Swinging

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by 3877marx, Jan 20, 2014.

  1. 3877marx

    3877marx Guest

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    Hi, my wife and I are looking to try our first swinging session but don't really know where to find people, what the rules are and just generally tips would be appreciated x
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Try a swinging site. Get to know people. You're best option is to create your own advert and specifically detail what you're looking for so a right person/couple can come to you.
    Worst thing is jumping straight into the deep end and not being sure if you're enjoying your experience or not.

    That'd be my advice. And also if your only option is to look online be prepared to be fucked around by people. Seems like a common commodity these days. More people pulling their dicks instead of branching.
     
  3. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Advertise for the age group you would prefer to swing with - not just a mix of ages & male / female couples ?
     
  4. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    My tip for you is to go to The Swingers Board forum! Lots of great advice there from people in the lifestyle. Also very friendly there.
     
  5. 3877marx

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    Thank you
     
  6. 3877marx

    3877marx Guest

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    Would anyone recommend a club for first timers? Or go with adverts?
     
  7. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Well, I can't recommend a club without knowing where you live :p. Join a swingers site. If you have to pay a membership fee, most of the people on there will likely be legit.
     
  8. Outtafocus

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    Checkout swingtown. Lots of local people. Do a google search. You may also find a swing website in your city.

    Whatever you do make sure you know what you want to do and what your limits are. Then stick to them.
     
  9. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

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    3877marx,

    First off I will admit we liked the swing clubs. though a bit pricey a great way to meet people. Then we found once meeting couples or singles there, They could often introduce us to others.

    I will admit after a few soft swings with one couple. The clubs were not what I expected. For one thing they allowed singles(for the money). The couples never stayed together, To me it was more like musical beds.
     
  10. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

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    There are Facebook groups for swingers.
     
  11. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    ^^^that probably wouldn't be ideal for people who wish to remain discreet though. ;)
     
  12. TheSamantha

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  13. 3877marx

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    we would like to ask friends, but just how do you know there not to tell every one and be offended?
     
  14. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Tell them when they're drunk.
     
  15. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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