taken advantage of

maybe she took advantage of him... (i know it wasnt really like that). i hate guys that pull that shit, but i dont think girls should even put themselves in that position. dont drink if you cant control yourself. fuck. GHB may be a different story... a guy goes down a drunk girls pants everynight. its becomming all too common. and this "taken advantage of" statement is used too often in high schools

 

I go to these parties in town and sexual stuff is happening all the time. I got high one time and gave this guy oral sex, right there with everyone around.

No one forced my head down there and I did it willingly.

No one to blame but myself.

I was embarrassed but I ended up doing the same thing another time, so I guess I really wasn't that embarrased!

(and it was fun!):X

 

Little girls shouldn't be drinking.

 

More food for thought....

guys, you should really learn the laws, because unfair as it sounds, people who are voluntarily compromised (intoxicated, mentally incompetent, or in an altered state of consciousness) are considered by the law to be incapable of consenting, whether they appear to be consenting or not.

I don't agree with it, but that's the way it is. The girl messed up by putting herself in that situation, and the guy's messed up by not knowing the consequences of fuckin around with an intoxicated girl that they aren't 100% positive won't regret it the next day.

 

I remember one time me and my friend went to this girls house to get somewhat drunk. And she says, your not going to take advantage of me are you? And I was like, theres a better chance of me and J (my friend) taking advantage of eachother it was so funny at the time.

 

Amen to that.

 

I agree with Ppazz:

MANY of us have been right where she is -- of drinking age or not-- we ALL have to go through some pretty gnarly experiences to help us grow.

While I agree that there is an age limit in effect for a reason, maybe this experience will teach our little sister to be more careful the next time she finds herself in a similar situation...because this won't be the last time. She's got the rest of her life to live -- it's gonna get a lot deeper than this.

Meanwhile, you're not such the victim...if you starting making out with him and it was CONSENTUAL, then you should own responsibility for your part in it.

Look Sweetie, you did a stupid thing...we all did stupid things at your age...hell, some of get on the other side of 'the legal drinking age' and STILL F-Up, so there's nobody in here over the age of 21 who should be throwing stones...

Just remember that you don't want to find yourself in the same position as the 'nameless' young lady involved in the Kobe Bryant case.

(Alright you guys...don't get all hairy around the knuckles...I'm just saying...in the Kobe case, that girl should have thought twice about going to some MARRIED man's room in the middle of the night -- did she think they were gonna play chinese checkers, or something???)

Womyn need to be more careful about the situations they place themselves in..A man is NOT at fault when consent is mutual. Unless it's rape, YOU have the right and the responsibility to pick and choose when, where, and who you share yourself with -- so choose wisely.