much more it will be after I lose these 30 extra Covid pounds finally, and get my weight more proportional to my 5'11" frame.

 

How many partners have you been with? Probably just the high side of 100
Is it an estimate or did you keep track? Estimated
If it is an estimate, when did you stop counting? When I ran into a co worker of my wife and didn’t remember dating her. My wife shared what this co worker told her places and timing make sense but I just could not remember her.
Do you regret any of it? How many bad experiences did you have? No regrets except for a missed opportunity or 2. 1 bad experience that stands out.
Do you sometimes question your lifestyle? No
How have you met most of your partners? Most I already knew through various social channels. Work, hangouts, clubs school
What is your sexual orientation? Straight
How old are you? 55
Are you a swinger, cuckold/hotwifer, bull, john, sex worker etc.? Are you into bukkakes, group sex or gangbangs?
Are you in a relationship? Of what kind? How did you meet your partner(s)? Yes at a bar
If you don't have a partner, do you wish you could have one? Do you feel empty sometimes?
Do you have children? Yes
Are you low, middle, or upper income? Middle
What are you politically? Moderate
What do you do to protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy? Condoms
Have you ever been at risk of violence from cruising for sex? No
What was the best sex you've ever had? One that stand out. A friend of my wife. Personally she is a bitch and manipulator. Opportunity came that we were alone at her house and we fucked I was very physical with her and let’s say hate fucked her. I came in her multiple times that day and we continued for about three months but not like the first time.
How was the worst sex you've ever had? With a masseuse named Toni. I should have faked it and got out of there
Can you tell when you have sex with someone less experienced? I think so
Do you prefer less experienced people or more? Honestly it doesn’t matter to me someone that is confident in themselves.
What do you look for in a partner? Willingness. but someone that is intelligent confident and wants to have a good time. Honestly I do look for a wedding ring just a real turn on for me.
What kind of sex acts did you discover as you became more experienced? Anal multiple partners swapping golden showers role play cuck/hotwife
How have you changed as a person since becoming sexually experienced? I think more confident less self conscious
When did you realize you were different from most of your friends, family, and coworkers? lol. Probably after the first time watching my wife get fucked by another man
How important is sex to you in relation to other things in your life? Pretty important
Would you die if you had to be monogamous? No but i would develop very strong forearms
What`s your favorite sex act? Eating pussy, being watched, dirty talk
Are you sexy as fuck? Gotta be

 

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