The "Bonding" Factor: Physical or Emotional?

Guys:

When you are sucking/fucking/spanking/whatever with your male partner, what is the more powerful of the emotions you feel?

Is the sexual "bonding" more intense for you than the "emotional", or, is it the other way around?

Or, both?

IMHO, if your male partner is also a very close bud of yours, it would seem that the emotional "bonding" would be just as intense as the "sexual"........

 

If I'm also a friend of the partner, it's definitely both, leaning toward emotional.
I think as soon as you do anything sexual with a guy, there's a strong sexual bonding . . ..

 

Right on, 100%!

 

I find myself saying I'm not bi sexual if I need to label. Reason being is I don't take an interest in other guys I see. I'm only interested in one or two others that I have had a friendship with and I guess a bond with prior to having sex.

 

When Tom and I met 12 years ago through Craig's List for mutual oral it was only a sexual relationship for about 8 years. When our wives got involved with us it became more emotional as I've come to love him equally as much as my wife and his wife. That was also around the time I gave my anal cherry to Tom. Our relationship became more emotional each time he fucked me.

 

........it's obvious that some pretty INTENSE emotional feelings run deep during m/m action with another male with whom you feel a deep emotional bond.

Also, I think that the issue of TRUST also a deep one, when one guy submits his ass (or mouth) to a close, trusted buddy.

When you are lucky enough to have a male partner with whom you share a deep and strong emotional bond, as well as sharing a powerful physical attraction to one another, common sense will dictate that the sex between you both is truly going to be a POWERFUL "bonding" experience........

 

You are lucky

 

I'll certainly second that!

 

When you are lucky enough to have a male partner with whom you share a deep and strong emotional bond, as well as sharing a powerful physical attraction to one another, common sense will dictate that the sex between you both is truly going to be a POWERFUL "bonding" experience........

You are so right. For many years I've told him I was in love with his cock. It wasn't until he fucked me with my wife present and helping guide him inside me that I began to form an emotional bond towards him. He'd breaded me and it took my emotions to a higher level with him. He's everything I'd ever want in a man just as my wife is everything I'd ever want in a woman. I'm truly blessed.

 

Blessed you are, indeed, my friend!

Literally, you HAVE the BEST of BOTH worlds in your hands!

Here's my best and sincerest wishes for many more years of TRUE emotional (and physical!) bonding!

 

......when a married bi guy not only does not have to resort to "on the sly" encounters with other men, but, also has his wife's full support and blessings, he, without a doubt, is in what could easily be called a "perfect marriage", with a profusion of love, friendship, bonding always available (not to mention AWESOME sex, with both his wife and his lucky buds!!!)

 

.......one one of the gay/bi erotic story sites I often visited awhile back, there was one section where gay/bi men submitted stories of how their best buds eventually became their lovers.

Though, sadly, this never happened with me and my best bud (I only wish it had, but he was totally straight) it's obviously something that HAS happened to a number of men, and, IMHO, they are pretty damn lucky!

 

.....my last posting got me to thinking of asking this question:

How many guys here (married or single) have had their best buddy/fuck buddy eventually become a true "lover", in both the emotional and physical sense?