If anyone doesn’t already know what edging is then let me briefly explain. Edging is a type of masturbation, mostly preferred by guys where you slowly bring your self to near climax but then let the feelings subside before repeating again and again for several hours or longer. I’ve been edging since my early 20’s and I’m now 37 so I’ve had quite a lot of experience and I love it even more now than ever, especially with toys such as the Fleshlight. I can get lost for hours , experiencing waves and waves of pleasure where you never want to stop, building the pressure until you can’t take it anymore! I refer to edging as an ‘art’ because it takes a lot of practice and many years to master it, when you first start edging your urge to climax early will be really strong and it takes a lot of practice and patience to ignore these natural urges and keep your focus on going as long as you can. Even now I still get it wrong and will occasionally cum after only 30 minutes, edging is as much a challenge as it is a pleasurable experience
Here is a quick edging survey I have produced, I would love to get your opinions on this Edging Survey
For men and women, those who have no idea what he is on about the art of masturbation without losing your load. as you approach the point of no return you stop and wait for it to go away. off you go again and again most who do this say 5 times is best then you let it go with an enormous explosion and you fill spent. Its a way of extending your sex life like you would not believe, but you use a relaxed grip all the time in doing this to replicate the feeling of the vagina, sorry some guys use the grip of steel and wonder why they cant ejaculate inside a vagina, its not rocket science that a vagina cant replicate that kind of pressure. Try guys it works, by the way women can do it as well.
I enjoy edging. The pleasure gets really intense and I cum hard. My quantity of cum also increases. I think the longest I have ever edged was like around 4 hours. I was around 17 at the time the first time I edged. I lasted for only around 20 minutes or so, but the release was worth it. Now the longest I edge is like 45 minutes to an hour before releasing my load. My balls usually ache for an hour or so due to my strong ejaculation. I recently asked my physician about edging and about the ache in my balls after finally ejaculating. He said slight discomfort in your testicles ( balls) after a strong ejaculation is normal. He also said that maintaining an erection for extreme periods of time can be harmful .
I have been edging for over 20 years. If you are truly interested in getting the most out of masturbation, edging is a must to learn. Most will have to start with the "stroke, stop, stroke" method. However, when you get experienced, there is no need to stop. You learn to control the edge with varying strokes and stimulations. When I edge, i don't need to ever stop. I am in such control that my hand knows exactly how to constantly maintain that edge, never leaving it for a second. Warning: when you edge like this it is very hard to stop your edging session. You get in a masturbation trance, hours pass like minutes, and it just feels soooo good you want nothing but to continue stroking, stroking and stroking. Sex with a woman is the greatest, but masturbating on the edge is the most satisfying because it can last for hours and the focus is on your pleasure only. One other thing: Edging is most enjoyable using Albolene as a lube. Albolene is a moisturizer that allows you to edge for hours without any wear on your cock. It stays slick and slippery and makes every stroke a smooth one. Albolene is in every masturbation experts home.
O have become very adept at this technique too. Changing how i stroke it and what part(s) of my cock im touching i can make it last for hours. I may have to let go if im watching something that rwally turns me on! I will have to try Albolene.
Seems rather time consuming, but exciting. Is this done only during self masturbation or can a girlfriend help during extended foreplay?
I've been edging since I was about 12. At the time I didn't know I was "edging". I used to watch Cinemax movies and loved masterbating to them but never wanted to cum on the first scene so I would stop just before the point of release and go slow until the next scene.
GF and i do this during foreplay and sex. Prolonging the orgasm makes it so intense. It feels good so why not do it longer?
True that. But that just means I'll have to wait long for what I need. And when I'm stroking or sucking on him that waiting can be painful... But maybe even more intense for me as well!
I discovered edging before I knew it had a name. As a teen, my favorite M-method was to humping the mattress, rubbing my bare penis against the bedsheet until I left a semen-puddle on it. I found, at the tender age of 14 or 15 that I could hump until I knew the next stroke would bring on the inevitable, and stop right there. As I lay motionless, my penis and pelvic-floor muscles would begin pulsing as is I were ejaculating. When that subsided, I could do a few more strokes and get the same effect. And I discovered that doing this over and over resulted in a more voluminous puddle, when the time for that arrived, and that having done so extended the time duration of the orgasm at the end. In the decades since, I’ve often edged for as long as 2 hours. I have found, though, that there is a law of diminishing returns after 30 to 45 minutes of edging. The duration of orgasm and the volume and force of the ejaculation are improved very little after that. Now that I’m an old fart, I tend to lose my boner when I back off just before the point of no return — unless I’ve dosed myself with 20mg of Viagra an hour or so before hand. So these days at age 67, even though I can achieve erection and orgasm without the pharmaceutical assist, I can have a much more satisfying experience with the aid of vitamin V. With it I can remain just short of the big O&E steadily, rock-hard, for tens of minutes at a time using just feathery fingertip touches to my penis. After 30 to 45 minutes of that, I succumb to my desire and allow my urethra to share the joy. It is still deeply satisfying despite the ravages of age.
I accidentally edged one time and it was great. I was fucking my girl in the woods with a blanket on the snow and I felt i was going to cum so I pulled it out. But it was too late and I squirted on her stomach. BUT it wasn't too later because I was still as horney. She was shocked when i went down and licked up all of my own cum then continued to fuck her. It only happened one time in my life.
Ahh yes...this!! Thank you for saying it so eloquently. This is how I edge too. I don't stop. I slow it down, way down. Mix up the stroke. Lighten the grip. But I don't stop. Can go for hours in that bliss like state if time permits. Of course, I'll take a break to piss or get some water or whatever as needed. Sex with my gf is great for the human intimacy and bonding. But good edging can take pleasure to a whole other level. And yes again for Albolene as lube. The stuff rocks. Coconut oil is awesome too.
Edging is just plain wow. It's the closest thing to male multiple orgasms. Edging this way I can spread the pleasure out for about as long as I like and end up with a great finish - or hold off and pick it up later without any lack of desire. Of course, we all have the necessity of knocking one out as a quickie, but it's kind of a waste. Edging is quite an art and I learned it at a very young age - just to get right to the peak and kind of hold it there for a while, let it subside, and repeat it over and over. I highly recommend you take your time and learn to edge if you haven't.
Albolene is quite pricy to buy, I us coconut oil and that will I would say do the same, and its between 2 and 4 pounds to buy depending where you buy a pound jar, great stuff.
Shoot, I buy a big tub of Albolene at Walmart for $8 and it lasts for months - I like it far better than coconut oil - it doesn't solidify when cool, it's not runny when it melts on you, it has zero fragrance. A little goes a long way. Coconut oil is a nice lube if you want to play as a couple, tho.....
What your doing now is about right, your read guys go on for longer periods up to longer than four hours it the becomes dangerous and the hospital awaits them to get the blood released.