Been texting this guy on Sniffies we hooked up it was fun. This was on Thursday I saw him on the site Friday and today we chatted a little, made plans for next week. My question is how often should you talk to a guy on sex sites ? I like to talk but I don’t want to seem desperate or needy I’m just chatty type of guy. Curious to what you guys think Thanks
I actually had to stop what I was doing to give this some thought, and my answer is that it helps to find out if the other guy is a talker and/or how often he would like chat. Some guys don't want to chat outside of making a bid to have sex, but it never hurts to ask.
My approach is to wait for the other guy to hit me up. When I meet up with a guy from a sex search, if we are cool after I give him head I give him my email address and tell him to let me know any time he wants to do it again with an hour or so heads up. After a couple times of getting to know his personality I might give him my number to text me for a faster hook up. I avoid using the same sex site to reach him so there's no stalking stigma, even if that's not what's going on. People can be really sensitive about that stuff so I just avoid it. If he wants to reach out to me he can do it directly.
