The Great Big Anal Sex Thread!

Discussion in 'Gay Polls' started by freedbypeace, Jul 1, 2004.

  1. txbarefooter

    txbarefooter Senior Member

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    the first real key to anal is being RELAXED, VERY RELAXED, if you tense up it'll be harder for him to get in and it'll cause you pain. Also, foreplay with finger stimulation of the anus will help loosen things up and may help you relax. take things slow and has been said, don't forget the condoms.
     
  2. kif

    kif Member

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    I get no enjoyment out of being a bottom, I'm more of a top man. But theres occasions where I bottom for my partner of 3 years and this is what we do. Start off with a little rimming, that should get you relaxed and into it more. Then have your friend lube his fingers up and finger you with one finger while getting oral, it helps you relax (does me anyway). after you get used to one finger, have him start to work a second in slowly, once you adjust to that, have him roll a condom on, lube up good and have him ease it in slowly. You will be ok, and maybe you'll enjoy it a lot. I know my partner loves to bottom, and I love to top.;) Hope this helps you out.
     
  3. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    how old are you?
     
  4. james q

    james q Uranian

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    you can fuck me then i can turn over and fuck you. what's fairer than that?
     
  5. Ocean Byrd

    Ocean Byrd Artificial Energy

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    Psh, not fair for me... I have issues about that organ, lol.
     
  6. Defence_mechanism

    Defence_mechanism Member

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    hahaha not fair for me, i don't have a penis!

    but i like the way you think! :p
     
  7. james q

    james q Uranian

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    don't let that stop u. strap on a dildo and assume the alpha pose girl!
     
  8. gertie

    gertie Senior Member

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    i like that idea

     
  9. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    Wouldn't oral penetration then be fair for men?

    If strap-ons are an option, wouldn't oral and vaginal be fair for women and mixed-sex couples?

    Fingers can also penetrate.
     
  10. Jorma's Branches

    Jorma's Branches Member

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    I hate anal sex. And i've had a lot of it. I...I just don't /like/ it.
     
  11. james q

    james q Uranian

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    oh god, what a can of worms. let's just say i was addressing my original comments to other gay men.

    it can be an acquired taste, that's for sure. but that doesn't make it any less democratic ;)
     
  12. Jorma's Branches

    Jorma's Branches Member

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    Oh, it's quite democratic. :)
    I'm just not a big fan.
     
  13. james q

    james q Uranian

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    which begs the question: 'what does please you, young prince?"
     
  14. kif

    kif Member

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    I love to top, but not into being the bottom. Sure I do it every now and then for my partner, but thats only because I love him and he enjoys pitching at times. Other than that it does nothing for me what-so-ever.
     
  15. txbarefooter

    txbarefooter Senior Member

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    I'm just the opposite of kif, I only bottom and I really enjoy anal sex.
     
  16. Ocean Byrd

    Ocean Byrd Artificial Energy

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    omg... I wish there were more girl's like you. ;)
     
  17. james q

    james q Uranian

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    on reflection sd let me put my question again:
    'you (finger) fuck me then i roll over and (finger) fuck you. what could be fairer than that?
    there, all genders are catered for and the world remains safe for democracy!
     
  18. james q

    james q Uranian

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    me too altho' i used to top all the time. that was when i also fucked girls. i sometimes wonder if gay guys who only top have more in common with straight guys than they do with nelly bottoms.
     
  19. Duncan

    Duncan Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Does anyone know what he is even talking about? DEMOCRATIC? Do you mean reciprocal? No two are alike. It's the gunner, not the gun. Why am I even responding to this ?
     
  20. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    look ive asked this before without much luck, i dunno why, seems like people dont wanna talk about it? at any rate, having got hemmeroids and experienced how doing a shit is on them, ive not heard anything about hemmeroids with men who have anal sex a lot? it makes no sense to me that some men would get bad hemmeroids very often from putting so much pressure and stress on their anus.

    so whats the deal? do gay men get a lot of hemmeroids? any? why can doing a shit give em but not anal sex???

    and they fuckin hurt sometimes too, i could imagine it would put a gay feller out of action for a while
     

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