The Great Big Anal Sex Thread!

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Thank you.

and for anyone who's interested,

Dean did not mean

"Die as if your life is worthless,
dream as if you'll die today."

 

I don't think it is necessary or advisable to use an enema to cleanse the colon.

 

hi i like anal masturbation i do it about 8 times a week but i wondered if you had any tips on it


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Why do u guys make it sound so complicated. Good God!! If u want to have anal sex then do it. If u don't care about safe sex then dont use a condem. If u no the person really well then no need for a codem. If this person is someone u dont no then use a condem. God, just enjoy yrself and f*ck away. Have some fun already.

 

This guy will have 47 STDs by age 23....

 

The biggest fallacy about HIV testing is that a clean test means you don't have HIV. It is EXTREMELY common for someone with HIV to test negative for several months, then test positive. During those months they are just as capable of transmitting the virus as after they test positive. A negative test is good, but it is far from proof.

 

Can't say i'm into it, sorry.

 

What do you want to know?

 

the first time you had anal sex what was it like to give and recive and the last time you have anal sex was it good?

 

I have never received, but I have always loved fucking a man, woman, or tgirl anally. The first time with a man was so hot. Reaching around to stroke his hard cock while my own was sliding in and out of that tight, hot opening was incredible. A sexy tgirl is great too, because you get the best of both worlds. Even the worst anal is good.

 

what was it like and whats it like now?

 

First time? Well of course it hurt but it can hurt anytime you don't take your time. You can't just throw something in there & expect it to feel good. You have to be relaxed to be able to enjoy it.

I started with pens & smaller things then moved on to a few fingers at a time gently adding another,not just shoving three in at a time. Now I love using big thick devices whether it be a big dick (although that's been awhile) or a thick dildo. For me,the bigger the better but I have to be ready for it. I'll start out by using my index fingers on both hands & gently pulling away from each other & you can feel it stretching. Do that for a few minutes then I just finger bang myself til I'm horned up & feel like I'm ready to go bigger. When you are ready,it feels so fucking good that you won't even have to stroke yourself to get off. I usually ride slow just to enjoy every inch going deeper & pulling out,then when I get close to cumming that's when I pick up the pace & ride hard & hit it as deep as I can go to where it's up against your prostate. It makes for an intense orgasm that lasts a few seconds longer than usual.

Oh and another thing that I use to highten the sensation? I use a mirror. I love watching it go in & out of me.

 

is anal sex good?and the first time you do it is it painfull and tight?cheers

 

I'm assuming that when you ask, " is anal sex good?" you are asking if it feels good. In that respect yeah it feels awesome (with the right person)

The draw backs to anal sex the first time is if you don't have a partner that is concerned about you it can be extremely painful and a very bad experience. You never want someone who, "just wants to stick it in."

You need to be with someone who knows what they are doing and willing to take the time to prepare you for the experience. By that I mean you have to be in the mood and he has to take the time to make sure your body is completely relaxed and properly stimulated and the anus itself has to be prepped or stretched prior to pentration.

Keep this in mind, when someone is fucking you its your butt and YOU are in control period! You don't want to be with someone who is only interested in getting their rocks off and only using your butt as a means to their own self gratification.

One of the best positions to have anal sex is to straddle the guys chest facing him and slowly sit on his dick, by having anal sex in this manner you can control the rate of penetration and you can stop at any time it feels too painful and than continue as your anus stretches and becomes accustom to the intrusion.

Another thing that helps a great deal is to masturbate while he is penetrating your butt hole, it relaxes the anal muscle and makes it a lot easier

With that said lets talk about what you can expect, ok?

I'm going to mention this because I've been with some guys that don't know this. YOU NEED TO CLEAN YOURSELF out prior to anal sex or it can be "very" messy and embarrassing. There are a few ways to prep yourself, the most common method is to use a douche bag which nothing more than a water bottle with a hose. Simply fill the water bottle with warm (not hot) water sit on the toilet, insert the plastic syringe into your rectum and release the clip and let the water flow until you feel full and than just let it pour. Do that a few times should do it. Most guys will run through two to three bottles of water just to be sure and confident.

You can also buy a Saline soulution called "Fleet", you mix it according to directions with water and drink it down. Don't go far from the bathroom because for the next 4 hours you will be pooping. The Fleet method really works the best because it cleans out the entire intestine track and not just the rectum. However, you need to be on an empty stomach when you use it.

There are also disposable Fleet douche's but I don't recommend them they don't seem to do an adequate job and they're very awkward to use.

Ok, now that you are nice and clean and confident lets get to the nitty gritty.

Lets assume the boy you are with has prepped you properly by blowing you, rubbing your back, kissing your butt gently, caressed your butt crack, rimed you and used his fingers to prepare your anal ring, ok?

The very first time you have anal sex you will feel very "full", meaning once he has his dick inside you, you will feel like you have to take a "massive" shit! It is natural and it only happens the first few times you have anal sex.

The great thing about anal sex is while the boy is fucking you his dick stimulates the prostate gland. The closer you are to orgasm the more intense the sensation becomes, and I mean intense. By that I'm telling you this, take the feeling you normally get from blowing a load and multiply it by 100 that's how intense the orgasm will be.

Something else will also happen while he's fucking you, without even touching yourself your dick will flow with semen and you will feel what I call a "bonus" orgasm. It won't be your natural total orgasm but since the sperm is flowing out your penis it will feel like a regular orgasm. You may not understand now what I'm talking about, but you will and man is it great!

Ok, that about covers all the basics and what you can expect. But now I'm going to tell you about something, however you have to use common sense with what I'm about to tell you or you can hurt yourself if you are one of those guys who is into putting huge things up your butt.

There is a product called Orajel, its designed for tooth ache pain. It contains 20% benzocaine which is a temporary expediant, in other words its an anesthetic. Just one(1) very small drop massaged onto the anus will numb the area, and even if the guy has a thick dick you won't feel the pain of the soft tissues tearing and stretching. However, the next day YOU WILL BE VERY SORE.

I'm going to add one more thing and I don't mean this as an insult to your intelligence.
I know that you have heard about STD's and especially HIV and Hepatitis. The fact is the guy on the bottom getting fucked has a more likely chance of getting a STD than the guy doing the actual fucking. And that's because the soft tissue and the tiny blood vessels in the rectum have a tendency to break with little irritation. There are also unproven theories that guys that are uncircumcised are also more prone to STD's. Just a, "word to the wise."

I say this only as a caution and not telling what to do, but the more you know the better. As the ole saying goes, "you can't fool the educated".

I hope this was informative for you and if I didn't explain something fully feel free to contact me.

 

WOW^ ya i cant answer your question sorry.. but that should have^^

 

whats anal sex like and first time does it hurt

 

_stan_ sounds like a nice boy !
I bet if you ask him nicely he would join your forum with a lot of posts
and some cool links you would all enjoy
Who knows he may even be very "accomodating"

 

Anal sex will hurt alot if you do not take the right steps to ensuring it doesnt.. The best thing to do is first off take a little bit of lube.. If your intending to be fucked.. Place some on one finger and first off slowly finger yourself and learn how to relax.. I know that after one try two three and then four.. Usually four fingers covers the width of an average cock.. Undertake this activity for five minutes taking it easy relaxing and chilling out without hurting yourself during the sensation.
After it has been done then request that your shag sticks a condom on.. Under no circumstances go bareback because you can never gurantee 100% that he could be clear of everything.. But wearing protection lowers chances.. Ensure that he places plenty of lube on the condom and places your legs over his shoulders so your in like a U position.. Slowly begin breathing and it may sting the first time but once its in dont withdraw immediately just hold it there for a few moments as the pain does fade away once your anal passage has expanded..
Take it easy and slowly to ensure minimum pain is felt.. Slowly get your shag to fuck ya and take deep breaths to ensure your remaining relaxed.. You may feel a small pain from within but that small pain turns to pleasure once you relax as it is your G spot that is being pressed.. Once your comfortable take it as fast and hard or slow and gentle as you wish..

I would recommend though emptying your bowels first and having a top to tail Bath so that your clean as there is nothing more embarrissing than a small stain on the condom as it comes out but most cases both parties expect that to happen.. Its great though when it doesnt

Good luck =)

 

I'm bringing this back, after a private email from a thread requesting an anal information thread

 

Anal sex can be a lot of fun if you relax and enjoy the feeling of a cock moving in and out of your rectum. I am a bottom and enjoy having a man fuck me. I also have used my fingers to rub the prostate gland while giving head to a guy and usually he will pump a much bigger load than normal. I have come while being fuck by a man most of the time if he is really moving his cock over my prostate gland. It just feels GREAT. Sometimes I come a lot and other times it is only a small amount and the rest is dry pumping.
Also, This is not part of the discussion, but if you ever suck your man's balls while he or you jack him off - he will really love it when he cums. He will feel like his whole body is moving forward.

The biggest thing is to take it easy and slow until he can get his cock in and then just get use to the feeling by having him move it around slowly and in and out slowly before going to town so to speak.