Tell me about your first group experience

My first group experience was about 10 years ago. My, then, wife and I were looking to get into the swinging scene and were invited to a hotel party with a local online group. At first it was a bit intimidating, but folks showed up and soon the room was filled with like minded adventure seekers and the party was in full "swing" so to speak. It was a BYOB type thing and some folks use alcohol to calm the nerves, but I just took a few deep breaths watched people doing it and was invited to join in. It was a long night after that 3-4 different women that night. It was common too to use protection, we always did. During the party we connected with several people who turned out to be our closest/intimate friends. I am still friends with a few of the "group" to this day and I would say that I have never had any friends that I was closer to.

For us it grew into a lifestyle rather than a one time thing. At the time it was fun and interesting. It's is not for everyone as it can create lots of issues. Over all it has made me who I am today...not afraid to try anything and not afraid to pursue it if it feels good.

 

a while back my buddy was with this pretty out there hippie chick... me and my girlfriend became pretty close with them and we started partying a lot. you could feel it leading up to something. one night we ate some LSD and around three in the morning we all got naked and had a nice fancy foursome. no partner switching but just getting off on watching eachother. it was pretty hot, but kinda weird too. my girlfriend was on birthcontrol, so we just went at it. my friend's girl wasn't, so they had to wait for him to get the condom on and if your a guy you know taht can be hard to do under pressure. so basically the timing was off, and by the time we were done they were still going at it. also, the LSD really intensified any insecurities that were present, and there always are. i think i learned from that experience that things like group sex can be a way to get past insecurities, but only if done carefully and consciously. we never really talked about it before hand or after and we were all fucked up and it was kind of a blur. after it happened, i felt we almost got too involved in their relationship, as it was going through some troubles (and eventually ended) and because of experiences like that, their problems sort of reflected back onto me and my girlfriend's relationship issues and it was all too much to think about. good experience, but if i did it again i would want to have the balls (literally) to talk about it before hand and not be so high on acid! open communication is the key to most things in the realms of love and sex. o funniest part was at like 5 am, some kids who stayed the night from the party came in to the room to get their stuff while we were butt ass nekid. me an my gf dove under the covers but it was pretty funny

 

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First FFM was with a long term girlfriend who was bi curious. We went for drinks with people from her work and we ended up driving a very drunk girlfriend of hers home. They started making out in the car on the way home and by the time we got back there was no stopping them. There was no issue with me joining in and we did everything we could think of for the rest of the night.

First MfM: A good buddy of mine hurt his back at work and I went to hang out with him and his live in girlfriend Wendy. After some good smoke a couple of his presciption painkillers and wine we ended up talking about how frustrated Wendy was at not getting laid. They could do oral but his back was too wrecked for a good solid bang. Next thin I knew I was banging her doggie styple while she blew my buddy. We tried DP with her sitting on her BFs lap and me taking her anally (my first anal sex) but we didn't get too far before his back started hurting. We even took a few Poloroids and I still have one of her sucking my cock while playing with her pussy that her BF took. All in all a very good evening. We never did it again but they broke up about a year later and I spent a wild weekend with Wendy before she moved out of state.

 

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My first group experience was awkward. i was 16 a friend matt who was older had asked me to come out to the city my best friends chick lived at and stay in a hotel room with him her and another lady. he told me that my friends chick wanted to fuck me, so I was on the phone with him and I dragged him along for the surprise factor....
Well matt bought like six bottles of liquor and a 8 ball o heroin
we proceeded to finish everything off I had and my friend an his girl started foolin around on the hotel bed next to me. She was like hey why dont you come join so I did

Afterwards me and my bestfriend laughed about it forever and he respectively broke up with the girl how ever we both continued to fuck her for years up until she just got serious

my first ffm
I had just started trying to fuck this 18 yr old cheerleader that i knew in high school. I had just turned 21 and I took her to a bar. Well I called up one of my exs who is particularly freaky and she met us at the bar. The girls started making out for the bartender for drinks. So we got extremely drunk We get in the car to go home and she was like hey christina is coming over. To which I replied with why I dont wanna get any drunker i just wanna fuck. She goes I know all three of us are going to fuck

Long story short when they sobered up in the moring they were un happy at least the 18yr old who had never been with a woman! GREAT SUCCESS!

 

Way to go man, sound like a blast. How much did ya drink? Or can you even remember?

 

First time just kinda happened by accident. A bunch of us bored kids 14-15 year olds ditched school and went to a friends house , raided his dads bar , turned on some tunes , and started making out....I guess the hormones were out of controll because soon no one was paired up anymore and it was a group grope.
That was the first time I ever seen two males kissing.
Anyway , we never did get back to school that day.