the older i get the more i want to be with another man

To my way of thinking, when two men not only enjoy great sex with one another, but, also, have a good "emotional" connection between them, the sex REALLY has to be INTENSE, with the emotional bond intensely fueling the physical connection between them.

Way to go, brother......ENJOY it ALL to the FULLEST....the ULTIMATE male bonding!

"Live long and prosper"

 

you are one lucky man

 

55 yo MWM and yes all my interest has gone to sex with another guy. I am looking for a similar FWB or occasional.
Atlanta GA (intown), professional, very discrete.

Let me know if you want to talk.

 

Seems to be quite common for older guys to go that way, lucky for me there is no shortage of guys needing to visit me.

Some are curious to suck me also, others just want to cum.

There have been some interesting conversations on the sofa, post orgasm, both of us naked and happy. Especially when I'm erect after he cums, his eyes go to my penis and he becomes curious to play with me.

I can always go for a hand job, first time he has touched another penis. Sometimes they want to watch me masturbate and cum on myself.

 

So true... the older I get the more I want a man. 66 y.o. IL/WI state line, willing and prefer to travel, do not want anyone close to my location

 

I highly doubt your attraction to men, and wanting to bottom for another guy will negate or cause you to stop liking women. Especially if you've never been with another guy before, you may become a bit cock "obsessed" initially, but that won't suddenly "make you gay."
I think it's probably pretty rare for a bisexual guy to "become gay" after his first few experiences with cock.
Unless you were gay all along (and only pretending to be straight) and didn't acknowledge it for reasons unknown, then I wouldn't really worry about wanting to stroke, suck and bottom for another guy making you suddenly "gay" and not liking women anymore.
I've always been bi and a total bottom with guys. That doesn't make me gay. I could never give up women (specifically my wife), and I highly doubt you will either.

 

Wow! read this post from the beginning and glad to see I'm not the only older married guy who has these urges and fantasies. I also had this curiosity since i was a teen but ignored it most of my life. Now being married for over 30 years am always catching myself thinking about sex with another like minded man. I haven't acted on it yet, had opportunities, but, always chickened out worried about STD and the guilt getting caught. Now that i have no sex life the frustration is overwhelming and these urges and kinky thoughts are more intense. I find myself staring at cock pictures and masturbating to gay senior porn almost daily.

 

Talk about "frustration"; imagine what I've endured for 66 years (as a masculine gay guy) and being TOTALLY celibate, with "self stimulation" my ONLY release.

I had long hoped I would eventually find "Mr. Right", who would become my lifelong best buddy/bed buddy, but, after being bashed in 1986 by a friend/co-worker simply for ADMITTING I was gay, pretty much squelched any thoughts of trying to find any sort of male partner.

I am far from the brightest bulb in the chandelier, but, even I know that NO relationship can last without trust.

And, that nightmarish incident back in 1986 has left me totally incapable of trust, terrified of being hurt again, either physically or emotionally.

Just me 2 1/2 cents worth, here............

 

Hello Grayguy57, as a buddy my heart breaks to hear of this unfortunate incident, i had a similar story when i was a teen and had feelings for this one guy in school who played me and i was mocked until i gradulated.....

 

Nothing wrong with watching gay porn, at least it's a safe outlet.
Does your wife know how strong/intense your urge for sex with another man are?
Maybe if you and your wife aren't sexually active anymore, maybe she'd give you a "hall pass" to explore the strong urges you have to one-on-one gay sex with another man.

 

I appreciate your kind words, my friend.

Ironically, the "friend" who bashed my back in 1986 was a man I wasn't even attracted to; I knew he was straight, so, it did not make any sense to try to "come on" to him, even if I HAD been attracted to him.

So very sorry to hear about your bad experience; THAT had to HURT.

Some warped people seem to derive great pleasure into taking someone's vunerability and using it as a weapon against them.

I have always loathed people like this....................

 

I was curious about other men growing up and it would just get worse as I got older. At my current age, if something were to happen between me and my wife, I'd just be gay. Well for all intents and purposes. I'd still look at women as much as I do now, but I'd have a boyfriend. I'd live by myself and I'd strictly have sex with men.

 

Yes I feel the same way my man!

 

I don't even make any effort with women anymore. I have lost hope. At least men can be fun, and won't rock my foundation if they reject me.

 

Being rocked to your foundation is when your own wife rejects you, isn't attracted to you, and never was! It does a number on your self esteem, mental & physical health with the lack of touch. Not to mention questioning your bisexuality even more when the one woman on earth that is supposed to want you, doesn't!
I'll always desire only women physically & romantically, but the simpleness of sexual release with men is appealing compared to the hoops & hurdles required with women!

 

In this, I don't think that men get to a point where they lose all interest in women but it's damned curious as to why there's this great urge to be with another man and, I think, more so in those men who, up until this point in their lives, wouldn't have given a single thought to being sexually intimate with another man. I don't pretend to understand the mechanics of this - I just know too many guys who, as they got older, they...developed an interest in sex with men and they're asking me if I know why they're interested and... I don't really know because I've been having sex with guys since I was nine so I don't know what it's like to be disconnected from this - and like men are supposed to be - and then, getting up there in age and... today's a good day to find out what it's like to suck a dick. I just do not know how that works...

 

Yes, I'm 77 and have a bit of BPH (prostate) issues and have no sex at home now for some time. When I was much younger and before I was married, I enjoyed oral sex with a couple other guys. I truly enjoyed sucking and pleasuring them. Now, I wish to re-kindle that old desire and find a nice man to pleasure. Not huge, but clean/cut and preferably married. A regular 'friendship' would be lovely. Back, way back, in my younger days I had an older friend who would entertain and suck me off on a regular basis. I would really love to be that guy now for a younger man. Probably a pipe dream but what the hell.

 

I'd love to be considered. Just what I am looking for but I cannot entertain. Central Florida if you want to meet.

 

I was also curious as a teen and finally in my 50s tried sucking a cock. Now, though I am married and love women, I love to suck cock too.

 

I full agree. I have been married 48 years and have been sucking cock for about 15 of those ( although there has been a lot of time between those encounters.). I first started to think about blowing a guy up one night while my wife was sucking me. It was obvious that she was just doing her duty. I thought,” I could do a better job myself.” Well that started the wheels turning. At first the thought grossed me out, but then I started looking at bi porn and found myself getting into it. Long story short, I finally tried it and YES I like it. The fly in the ointment is if I told my wife it would be all over. So I occasionally (the last time I sucked cock there had been a year gap) connect with another married man