You know that 70's Steve Martin movie the Lonley Guy. I feel exactly like that. I'm a shy person to begin with so making friends is hard. I also find it hard meeting guys into dating, and ltr's. Always seems like a sex now and leave you culture going on. I've tried and am trying multiple personal sites to no avail. Even find it hard to make gay friends. All of this and I live in a very gay populated city. Feel like the perpetual lonely guy.
Your'e Not Going To Like My Reply But I'm Going To Give It Anyway........ It's Called Getting Older, Or To Say It Less Hurtfully "Growing Up", I Found The Same Thing Happening As I Matured And Started Looking For A More Meaningful Relationship Based On More Than Just "Spit & Spunk", Just Present Yourself Well And I'm Sure One Day You Will Trip Over "Mr Right"...... :biker: Cheers Glen.
Meeting folks in general is not an easy undertaking. I have low levels of trust with most people (especially strangers). I'm even relatively tight-lipped around my biological family as the members don't always share my sense of propriety. Bars and gay churches are the most logical outlets for meeting like-minded folk. Of course, you run the risk of running into some heavy, practicing alcoholics with the former. Personals ads can be dicey; the older I get the less enthusiastic I am about being totally honest about my height/weight proportion or my real age. Good luck with the search.
