The opposite sex

but you don't have to be mean. that's all. you should thank the vagina, it's use brought you into your world.

 

Very true...i do respect it from that point of view...however i'm thinking more from an aesthetic and sexual point of view...Every gay guy I know without exception has the same view as me...the vagina to us is rather unattractive and unappealing..also what it entails as regards menstruation etc is very very off putting...to be honest its fairly predictable that us gay guys feel this way afterall we are not attracted to women. Its not meant to be offensive or disrespecful...its more just brutal honesty but i accept that tact should be used when confronting this issue with a women. As it happens my brother is straight and he told me he loves a womans vagina...his view as a straight guy are more imnportant than mine as a gay guy as its the straight guys afterall who are the guys to impress not us gay guys.

 

I don't feel that way and I'm gay, when a person has a set point of view on something they tend to note what confirms to that, whilest dismissing what doesn't.
Also nursing is swamped with gay male nurses, I hardly doubt it would be such a popular career if we all felt replused by the sight of one.
however you sound like your quite young, hopefully you'll become more tactful without offended too many people in the process
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aesthetics are a personal issue, and they always have been. but the finer point here is that if you want to be perceived as an evolved person, don't be mean. tact exists for a reason. i have, a couple times, seen a truly unnattractive pussy. okay, and it smelled bad, too. but the same can be said of the men i've been with, including the smell. but you would NEVER hear me saying that to them or being clear about whom i found physically unattractive, because i didn't want to HURT them. it's all fine and good and funny to be mean, until that time you REALLY hurt someone. you don't want to do that, do you? it's AWFUL. to me, people are more important and valuable than their individual parts.

 

I can

 

:agree:

 

Eeeeeew, get those breasts away from me!

 

me too...the male body has no saggy tits...the male body has no off putting vagina and all that entails (menstruation)...the male body is a hell of a lot more appealing, but hey i would say that, i'm a gay guy.,..ALL GAY GUYS SAY THE MALE BODY IS MORE APPEALING...If they didnt then they aint gay.

 

I think your just having a laugh now and trying to wind people up, ethier that or you just don't listen to what people say to you.

Seriously you have acknowledged twice now that you don't wish to offend people, then you just go and say things that you know offended them in the first place.
So ethier stop saying it, or just say that you don't give a damn if it offends others that way people can just save their breath trying to explain to you, why your comments are so objectionable.
AND finally if you find menstruation and vaginas to be that bad then stop talking about them, because thats all you've been going on about.
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yeah, he's just one of those guys who likes to hurt people's feelings. whatever.

 

no i am not. Its just that this ubject is a contentious issue...i mean its impossible not to offend when talking about the opposite sex...if you are easily offended then u shouldnt partake on a subject such as this with a gay guy...i know just from chatting to gay guys about this very subject just how contentious it is...gay guys in general dont find the female body attractive..major revelation...NOT.

 

oh course it's not a revelation, but you keep making rude, nasty, mean-spirited comments. not just that you find it unattractive, but outright insulting comments. i figure the cause must be that someone was inevitably nasty to you and now you get to take it out on someone else because you can hide behind a computer screen.

 

its impossible not to offend if you insist on talking about saggy tits and disgusting virginas and as a gay man you offend me because you are are helping to make the gay sterotype true
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and it's not as if the male body doesn't have some ickiness to it to those who don't like it, or hell, even to those who do like it. it IS perspective, and there's no need to be mean about it.

 

this whole threads had a lot of meanness directed too both sexes, I feel like I'm back in high school
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i'm lucky, i get to find hotness and beauty everywhere. i don't like mean comments about people's anatomies, no matter how hip it is to bitch among friends. i hate generalities and pettiness, like the whole "men are PIGS!" and "women are all whores or ice maidens." you can't win with a rationale like that. there's enough hate running around without adding petty maliciousness to it all.

 

I was with my gay friend tonight, he was married to a woman but has realised he's later on in life, he has a daughter and I was discussing this thread.
he said i could never feel that way about womens bodies because I love my mother, have a daughter and my best friend is a woman.

when it comes down to it, its about basic respect.

I would never be friends with anyone that described another human beings body as disgusting
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well, it's just plain hurtful. i've got enough reasons that i can CHANGE to dislike myself. hearing awful things about what i CAN'T change, and typically find great joy in, hurts badly. there's no reason to hammer on something like that.

 

OK i can see my comments have offended people and im sorry...maybe i am a tad insecure about women hence my comments about them...anyway, im in a good mood today as im about to cum for the 5th time today watching gay porn...fabulous. Isnt life grand?? Ok I know i should be more respecful to women since i came into the world through a woman..i also have a sister...truth is though gay men that ive met are very disparaging about a womans body..its not just me i can assure you...ok the choice of words might not have been wise but u get the general jist of how gay men in general feel. Seriously its not meant to cause offence or be disrespectful...its just brutal honesty...maybe not enough tact shown granted..ive learned my lesson...i should appreciate women more...its just on this topic of how we view the opposite sex being a gay guy that sometimes harsh words are mentioned..if i caused offence i honestly apologise.

 

maybe you should assess your gay friends, the gay men I know would never make anitiwomen comments
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