As I was taught never utter a word if it isn't nice. You all seem rather rude so as a bit of frustration in you all for you judging something in which you don't know I bid you a farewell and hope that maybe in the future you can present the question as to how a person came to be other then pervoking them to try nd kill themselves in a fit of dissapointment in how stupid not only youth but now adults have become.
Maybe you should look inside instead of outside. Maybe it is not the rest of the world, maybe it is you. But by all means, keep blaming the rest of the world, that is much more convenient.
The thing is, most doctors know fuck all about health. They only know how to write prescriptions. Seriously, though, Panda... you are starting to come across as an annoying, whiny emo kid. Even though I am not doubting what she is saying, since most doctors are egotistical pricks. I despise the lot of them.
If she has a large tumor that is still growing, she needs surgery. Pronto. Your bawling in the doctor's office doesn't help anything, and puts more stress on your mother. Pull yourself together, ffs. It's not the doctor's job to cry along and get emotional with you. I agree with bird and Heat.
I'm not saying you haven't been thru shit but you have no idea what anyone else here has been thru. That's just kinda arrogant actually to assume things like that about people.
Panda sweety. You obviously love your mum dearly, otherwise you would not feel so obligated towards her. Doctors and people you don't know will always say things that are hurtful. I've found that out the hard way and that you have opened up your heart here seeking advice takes a lot of guts. If you feel the doctor was out of line, you can do two things. Seek another opinion and report him to the medical board if he was wrong in his assumptions. That he was insulting to you and your mum, is only because he is still after all a man.
yea she could do that but first I think she should look logically at what the doctor actually said and how he said it and why he said it (hint-he's her doctor. doctors will talk about weight if it becomes a problem.)...she could be looking at it w too much emotion-not rationally.