the older i get the more i want to be with another man

As I get older I am also more attracted to men. No wining and dinning required. We (men) usually have more things in common. Men know what they want and how they want to have sexual contact. Men have no need to talk it to death before, during or after sex, whether that sex be oral, anal or kissing or sharing a mouth full of cum.

 

Dang I need to find a friend like yours.

 

I can relate and for me the urge keeps getting stronger with age, to the point where I sometimes wonder if I'm not more gay than straight. I never had any bi fantasies or curiosity until I turned 30, but once I tried it I quickly realized I enjoyed man sex and especially receiving anal. However I still felt I was far more heterosexual and this was just something on the side that wasn't that important. I got married and had kids, and in the beginning I didn't stray but after some years I couoldn't resist the urge and began to see men in secret. I tried to rationalize it as not cheating because it wasn't with a woman and was just about sex, but eventually decided I wasn't comfortable going behind my wife's back so stopped seeing men. But all that time I got more and more into gay sex and these days it is almost the only kind of porn I watch and masturbate to. Though I have pretty much resigned myself to staying faithful to my wife I am quite certain that if I were single I would be more likely to date men rather than women - although I still feel my attraction to men is mainly sexual, the idea of having a romantic and emotional relationship with a man is becoming increasingly appealing. I remember meeting a gay man who was convinced there was no such thing as bisexuality, he thought it was just a phase in the inevitable progression to becoming gay. I didn't agree with him then but now I sometimes wonder if he had a point. Although part of the process is driven by my wife losing interest in sex - I think for a lot of men this is what drives them to seek sex with men and for some make them rethink their sexuality. In an ideal world I'd be open with my wife and we'd have an open relationship where we both could have sexual partners outside the marriage, but I think she would not be interested and wouldn't be very accepting of my homosexual side.

 

Big time Ditto here.

 

This totally describes me during my first marriage. For almost 20 years of the 25 we were married I was periodically getting together with other married men for mutual oral sex and returning home to have sex with my wife. I was secretly sucking men off as my addiction for cock grew stronger and stronger. I never lost my cravings for pussy, but my cravings for cock were just overwhelming me as I was meeting up with so many different guys just to curb my craving for cock and loads of cum. I'm re-married now (7 years) and told her of my past early on and she accepted it and to this day we have a boyfriend I share with her occasionally. We suck each other off at least twice a week and also have an active sex life with our wives and there are times we all spend time together. I enjoy being bisexual and having a wife who also accepts and enjoys having a bisexual husband is just awesome.

 

SInce having sex with a man about 20 months ago I have become obsessed with cocks. and spunk.
I have wanted it since I was 18 or so, but was always too scared to do anything about it. I’m married.
Now age 65 I have had at last, cock and cum in my mouth. I love it. Think about it all the time, I fear it’s taking over my life,I’m becoming more feminine too. I find cocks and balls are beautiful and arousing to me, I want more and more, or a regular Male,source of pleasure.

 

Hey!
54 bi guy here and the urges are hitting me very strong, I’ve had them since I was 20 something, acted once then, a couple times in my 30, more in my 40 and now it’s almost out of control! I’m looking for a regular and share some fun times but with Covid makes it tough. That said I do have a gay work buddy who is offering up some fun, he guarantees a fun safe time. what would you do?

 

I prefer a married guy, to me it feels safer. Never with anyone promiscuous or reckless, I need to maintain my health and safety, and my marriage.If he is decent, find out ,you need to be safe. If so ,go for what you clearly need. The urges are very strong. Covid is yet another thing to bear in mind. Good luck.

 

I agree.

 

Sounds fun. My advice is set some boundaries and see how it goes.

 

I think as my virility declines with age, the more I need to serve the superior virility of other cocks and balls.

 

I'm sure he would provide a very fun and safe time together. I got involved with a gay man and he kept wanting more of me...I was married and not wanting that so I broke it off with him and stuck with other married men. No drama and right to the point of why you're getting together...SEX!

 

The urge for cock now at 65 seems as strong as my previous urges as a teenager, a resurgence of lust, but instead of use, I want cocks, balls, and spunk.

 

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The urge for cock now at 65 seems as strong as my previous urges as a teenager, a resurgence of lust, but instead of pussy, I want cocks, balls, and spunk..

 

Mwm 53 married for 30 years and happy but my curiosity about men is growing . I have a specific desire for an older man or one about my age. No desire for younger men and the porn that turns me on is daddy’s or grandpas. Wife would never understand and I don’t want to lose her so I’ve contented my self with porn and realised it will probably never happen

 

20 years ago pretty much all I wanted was pussy. These days I have ZERO interest in pussy. All I want is COCK.

 

Its a wonderful feeling.

 

Sounds very much like my story.

 

Married with kids grown. 62 now and always had bi curiosity but lately it’s what I think about whenever I think about sex. Trying to be discreet and meet other married curious guys isn’t as easy as I thought. I’m about an hour and a half north of nyc so any of you curious guys who are about my age and in the same geographical region don’t hesitate to reach out, it would be good to talk if possible. No doubt I’d be an oral bottom.

 

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