Has porn been a major influence on your Bi Curiosity and Sexual Desires, to take things to another level of sexual pleasure and awareness?
YES, I think the INTERNET and the massive abundance of available porn has fueled a LOT of expanded sexual horizons, for all genders.
Definitely gave me a lot of ideas to try. Also made me rethink trying some things I wanted to try after actually seeing it happen.
This movie stopped me in my tracks in the Bi section of an adult bookstore at age 18 when I could finally visit one? I was expecting to see ffm, but saw an mmf cover instead! I was mesmerized, had to buy it, didn't care what the cashier thought! I hid it by the spare tire inmy trunk, prayed I never had an accident & family or friends went to change the flat if I was in the hospital! LOL! Passion By Fire The Big Switch 2 (1986) Scene 2: Nikki Randall, Cole Carpenter, JT Denver I'd never really thought about being with an mf couple before this. Brought back some great memories finding this online
I think I've always thought some things would feel good . The physical side. Didn't want to watch Gay porn years ago but I'm ok watching on my own. Always fantasized about lesbians and ffm but would test the water with guys or better still mmf with her encouraging exploration
I don’t think porn has been the influence. I was thinking about men before I ever started watching porn. Religion is what discouraged me from doing anything about my homosexual feelings. Now that I’ve broken away from that and am free to do as I want without the church condemning me, I want to be with a man. I want to be a perfect submissive bottom for a kind hearted man. It’s what I want and I’ve been suppressing that desire for decades.
I would have to say yes. Watching gay porn and getting turned on made me realize that I liked what I seen and then desired to do the same things I would watch.
Definate yes for me. Both from the stories and videos and seeing how it could be enjoyed. I never saw, read or talked with anyone about gay or bi sexual stuff. So porn and erotic reading has been my education and mostly to open my mind to new and interesting possibilities.
No, doing it for real does it for me. I have searched out amateur porn to watch with my disinterested wife to maybe spur her along, and maybe I use some to masturbate for relief, but real life is my influence.
Gay porn has been a major part of my life for the last 30 years, to the point where it became an addiction, I'm sad to admit, and straight and lesbian porn before then. The gay porn fuelled my fantasies in a powerful way, always driving me out to find the real thing in the bathhouses and other gay sex venues. Fortunately in the last 9 years it's been almost exclusively getting together with guys in each other's homes through hookup sites and apps, but I find the search for that, especially for good people, tedious and difficult, and therefore not enough of--nowhere near enough--dropping me back into gay porn and tons of masturbation. But I'm texting with a guy as I write this who is a new friend from a large gay social group I participate in, but he might become more (I hope). I would be out with them (and him) now if I didn't have Covid.
It really didn’t influence me in getting started at all. I had the desire before porn was a thing on the internet even if it did take me a long time to act on it.
It was a pretty big influence although I had no idea at the time. The first porn I ever watched was straight porn with some kinks. One scene was kinda a dom scene and a girl told a guy to lick his cum off her. That eventually had me tasting my own cum and it’s not hard to see where that went. Another scene a guy watched his wife have sex with another guy and liked it. That brought me toward MMF stuff and another scene was a guy that was put in a bra/stockings by several women. I’m not a cd but I did find it arousing. I had no idea at the time those scenes were going to lead me toward bisexuality but they did. Eventually I was interested in bi porn but there absolutely had to be a girl in the scene. Once in a chat room a guy told me I’d get over that and that when being with a guy, a girl is kinda in the way. I would love a MMF threesome in real life but now when I watch porn it’s either straight porn or gay porn. Not much in between. I’m either in the mood to see guy/girl or a guy having sex with a guy.
I am in a similar way as you are now, I'm either feeling straight and only interested sexually in a woman, or feeling gay and only interested sexually in a man. The only difference is that nowadays straight porn gives me an uneasy, more confused feeling, because there's both a cock and man there, and a pussy and woman there. Ditto with MMF/FFM bi porn. So with porn, it's just lesbian or gay for me. Plus I also LOVE the homosexuality in lesbian liaisons: I love everything that is sex and love between two people at the same sex. But nowadays it's just mostly gay desires with me.
