The great blowjob challenge!!

Right, let’s get down to business! I am seeing a new guy and he’s great buuuut he claims he’s never come from a blowjob before. :O I don’t accept that kind of talk as I am a very enthusiastic pleasure giver! I enjoy giving oral to man and have always received very good feedback, and am forever learning something new. I love to please my man and satisfy him fully, and I have promised him that I can get him there.

I know some people have difficulty getting an orgasm from other people- I am definitely one of them, but I can do it once I’m fully relaxed and in the moment (and directing whoever is doing it) . We have had sex and he’s capable of coming, but just not from oral. I first gave him a blowjob and he was rock solid and I thought he would have let off at any moment but he didn’t. I wasn’t really trying to make him come at the time because I wanted to have sex. But the second time I was sucking and doing whatever for about forty five minutes, pulling out all my best moves that have worked wonders before- no dice. I was paying attention to his breathing, his reactions etc and adjusting myself accordingly. I know sometimes after a while there’s no chance of an orgasm cos it’s just gets too much. I don’t want to put any pressure on him and I made sure not to ask, ‘are you close? Are you gonna do it?’ I want to make him feel relaxed and comfortable with me and not like I’m just trying to drain him for all he’s worth, because then that makes him think about it.

So, ladies (or gay men ) what do you do to get him off? Is there a technique that never fails for you? And guys what do you love having done to you that really knocks your socks off? I really want to get him there!

 

Thread title reminded me of this story

 

Not another falling for the old "I've never had a decent blowjob" trick

 

I keep seeing this too.
Though I don't think less than a second on each guy constitutes oral sex. I'd feel a bit ripped off I think.

 

I can make any other guy cum in a matter of minutes with a bj, but my guy very rarely cums from them (with anyone doing it, not just me).

 

Challenge Accepted

 

Lol! Newp.

 

Holding off maybe, to see how long you'd do it for?

Never met a man who couldn't unless we were very drunk and his mind wasn't all there with him.

 

How long would you be going for, before you'd consider that the guy was holding off?

 

Hmmmm? Hahaha I honestly don't think he has- he's not had many partners or long term lovers and when he does stuff to me, he doesn't seem that experienced sexually. It could just be that? He's not used to getting blowjobs?

Not too sure? Could be trying to get a long blowjob haha! Is that what you mean? I have already told him I'm prepared to do whatever he wants for as long as he wants. Would a man want/need a bj for forty five minutes? He is definitely the longest consistent blowjob I've ever given.

I have had the same thing! I am not boasting but I am proud that I can give good oral sex, so this has me stumped...

 

I won't cum quickly from oral unless I've been waiting out for days with no orgasm. And I seem to need to thrust a bit to even reach the orgasm. Not sure if it's a muscle related thing that I use to achieve it but there's a significant difference between being sucked and then thrusting also.

 

Pffffft you cannot possibly know that

 

Know what?

 

I assume that you could make /every/ guy cum in minutes. =p
Though id like to think you know what you're doing with that sultry little mouth.

 

I do have quite the reputation when it comes to using my mouth .

 

When you do receive positive feedback about oral it gives me a boost of personal confidence. I've never been told I've given a bad blowjob and once was told that the worst blowjob is still better than the best wank lol so if there's any truth to that we are all doing okay.

 

Idk about that. I've heard my share of bj horror stories from friends.

 

Braces getting caught? I've heard of that one lol and once I heard that a guy was cut with the teeth and couldn't stop bleeding. That wouldn't be very fun at all. I can say I've only had positive experiences so far.

 

I wonder if anyone has ever goten the head of their cock bit off

 

Using teeth (there's a lady in the local swinger community who many people call "dick skinner" lol), squeezing it way too hard, too messy, not messy enough, scratching balls with their nails... there's a lot of things can go wrong haha.