So hi, first of all, excuse my english, its not my first language... I'm 25, and I'm a lesbian..hey hey And I have a question for everybody of course, but I will appreciate others gay girls opinions, because after all...well...u know. It's a pussy question...pardon my french as well. So all my life I have been the proud owner of a pussy with a slightly bigger labia...outter lips or whatever its called. I have been with men and women, I never heard any complains or any comments at all actually. But lately I'm seeing some stuff here and there and I suddenly discovered that this is thing is considered gross...not a nice thing to hear. Now I'm starting to doubt everything But because I'm seeing mostly men opinions, I would like to hear some women opinions, especially those women who like other women. Is that a problem for you? Does it turn you off? I mean I consider myself a beautiful woman aaaand everything else is fine according to me...so what? I should suffer now because I obviously have some horrible, horrible thing that suddenly make all my goods dissapear? Please share your thoughts, be honest, I can take it I saw an old topic about the same thing, but it was 3 years ago, so lets see if people's minds have changed.
If you have been happy, for 25 years, you should continue being happy. I don't know what could have changed your mind? My wife has large labia minora, and at one time she was embarressed, but later changed her mind. She got comments at times, when showering in gym class, and a few stares. The thing is some people like large lips and some don't. She found some men and women as well, are attracted to them.
Ever had any , and I mean ANY complaints???? I bet the answer is "no." There is the solution to your problem - which actually is that there is NO problem. Personally, I love large labia - and I'm pretty much gay. I also love small labia, floppy labia, hairy labia - in fact all sorts and sizes. never been with a woman who's pussy hasn't just been perfect. You're you! Forget the rent-seeking marketers and put all your doubts behind you. To repeat, THERE IS NO PROBLEM.
I never head any complaints. You are right. But because I have seen the comments through the internet and..its normal not to feel ok. As far as I see its 50/50. Some like it, some dont. Sooo I just have to learn to live with it and hopefully I will not go to bed with somebody who will feel disgusted... Its just ...the fact that it became sucha thing it shocked me, because I never really spent too much time thinking about this kind of stuff...I mean who's got the time? Why do u have to spend so much energy in thinking in so many details Anyway, thanks for the answers.