The Double Standard for men and women.

Samantha, have you heard of Wendy McElroy? If you haven't I hope you check her out. I found out about her today, and she seems to be an antidote to Camille Paglia. She is sex positive and a free market anarchist without all the controversial attention whoring. Pl, let me know what you think of her.

 

Cherea, yes I've heard of her. I read what she said about prostitution. She said only twenty percent of prostitutes are streetwalkers. The rest work at brothels, out of hotels, at strip clubs etc. She also said surprisingly that a lot of pimps are just managers. I find the latter hard to believe. She also wrote an article about porn.

The first article is simply called ''prostitution" and the second article is called "pornography". You should check them out. Kisses.

 

You're really up on your stuff! Impressive...I can personally vouch for the first statement. It does sound right to me. I'm not sure about pimps, but I am forever skeptical of any attempt to turn people into pure victims. Kiss.

 

I met a girl once when we were 18, she had been a prostitute for 5 years at that time and even as we became good friends for a few years that's where it remained. We lost contact for a few years after that and a whole lot had changed for both of us and we ended up getting together 10 years after we first met. She quit prostitution at 21 but ended up as a drug dealer in the male stripper circuit, which meant she ended up sleeping with a lot of strippers.
Single handedly she changed everything for me sexually. She had pretty much done it all, seen it all tried it all. She had ever size, done every position, every rhythm, every speed and she really knew what pleased her and what pleased me. We ended up being together for almost 10 years but as other parts of our relationship began to faulted our sex life eventually diminished and so did our relationship.

I Prefered singlehood after that as I felt I would never get the same kind of experience again. Upon first dating my current girlfriend she felt compelled to divulge the amount of past lovers as I figured it was unusually high (90). I couldn't see how this was at all a problem and it has actually turned out that once again all my expectations have been exceeded.

For the record I also have to say that both these women carried themselves quite well and were not blantant floozyish appearing in the stereotype that goes with typical Slut descriptions. So I'm not just ok with sluts I am all for them, do it respectively, responsibly and discreetly and you can get away with anything.

 

So she started the job as a prostitute at 13?
Isn't that dangerous and illegal?

Or was this a different country where that happened?

 

I can definitely relate.

 

[/QUOTE]=monkjr;7924891]So she started the job as a prostitute at 13?
Isn't that dangerous and illegal?

Or was this a different country where that happened?[/QUOTE]


Yes, she did start at 13, was manipulated into it and it was extremely dangeous and illegal but that never stopped anyone from picking her up or pimping her out. Her mother died and her father was an abusive alcoholic, this became the alternative. The entire world doesn't have everyones best interests at heart all the time, even in this so called civilised nation.
I also have no idea what country has safe and legal prostitution for underage women, that doesn't exist as far as I know.

 

According to Islam, being left handed is evil.
In fact, according to Islam there isn't much that isn't evil, apart from the evil acts they commit themselves in the name of Allah or Mohammed.

 

God did not bless you with a brain, child. Ever stop to consider that I just don't like You? And whomever else I oppose.

From the person who victimizes herself around every corner whining and crying to the guys on this board, you make yourself appear impotent and helpless. Sounds like you were projecting when you spoke about me because you're the sad sap sitting at home that needs attention from men farrrrrr more than I do.

You sure miss the forrest for the trees don't you? Constant fights with women. There are a handful of you that I don't like, but I speak my mind TO EVERYONE. And there are far more women on this site that I DO like aside from you! You came to this conversation looking for an argument with me because YOU oppose my beliefs.

Here's a bit of advice, stop worrying about me and everything I do. Aside from this comment here I can hardly bring myself to read your boring posts. So you go your way, and I go mine. Happily ever after we go.

 

I've not had a fight with any woman on this board besides you. I really hope you get some mental health treatment before it's too late. Personally I got mental health support 15 years ago and haven't needed any in the past 10 years. It's really nice. I came to this conversation to defend the real victim of this thread, who was raped and then attacked by you.

I feel sorry for you. You should really look up gaslighting and borderline personality disorder. Maybe it's just an internet thing for you, but there really is help for these things.

Personally I love women and prioritize sisterhood far above relationships with men. I already have brothers and plenty of father-figures in my life. I'm a lot more interested in women at this point in my life and have found many allies on this site. So, I really encourage you to get some serious therapy and be honest about what's going on in your life with your therapist.

I don't really care what you have to say to me, I'm just in a very generous mood at the moment.

But I will continue to point out the hilarity of you thumbing down all my posts because it amuses me to no end.

Cheers!

 

double post

 

Sisterhood and calling someone mentally ill do not go hand in hand "sister". It's also not nice to mock the mentally ill that way. I have a feeling that if I don't act like the bigger person here this will just continue. Just know I've got better things to do than follow you around thumbing your things down. Wow now you have to live with the stark reality that other people are doing it and not me.


As far as rape goes (not directing this at to you usedtobehoney-pretty sure I need to clarify since you think I am only here for you) . Rape is serious and not to be taken lightly. Still hold true to my feelings as stated before.