The experience of losing virginity compared to what I thought!

Have you ever had a girl sit on your face? Apparently it can be a bit suffocating for the guy LOL

 

That's the problem with porn. Women should be shown in their real, natural state; complete with all the imperfections that make them a real person, and not just some sex toy.

 

No, and I'd only let the hottest of the hot do it. So that's a long way away

Well of course but you'd take a breath. And I don't necessarily mean 'sit', and more so 'up on' my face.

 

I think it's time for me to study typical vaginal hair patterns. I just wasn't expecting hair.

How come it is that I'm not attracted to the "natural" female state. Am I supposed to get hard at the sight of a hairy asshole?

 

Maybe the high maintenance ones are more inclined to wax down there. I'll go for those in future.

 

I have no idea how I messed up my reply, but it’s there in the green box lol

 

You know part of the answer. Its already been hinted at.

 

Um, I think that it's perfectly fine to want what you want. I wax/shave, and don't really see that as all that unusual, tbh. A lot of women wax or shave there, so, if that is what you like, there's nothing wrong with that. You don't need to force yourself to be attracted to something you're not. Many women like guys who ''groom'' down there too, so ...keep that in mind. lol

 

Start watching hairy pussy porn, maybe it will change something in your brain, who knows lol

 

Its alright to have preferences of course. Especially if he wants to perform a lot of oral. But he seems a bit deluded by porn.

 

No, I think it's time to study women. Began to see and appreciate them as a person. Once you get to the point where you're at least a little more focused on them than on how they will make you feel good, you're on your way to recovery.

Right now, you're way too self focused, and it's all about what she can do for you. But what can you do for her?

 

Something to consider OP, women in porn are paid to act out a lot of positions and scenes. Not that you couldn’t find someone who is adventurous but it’s hard to know anyone after a night or two. Maybe date and get to know women on a different level and go from there. You both can share your likes and dislikes and there will be less surprises when you decide to have sex.

 

That's a separate (and unrelated) issue entirely. One you should give him the benefit of the doubt on.

 

Thank you. The difference is I don't have hairs on the head or shaft of my penis. I keep the rest trimmed (not waxed).

I hope you wouldn't mind if I asked about your hair growth pattern (assuming you didn't wax), in comparison to my surprise with the girl I slept with?

 

No, there never was a time when I liked hairy assholes.

 

Fuck no. Don't settle for that hairy asshole bull shit. Tell her to wax that shit or get the fuck out!

 

It was never that out of control lol but just for my preference, I like it nearly bare. I never did it upon request lol it’s just something I like. It’s possible that she doesn’t know her options, but there are men who would like her look so to each their own. You don’t like it so that’s fine but there’s more to a woman than that. I think that if you were dating someone and really into her etc she might do that for you if you requested it.

Just for clarification of the thread title, are you a virgin?

 

but most fucking humans are awful. i was all for humans at one point, but by now i've lost all taste for them.

 

So what do you fuck if you don’t fuck humans? Dare I ask? Lol

 

mostly my hand. actually, exclusively my hand for a while now.

but that wasn't my point; i was just making a semantics joke about how fucking humans are awful, rather than how fucking humans is awful.