I am sure some use it for dominance, get ahead. I worked with several people who I knew were having a thing with their superiors. One was from desk reception and had been having an affair with the married president. She was paid well. My boss was sleeping with her boss, who was also married. At another company, the vp hired his very attractive boy toys. Being on front desk lunch relief you knew the most. Kept your mouth shut too. Lol. look at my boobs, don’t pay attention to what I do or don’t do... or I will strutt around and offer you eye candy if you give me a job in the case of the boy toys, I don’t really care if it is used either.
I only ever saw a brief flirtation with men putting their dorks on display in the 70s. And it crossed all kinds of lines. Rockers in jeans, Disco polyester, bodybuilder spandex and tennis shorts for some weird reason. Oh yea, and snow skiing pants/leggings/whatever you call those tight ass things. Then came the age of grabbing it in public, which still seems to be part of some cultures. Mostly music and sports though. The most hilarious example a woman told me about was a guy she met who had stuffed a couple of those hand exercise balls made of artificial breast material into his tighty whiteys so he'd have a perpetual bulge. I thought it was the weirdest thing I had heard of and thought a dildo made more sense. But, one night I was at the Rock & Roll station in Longwood Florida (a very cool place made from pullman coaches) and the guy on stage was dancing all over his mic cords with boots, just grinding them all the fuck for no good reason. It just bugged me for some reason. But then something weird happened. A small round ball came out of his pants leg and rolled off the stage and fell to the floor in the dark. But I noticed immediately that it didn't bounce much. It was one of those hand exercise balls made of artificial breast material. This was in the early 90s. As hair bands were fading out. As was spandex on stage. I always thought spandex pants with a suit jacket was a weird look. </Stoned_Tangent>
Wow, that's really deep. Have you studied this for very long? There are some profound revelations if you read it while lying on your side and having someone run peacock feathers over your skin while a tune plays with only bongos and a tambourine. It all makes sense when you consider that Jello is made of bones, yet has no bones.
I remember stuffing my undies once... It was at an underwear party where that was all we wore. I put a pack of smokes down there.
Yes, you know, some guys put a sock in their pants, it wasn’t a myth. Elvis wore some dangly contraption for his dancing, shaking it. Women looked, while it wasn’t talked about back then, it was known. Male models have a thing that they pack in their underwear too. Girls stuffing their bras at a young age too, wanting to be seen as a sexual being... but not really knowing what to do at that point. Padded bras, push-up bras, etc... here is a video about underwear with support, the right kind. and how to handle your package to make it best presentable too.
And today women are saying don’t look, dont objectify me, but let’s just pretend we are not sexual beings, and that we women don’t check out those we are attracted to. I mean come on. Is it objectifying if a woman is checking out another women, who she likes top the boobs of, or the ass of. Is it objectifying for a gay man to look at how he is oacked? Or a trans woman to oogle a straight woman’s boobs? men in thongs is never an appealing look to me, but that is just me. Shiny little thing on a man swimming, nope, would rather see h8m naked than that. my sister met her husband in Australia. He was wearing those baggy swimming shorts in the water. Whe; he came out of the water it was sticking to him pretty good, she noticed his package, which she was thinking according to her, hmmm nice.. there might have been a little air in there.... he then pulled the fabric away from his skin and it made a big air pocket... anyways, she started to laugh and they got to talking.... he laughed too, which made him more attractive. it was all about the package in the beginning and the laughter. Laughter is important. That is how they met. 14 years later they are still together.
We live in strange times...... Kazakh bodybuilder's 'marriage' to sex doll girlfriend on hold because of coronavirus
yes those real dolls... I remember years ago too, this guy Dave and his sex dolls. On a show called my strange addictions. They love them because they won’t cheat and they never change. These dolls are like 5k. There was also a sex doll brothel I heard about. them there is that objectphelia, marrying buildings, chairs, etc... and Nathaniel who is in love with his car, named chase. https://youtu.be/7G6Em7zBRgk nathaniel likes male cars. I wonder if something triggered this, like a car can’t reject you... but that car is the total package, and the car is definitely objectified.
So gad forbid we be sexist ans say we like tits well here i go then if im looking to spend time with someone their brain matters but if its sex i'm after it is her body. my dick does not care if she thinks 2 + 2 = 69 All relationships start with first impressions for both sexes and most often the first impression is visual. Ie oo nice tits // ass or o look at that bulge in his pants or those muscles on his arms. than you find out later if their smart or dumb. Any sexually active person who says looks dont mater is full of shit
I like brains over the package in the long run. Never had a one night stand, like to know the person... but there is definitely an attraction on initial looks, but I have also found that I am more drawn to people who are not so out there, trying to do the pick up thing. A smile or a laugh can easily transform someone’s appeal, but it is still part of the ititial attracti9n, the smile and laugh, without talking to them. The; later, if I have the nerve.. listening to the person and their thoughts...talking with that person.. they become so much more than just an object, but I have had my head rubber necking at a guy before.