This guy is a taker and not a giver and the sooner he is out of your life the better. If he won't leave voluntarily there are legal ways to get rid of him permanently.
Since this is where I'm venting, I want to share this song that sums up where I am. Dead on. these word scould be mine: Me Love was a former owner, but quiet is renting our house It seizes my lips from speaking, but forms a sarcastic smile Suspense now raised one of your eyebrowes You ask me if there's someone else I replied yes, hell yes You asked me if it's another man, I say no You laugh and say is it a woman, I say yeah Surprisingly you ask me for honey's name -chorus- And her name is me, And she loves me more than you'll ever know And I finally see that loving you and loving me Just don't seem to work at all So patiently, she's waiting on me to tell you That she needs love And to choose between you two, boy you know If I have to choose, I choose me -verse- And she told me to tell you to never to hurt me again Cuz if you haven't heard she's a bad chick Even though I haven't been, no Yet and still you try and test me by raisin' an angry hand Put it down, put it down I'm leavin don't try and stop me, (no) I'm late and she is waiting, (yes) My love for me is too much so I can't stay -chorus- And her name is me, And she loves me more than you'll ever know And I finally see that loving you and loving me Just don't seem to work at all So patiently, she's waiting on me to tell you That she needs love And to choose between you two, boy you know If I have to choose, I choose Cuz she's actually formin' a threesome And I'm happy that I can join them, and There names are me, myself and I -chorus- And her name is me, She loves me more than you'll ever know I finally see that loving you and loving me Just don't seem to work at all So patiently, she's waiting on me to tell you That she needs love, And to choose between you two, boy you know If I have to choose, I choose me She's waiting on me to tell you that she needs love, Gotta choose between you two, and you know If I have to choose, I choose me, me, I gotta go with me