The first time u masturbated to orgasm was it on pourpose or an accident?

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  1. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    a porpoise....hm....what size?
     
  2. Cosmic wonderland

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    Mayor Salt,

    You're welcome! I am quite surprised at how many guys still have misconceptions about the male orgasm these days. Especially when the truth is only a Google search away. I have always been a very curious person. I was very curious about my body at that age & I explored pretty much every aspect of it. When I discovered the wonderful pleasure I could give myself, I naturally experimented with my new-found ability to figure out how it worked & to see if there were ways to make it feel even better. I can't imagine not being curious about such things. :)

    Youngnpassion,

    Exactly! From Wiki: 'Males who experience dry orgasms can often produce multiple orgasms, as the refractory period is reduced.[14][20] Some men are able to masturbate for hours at a time, achieving orgasm many times.[20] Many men who began masturbation or other sexual activity prior to puberty report having been able to achieve multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms. Some evidence indicates that orgasms of men before puberty are qualitatively similar to the "normal" female experience of orgasm, suggesting that hormonal changes during puberty have a strong influence on the character of male orgasm.[21] Some men have been multiorgasmic since they can recall, while others have learned to achieve multiple orgasms.[14] A number of studies have pointed to the hormone prolactin as the likely cause of the male refractory period. Because of this, there is currently an experimental interest in drugs which inhibit prolactin, such as cabergoline (also known as Cabeser, or Dostinex). Anecdotal reports on cabergoline suggest it may be able to eliminate the refractory period altogether, allowing men to experience multiple ejaculatory orgasms in rapid succession. At least one scientific study supports these claims,[22] although cabergoline is a hormone-altering drug and has many potential side effects. It has not been approved for treating sexual dysfunction.[22] Another possible reason for the lack or absence of a refractory period in men may be an increased infusion of the hormone oxytocin. It is believed that the amount by which oxytocin is increased may affect the length of each refractory period.'

    My orgasmic experience before puberty matches the female pattern below. The multiples I experienced back then were mind-blowing. It happened that very first time when I accidentally gave myself that first dry orgasm when I was 5. I always experienced 3 or 4 30-second orgasms in a row - and sometimes more. It often felt like one wildly-intense two-minute orgasm! I also discovered that if I kept going after that, I could repeat the entire experience over & over again with only a couple of minutes between 'volleys'. The only limit was my ability to handle the intensity. I discovered all of that the same day that I discovered orgasms. I was a very, very happy kid! :D I often tried to see how many orgasms I could have in a row before I couldn't stand it anymore. For many years, I thought all guys experienced orgasms in pretty much the same way as I did. Shortly after my first ejaculation, my orgasmic experience changed to the male pattern below. My refractory period went from zero to about 10 minutes or so. For the most part, I also lost the ability to repeat the experience right away. To make things worse, the intensity of my new single-shot orgasms was far lower than what I was used to experiencing. I was not at all prepared for such sudden, dramatic, and unwelcome changes to something as personal as my orgasmic experience! None of the books I had read about puberty mentioned a thing about it. I actually thought something was wrong with me at first, but I didn't dare bring it up to anyone. I was a very frustrated kid for awhile! I'm glad that I was able to experience those wonderfully-intense multiples for 7 years before puberty kicked in & changed everything. I also think it's pretty cool that those of us who started early actually know how female orgasms feel. :)

    This stuff should be in the sex-ed books and and every masturbation book for young boys. I wonder how many guys missed out on the opportunity to experience such wonderful feelings, simply because they weren't aware that it was even possible.

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  3. Mayor Salt

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    I'm fascinated by the possible correlation between prolactin and the refractory period... I wonder if it has a corollary effect on women who are experiencing elevated prolactin levels due to breastfeeding?
     
  4. monkjr

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    I'm a guy and I basically went through the exact same thing growing up til present day now.

    On rare occasions I don't have a refractory period, but it's become exceedingly rare as I get older.
     
  5. inthydreams911

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    When I was little before I could actually produce cum. I would rub myself to pleasure myself, but when I got to the orgasm it was always the strangest sensation. It would feel good up until the point of orgasm, but then the orgasm actually word hurt a bit. Like I guess because something was supposed to come out, but nothing was there.

    It took me awhile to understand what that sensation was. Finally when I hit puberty I had a better understanding of what was happening. And the first time actually ejaculating was defiantly on purpose. I remember my friends were talking about the first cum, and I tried and tried until mine finally came. It was like a drop the first time, but with something actually coming out of my penis, it felt a lot more pleasurable.
     
  6. kairilove

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    Accidently on purpose :) I was itentionally touching myself but had no idea what was going to happen.

    It was when I was 7 I think; I had discovered how good it felt to touch my naughty place and did it a lot, especially once I started getting excited over someone else being spanked. The fateful day I went home with a friend from school and she got in trouble and got her bare butt whipped in front of me, and I got that tingley feeling between my legs. That night in the bathtub I started touching myself thinking about seeing the spanking and suddeny this wave of pleasure just shot though me and made me shiver and whimper and I felt incredible. Naturally I was curious if I could do that again and the orgasm addiction began :D
     
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    Funny, i was just talking to my friend about his, it came up in a series of completely random conversations while intoxicated the other day haha. Anyways yea i had no idea what i was doing for a while started when i was maybe 5 or and one day i realized what it was ahaha
     
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    I guess I was around 10. in bed and suddenly i found my self getting hard. reached down to check yup really. and started to play with it. did not cum that time but did the next time felt soo good
     
  9. thonger

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    I was 11, and was staying over night at my grandparents house. In those days guys were required to wear an jock strap in gym as early as 10, so I owned one, and it extremely exciting to wear it. I was in bed, and pulled off my pajama pants, and put the jock on. Pulling it up tight, I was adjusting the position of it when I discovered that pulling it up and down while rubbing the waist band lightly on my dick was really exciting. The pressure was not only on my dick but under my balls and between my legs. Then I slid the leg straps between my butt cheeks and pulled them tight. I continued the up and down, tightening and loosening motion, tightening by pulling the waist band up and then reversing. I noticed something was happening to my dick, it was feeling tingly like I had never felt before, so I stopped and the feeling faded. So I started again, and it came back. I stopped again, then restarted. Eventually I decided to find out exactly how much more intense this tingling would become. So I kept of the motion, and it kept getting more intense. Then as I went over the edge, I felt the complete loss of control. The cum muscles tightened and I creamed all over my stomach. The intense contractions actually hurt, a pronounced ache, probably because that muscle had never been used like that. I thought I'd hurt myself for sure. I was terrified I broke it. I found my way to the bathroom to see the mess I'd made, and clean it up. Eventually the pain went away. It was perhaps a week or so before I thought I'd try that again. Same technique, pulling up and down the jock strap. This time when the tingly feeling started I just kept going until I had my second orgasm. This one didn't hurt at all, it felt fantastic. I'd discovered something new, I was pretty sure nobody else knew about this! But friends at school started talking about it, and I realized I wasn't alone. I got into the pattern of doing it every night, sometimes twice a day. Then something rather disturbing happened: The guys at school started talking about jackin' off as if it was something bad! Or something to be ashamed of. How sad. But that never stopped me. I used that jock strap for masturbation until it literally fell apart, then I crudely sewed it back together and did it some more. That poor little kids jock had quite a work out before I retired it.
     
  10. Country girl

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    i first started exploring my body when i was 10. i played with myself because it felt nice and it kinda relaxed me. then one time when i could of only been 13 and was in the bath so i thought i would have a play. this time was different, my whole body started to tingle, and started to come alive. with this new sensation i continued until i now know is an orgasm. it was such a amazing feeling, this intense rush came over me, i tingled, my clit throbbed and at the time i thought it was just me that could do this. such an awesome experience and i've enjoyed it ever since.
     
  11. MrSpankHappy

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    I can remember rubbing against my pillow or stuff toy at a very young age...I hadn't even hit puberty yet... and I would do it until it I went numb.. I couldn't cum.. I think I was 8 at the time.. but it WAS on purpose.
     
  12. bennyhaha77

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    These are really entertaining stories. It's interesting to hear how people had their first.

    I was something like 10 or 11. My grandparents had a giant old school satellite dish. It was the kind where you actually have to adjust the dish through a remote to tune in different channels. As I was going through the stations one day I ran across the Playboy channel. I remember feeling so excited. Although it was fairly tame by todays standards I was completely fascinated watching these people have sex. I would seek down to the basement every chance I had to tune in this channel. After we got home (my grandparents lived about 12 hours away so it was always a 2-3 week vacation) I was in the bath one night and had just drained the water but was still in the tub. I rolled over onto my belly and stated humping the bottom of the tub...just like I had seen in the movies. Suddenly I felt the pain like so many have described. It hurt...it also felt really good. I don't think I had any semen but I really can't remember. From that day on every time I took a bath I would hump the tub to orgasm. It was only later that I discovered that I could also do it by hand. I haven't turned back since!:)
     
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    I was in 6th grade..I remember I was watching those late night hbo shows..and to be honest with you, I really don't remember if I was fully aware of what I was doing..like, I'm not sure if I knew I was going to actually have an orgasm..damn..your thread really got me thinking now..haha :D
     
  14. Son of John

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    When my two cousins and I were skinny-dippin, the older one showed us "something" and jacked-off while we watched. I wasn't really aware of what he might be feeling, nor did I see if he actually ejaculated.

    Later, when I was by myself, I tried doing what I had seen him do. (This was not the first time, by any means, that I had enjoyed playing with my cock, but it was never more than that) This time I did it will intent, after having watched how my cousin stroked his cock.

    I was not ready for what happened then. I came with an intensity that scared the hell out of me. I thought I had done something to damage my cock, and as the feelings subsided, I promised myself to never do it again.

    But by the next day, I was brave enough to try it again, and this time I came with pure pleasure. From that day on I jacked-off an average of once a day until I got married at age 22.

    I truly believe that masturbation is the primary source of sexual pleasure for the young male. And, now that I am older, I still love jacking-off and cumming with intensity!!
     
  15. BlueStreak98

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    I pillow humped back then... and it was DEFINITELY on purpose!
     
  16. Iliketowatch

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    Interesting stuff CW. As I mentioned previously, I was definitely younger than 10 when I started masturbation and recall initially I wouldn't go through to orgasm because the sensation was so powerful as I neared climax. Of course, I did finally stay with it to orgasm but didn't produce any ejaculate. I do recall those orgasms being extremely powerful.

    I think it was a number of years later, probably in my early teens before I started ejaculating. There were a number of times in those early teen years where certain buddies and I would get together and jack off. I recall that most of them were ejaculating on climax some time before I finally started producing semen.

    And now that I recall my very earliest orgasms and compare them to today's, I do believe they were much more powerful.

    If a very young boy's orgasm is similar to what a woman experiences, then the ladies are very lucky indeed!
     
  17. SpacemanSpiff

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    if youre going to post about children..go find another forum to do it in
     
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