The other side of the youth problem

Being a middle aged man many gay friends of my age complain that younger males have no interest in them. I've come across the reverse problem more than a few times. I'm happy to have it off with young men so long as they're not too young. This year I've had two guys, one 20, earlier one of 16, tell me they've fallen in love with me and wanting a permanent relationship. The 16 year old was easy to put off when I found he was lying to me about being 19. My 20 year old is a gorgeous, intelligent, creative and mentally very mature for his age. I have a cardiac condition that could see me leaving the planet suddenly at anytime but that hasn't held him back. He still wants me. (No, there's no huge inheritance he's after)
If this goes on much longer I can see myself falling helplessly in love and losing any common sense or self control. How to let him down without hurting him is I suppose what I'm asking for advice about.
PS, The sex is astonishingly good apart from the fact he occasionally wants to do all night what it takes me all night to do ! I've suggested he find someone his age to hook up with who'd be happy to occasionally join with us in a threesome, one of my favourite passtimes, but he wont wear the idea.

Puzzled old poof.

 

You are not going to want to know the truth anyway, it is at the core of everything.

Puzzled because you were never the 16 yr old fapping over a guy that is your age now.

Guys, especially petite, effeminate ones look closest to girls in their teens.

If thats all you've even been attracted to, aroused by. Then is it really all that 'gay' if you only go after males that are the closest to females.

As for your friends, pretty much know without having to know them, either dont really look after themselves, and I mean the smell more so than necessarily how buff they are.....or probably more importantly, that stupid act where they are trying to hard to be gay.

For the 16 and 20 yr old, the quickest and easiest test is to have their prettiest gal friend come along, and watch some of your supposed gay friends squirm, irrespective of how sure you are they are gay or how much they try camp it up....especially in those first few seconds of meeting her, one cant hide that stuff, the body doesnt lie, eyes pop out, ears go red, quick glaces at her goods

Ricky Martin is 42, and fuck look at him, he looks better now than he ever has. Saying stuff like you are puzzled why they would be into a guy his age....and you are pretty much telling them you've never been into men

When I was 20 I was just a walking hard on. 'Hurting him', feelings? Sounds pretty gay man