"that's So Gay" And "she Gayed It Up"

How do you gays feel about these phrases? You know, gay as in stupid or lame.

I personally find them VERY tempting to say, like when you hate some very mean spirited girl and you refer to her as a bitch. It's so juicy.

People compare their plights to racial plights, like "but you can't say the n-word." It's free speech. It just sounds archaic to me and "n*gga" is for urban accents. So it's non-existent to me.

I don't want to offends gays though because I really like the culture and the community.

 

I have been bi, and later on gay all my adult life.

I have absolutely no problem with anyone qualifying something as being 'so gay'. Sure, some things are 'so gay', like a grown up bear dude wearing a Hello Kitty T-shirt. Or someone who collects Kens as opposed to the Barbies. Whatever...

If I genuinely feel that something is so gay, I say that well-meaningly. No one around ever got offended... And if they did, too bad for them.

KD

 

I always say things are gay lol.

"that's like, the gayest thing ever"