Hallelujah. The drought has broken!!!! Not the rainfall one - my total lack of sexual activity with another person. And surprise, surprise .....:drummer: It was with .... a MAN!!!! It was a classic 1-nite stand. He caught a plane back to Canberra at 10 am. this morning with instructions not to text, ring or try to contact in any way. he agreed! What we had was what we had!! End of story. Written like a Mills and Boon script. Me a School Principal, him a public servant. met at a conference on National Curriculum. In same working party blah, blah. Both middle forties, both single (him separated from last Xmas) both missing out badly. He, on a whim invited me to a cheap dinner. After coffee I suggested I stay the night. (am I bad???) He was such an innocent he didn't have a condom. In my experience most single guys carry at least one condom as a traveler. It hadn't ever occurred to him. so...........:devil: I took advantage of him to give both my lower orifices a workout - c'mon its years since I've had real male flesh inside me!!! He was chuffed (really pleased) as he'd never been allowed near his wife's botty. An anal virgin. Silk you popped his cherry!!! We even had breakfast together in the dining room before we went our separate ways. I feel fantastic, but as I wrote in my first sentence, I was looking -still am- to partner with another woman. Being a little bit bi certainly has its advantages.:love: I feel happy, oh so happy...............etc etc.