Swinging life stlye

From my own experiences swinging with my wife, swinging was a lifestyle experience that is it was more about making new friends both couples and singles and socialising, yes we did have great sex too but that was only one aspect of it, we were friends with one couple for a year before we all had sex even when they hosted adult parties. Would love to do it again with a new partner

 

My husband and I are active swingers. We love the adventure and look forward to our monthly meetings. What is a huge turn on is we have the same couples month after month and so when we get together there is no getting to know each other. Now that the weather is getting warmer, my husband and I host a lot of outside parties at our country home and those are simply awesome.

 

I feel the same way. I don't think there is anything wrong with recreational or casual sex, but I personally only really enjoy emotionally connected sex. I've found that a lot of women are confused or surprised by that. I'm a man, by the way.

 

I recently interviewed my friend about the sex-party community (they don't refer to themselves as "swingers") she belongs to, and they have a similar dynamic. Here's the interview, if you'd like to compare experiences: https://soundcloud.com/men-and-women-podcast/orgies-pegging-and-consent-is-so-sexy

 

My husband and I are very much into our group of friends. My home is on 300 acres and there Is plenty of privacy for our outdoor sex parties. Among those 4 couples that meet with us once a month, we have one couple that we frequent multiple times during the week. When the hubby travels I am fortunate that I can get my sexual desires satisfied with both Anne and Allen. As far as the group thing, let's just say that it's the hottest sexual party one could imagine. Seeing all those cocks getting sucked and fucked gets me wet just thinking about it. There's something very sexy about tasting different cocks and pussy; and yes I eat a lot of pussy and my husband loves sucking cock.

 

The worst thing about swing is that eventually you get your spouse back!!!

 

Yes please. We enjoy swinging and having uninhibited sex and fun with other like minded people. We save making love to just between the two of us.
As long as you are enjoying it and not hurting anyone got for it

I understand it's not everyones cup of tea and if it's not for you that's great just be happy and enjoy what you like to do

 

Back when we were sexually desirable, we talked about it, but none of our friends were possible partners. It never happened, so we had to settle for her fooling around with men she met at work. it didn't take much of that for the newness to wear off.

 

I would love to see my wife being pleasured by others. We are in in the Cotswolds and I am looking to chat to experienced couples of how to get involved

 

I think if both partners are into it and it doesn't cause any problems in the marriage then awesome. I couldnt do it, if I was married I would feel hurt if my hubby wanted to share me with a group and I would not want to share him. A club I worked at has a swingers club inside the club and I have been inside the swingers club when it was closed, it looks like a cool night club with lounge areas, dance floor ,a non alcohol bar and they have areas with beds in them curtained off for those who want some privacy but from what some of my co workers said the swingers can get as wild as they want to and do whatever they like wherever they like inside the club. what happens in the club stay is the club ( that's really the clubs motto)
Again as long as both partners are into it and can handle sharing with multiple partners than great for them.

 

I agree. If both people are into it then by all means. My wife and myself have been into MFM's and wife sharing for a few years and it works for us. We both are up front on what we want with no secrets.

It's definitely not for everyone, but we think it is awesome.