Swapping a second time with the same couple?

What has been your experience with doing a return swap with the same couple?
For us the second time was much better, because 1) We knew them. 2) There was no guessing what we were there to do. 3) It was an extended session and so much better. 4) No worries about performance.
Would love to hear from the women too.

 

It just gets better and better . Then one day it stops and you move on . No big deal .

 

We always tried to get to know other couple, before bedroom time. First time was like a new toy, second time everyone was more relaxed, but we had hard time meeting couples we both enjoyed. More her than me, I wasn't picky.

 

We always use the same guy and as you say it is more relaxed, he knows what to do and no awkwardness either before or afterwards.

Sometimes we chat before a session and that can be exciting as well, when we both know what will be happening.

 

Never swapped with another couple. We did meet with one couple for drinks and we seemed to hit it off. They were experienced in swapping and I thought who better to break us in. We agreed to meet again. Unfortunately my wife backed out. Damn….I could see them as repeats.

So we moved on to trying an mfm with a good friend. AWESOME! We repeated several times. It was comfortable for the three of us.

 

We have found that swapping a second time is where trust and friendship is truly formed. A high level of respect is too. Also because we are believers in “Compersion”. The act of watching our spouse be sexually satisfied by another is pure happiness. We have one couple that want to meet again for a third time.