Taking wife to nudist clubs

I think Nudism is always a voyeurs delight and we all like to see others naked, some of us would like to see more but then keep ourselves in check as we don't want to be labeled as any sort of pervert!

 

Hey take a look at the adverts on the popular magazine H & E "Personals" there are long time nudists advertising for WE Males even others seeking men with large cocks +8" and even couples seeking both men and women! So don't tell me that all nudists are overtly against sexual activity within their private clubs!

 

It may not be overt, but at every nude resort we have been too we have found others to have sex with

 

The resort we belonged to is a "family resort" so no overt sexual activity and we are not players but there was plenty of sex to be had if you wanted it.

 

So you do agree with the statement "nudist clubs are a hive of sexual activity for single and married people that want it"

 

I guess I have a problem with the word "hive". Considering the way bees are very active around the hive, it's nothing like that. People are respectful of each other and those that want to get together do but if your are not into that kind of activity, like us, you may suspect who are getting together for anything sexual but you really don't know who around you is.

Just like you don't know the private lives of your neighbors in your neighborhood.

 

I have always experienced that most nudist resorts are a hot bed for finding sexual partners. I have been to a majority of the resorts on the eastern Seaboard and rarely did I find a chaste atmosphere. I’ve visited as a single and I’ve visited with a female partner and there’s been no real change in results. I’ve found it very easy to find sex if I was looking for it. At the men only nudist resorts it’s even easier to have sex and it seems that most guys that attend are looking for action. I was at a men’s facilty in Georgia recently and was approached 3 times in 20 mins. And I’m an average looking older man with a small cock. To clear up any confusion I’m bisexual but much prefer females.

 

I guess we haven't been to the same resorts; because out of the dozen I've been to - from Florida to Michigan - I've only seen one clear indication of "sexual atmosphere." Out of the dozen it was also the only non-AANR resort; which may very well have been the reason why.
Other than that one; I've never seen it. It's been families and middle-aged people with no sexual agendas.

Some may say "I didn't see it because I didn't go looking for it." Perhaps. Or perhaps it's simply because it just wasn't there.

 

AANR may have something to do with the atmosphere, the one we belonged to is an AANR affiliated club.

I suppose if I were not married things might have been different, too.

 

Our Nudist club is also a family club with the same strict rules as you would expect. Some people though clearly arrange to meet up at each others houses for fun, and I don't think it's to play Monopoly.

 

What happens outside the resort or behind closed door is another story. IMHO..
During my first marriage, my then-wife and I befriended another couple at our club; and we started visiting them at their home. Typically we'd get to their place in the evening, spend the night, and then head out to the club or resort together the next day; and we'd be naked together almost the entire time. Sometimes we'd have quite a bit to drink; and "silly shenanigans" would ensue. Things never really got outright sexual; but they would get "flirtatious" in a "hands-on" kind of way.
It's not hard to surmise from that experience that other people in the same situation would take it "further"; especially if they had that outcome in mind from the get-go.

Whereas I'm not dismissing that this can happen; I also do not believe that this is a regular thing at nudist resorts; especially at AANR, family-oriented resorts.

 

We all have our own experiences so there is no right or wrong way to behave even in nudist clubs. Yet I have to repeat that my own experience is that sex is on everyones mind and many take it further than just "naughty thoughts" And I might add these people were invariably the most interesting to get to know!

 

I think that you hit it my friend. It’s not an openly recognisable atmosphere and one definitely would have to have been looking for it to actually recognise that there is one. It’s under the surface but it’s definitely there.

 

I can’t say how other parts of the country go... perhaps out west things are different. Here there IS a sexual atmosphere at nudist resorts, nude beaches, or anywhere else public nudity is found, noticed or unnoticed. And just because it may be unnoticed, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Personally, I think it’s everywhere, but maybe suppressed or denied. Could be the difference in age. Maybe not. My wife has told me she knows who is watching her, and she knows when a boomer is watching or flirting with her. Whatever it is, I think it’s changed from what it once was. For some it isn’t a good change, for us, it is.

At AANR resorts the sexual atmosphere is still there, and overt sexual activity is prohibited. When my wife took her initial “tour,” at one resort, after she showered and met the couple who showed her around, the woman, seeing her complimented her looks and body and then told her that if she was approached by any men in a rude or harassing way, she should report them. That certainly doesn’t mean nothing is going on. Just not in full public view.

There was a guy at one AANR resort who my wife noticed eventually showed up everywhere she happened to be (super fit, she exercises and walks a lot, so it wasn’t just coincidence). She was swimming in an indoor pool with another couple and after they left, the guy showed up and sat at the edge of the pool. My wife played her game and swam in a more sexy manner than she would normally swim and she noticed the guy stroking himself. She swam toward him as if she knew nothing, stopped, stood up and faced him so he could look at her while he masturbated. Pretty overt for an AANR, but nobody else was around.

Still, as most of you already know, children shouldn’t be subjected to seeing anything they shouldn’t be seeing. There are plenty of times when there are no children there, or areas where there aren’t any. We’ve pretty much narrowed down visits when we know children are least likely to be there.

If you’ve read our experiences, you already know we aren’t purists when it comes to nudism. For us, nudity and sexuality aren’t separated, and lets us play the games we play. And that’s exactly what we’re looking for.

 

All the negativity over a husband being proud of his wife’s looks! If this is a negative - does this mean in a textile world he should never buy her a sexy red dress or top that accentuates her looks? The only difference her is we are referring to her natural beauty and not a facade of makeup and girdles! If there is truly a woman out there that doesn’t enjoy knowing her looks are appreciated by her husband - and his pride in having her by his side, then she probably has no interest in him anyway.

 

The wife and I had a brief visit to a local resort during mid week when we were almost by ourselves. As we were enjoying the sun by the pool a single gentleman came up and politely asked if we would mind his joining us. We of course said no as we had no right to expect sole use of the pool. Later as I was reapplying sunscreen on my wife, I caught a glimpse my rubbing oil on her thighs and pubic area was having an affect on him. He again apologized saying that I was a very fortunate man to have such a beautiful wife. I accepted the compliment for both of us and remarked she still has the same impact on me after several years of marriage. A couple of hours later my wife commented to him that he was really getting red, and did he have any sunscreen. He remarked he had forgotten to bring any but knew he had no one to apply it anyway. When she offered, I thought he was going to faint. He asked if I would object and she answered absolutely not for me. Her leaning over him to apply the sunscreen obviously became more than he could take. Despite he not touching him anywhere near his privates, he developed a full stiff and again began profusely apologizing. Nothing else took place but I could tell my wife was quite proud of the impact she made.

 

I totally agree. In fact I have taken my beautiful wife to nude beaches and the men there really appreciated her beauty and she loved the attention!

 

Of course, this is for beach nudism only and not appropriate for resorts, unless its one of the rare adult-minded resorts that doesn't care if men wander around with erections and women's nipples are hard.

You know those shiny metallic looking reflectors that people use to tan all sides of their face, chin and neck at the same time? My girlfriend has a small one of those about 6 in wide that she wedges under her **** to tan it on all over. She has guys ask what it is and she explains how it is good for your hormonal health for women and men to tan their gonads. They don't stay to talk long because they begin to get an erection and thank her for the information and leave.

 

We have had similar experiences at nude beaches. Guys with friendly arrival chat and then set up fairly close, but definitely strategically locate themselves for direct line of sight. (even if we are behind a log they might sit off to the side, but not allow the log to block their view)

There has been a few occasions where, once you establish they are being respectful and not creepy, that my GF will position herself to not only provide better viewing but also enjoy the sight of their physical reactions to watching her.
I will then play along and slowly apply sunscreen to her body or tease her with some cold ice water out of the cooler, allowing little drops to run over her nipples or between her legs and then rub them in to cool her down.... With the opposite effect actually happening and the three of us are heating up quickly. We once had a number of single guys in and around us and I could see her getting very wet from all the attention they were giving her and they were also appreciating the slow show... very exciting for all of us.