the older i get the more i want to be with another man

In my 40s, a DL bi man..I'm reading a lot of these responses by those older than myself and I see a lot of similar views of "I wish I knew this sooner...I wish I tried this sooner...etc"
I post on here every once in awhile when the urges and cravings get very strong..It feels good to talk and chat about it since no one in my life knows..This is where I am at on my bisexual journey..Ive had around 15 mutual oral experiences over the past 16 years or so..Being in a relationship with a woman who would never understand (we aren't all as lucky as some on here sadly) these cravings and how it can control our thoughts and just drive us crazy unless we satisfy them, which we are compulsed to do..Ive run from the urges, tried to hide, but they always found me..The day came recently where I needed to face the mirror and admit although I do love women, I can't resist urges for hot man on man action..No matter how much you try to ignore those horny voices in the head they will get louder, they will demand satisfaction..
So with all of that being said, (sorry for the rant lol) Coming to this realization and seeing the responses of somewhat regret from those wishing they started earlier facing their curiosities, it has inspired me to make some of the fantasies I've had for so many years a reality this year, safely of course..One of my top ones is to suck 2 hung men at the same time..Never acted on it obviously but these responses have given me that little push to see we only live once so I've been chatting with a hot young couple and we are planning an encounter where I can service them both from my knees, then they mutually return the favor..2025 will be the year I accept more cock in my life because if I don't now, it seems the day will come when I wish I did..Its time I live with these cravings in harmony and not stressfully...This site has been therapy for me in a lot of ways and I've spoken with a nice few of you over conversations..I appreciate you letting me vent here these last few years!

 

I know what you mean!

 

So where are the guys in the UK who want to play with cock? Are you going to let the Americans have all the fun? You're so quiet that I'm arranging a trip to the USA, to meet a guy so we can both enjoy sucking cock.

 

They are out there! There was a guy who used to post a lot of videos on that one site that closed up. Many dozens of him giving head. He posted one of him in a motel room with open invite to get head. He sucked off more guys in an hour than I have my entire bi life. That is going to be me some day.

 

I'm sure they are "out there". But is there none here as members of hip?!

 

That could describe me.

 

Yes and no. It would be great to have a masturbation bud, and having been straight all my life I look forward to sucking on a penis, but that would be it. Anything else just isn't in the wiring.

 

It’s fun you’ll like it but it does open the door for more, I’ve tried things with guys I thought I wouldn’t but I love it and want more so good luck hope you enjoy the adventure

 

Yeah, I've heard guys say the same thing and, well, you can probably guess where things went. I have a guy I've been mentoring in things bisexual for a few years now and I remember him telling me that he would never get into anal sex with a guy and definitely would not want to be fucked and... well, guess what he's into up to his eyeballs and he started out sucking cock and like most guys do. He's not the only guy I personally know who said that but it's okay - really. I do give him da bizness about it when he admits that he likes being screwed and he definitely likes screwing other guys, sucking cock, swallowing cum and all that good stuff guys like to do... because we can.

 

It’s fun and I think you will like it as well. And you should try some other things with a guy it might surprise you and you might like it to.

 

I’m in the same camp. As I get older, sex with women interests me less and with men more. Can’t really say why but it seems to be a natural progression.

 

It was the same for me as well as so many others. I was only with a man a couple times and loved it. It’s been a long time since and yes, the older I get the stronger the urge to have sex with men gets but I love women just as much as ever and always will. Dick and man ass is fun but not a necessity. Pussy, breasts and woman ass is a necessity.

 

It's never too late! I didn't have my first bisexual experience until my wife and i separated 3 years ago. In my fantasies I was always submissive. I was always curious so I got on AFF, created my profile stating in no uncertain terms what I wanted, and got a hit. He came over to my house that evening. He admitted he always wanted another man to suck him, and I said I always wanted to suck cock. We were both nervous, so I took the lead, sat next to him on the couch and started taking off my clothes. That was all it took. In a couple minutes we were in the bedroom and he was in my mouth getting hard. I loved the feel of it! He fingered me and I sucked him until he came in my mouth.

I've had sex with 6-7 other men since then, and the experiences have ranged from so-so to incredible.

Go for it! Now all this talk and posting has got me all worked up. I'm leaking precum into my pink thong while thinking about a nice cock in my ass...

 

Since separated from my wife, I've also had a very intense relationship with another woman. Women serve the emotional side, where with men it's pretty much horny hookup sex. I don't see myself with a man in the long run, but in the short run, it's very enjoyable! I just keep my options open...

 

I've been quite lucky over the years to have several men that I've formed bonds with that provided lots of mutual oral sex with and I eventually also opened my ass up to them to experience some of the best sex ever. My wife is no longer sexually active so having those guys available had always provided us all with what we've all needed. It's been quite a while since I've had sex with anyone and have really been craving a prolonged anal fucking from a couple of guys at the same time. Just the other day I was discussing this with my wife as I was hoping she would be interested in pegging me but alas she was not. She did however say "Just get back in touch with the guys because you know they will give you everything you're needing". I'm hoping to do so later today or tomorrow.

 

I am the same way, my wife passed and I am not interested in another marriage but I am open, very open to exploring my bi side.

 

Sorry for your loss I understand about not being interested in marriage. I I do understand about being open and being every open to exploring your bi side I do understand that.

 

Thanks, that’s great

 

I am open to trading cock pictures,

 

sure if youd like