Swallow or Anal?

First of all hello to all users of the forum, new member had a quick browse on the forums... first thing I learned avoid answering or encouraging Backdoor Man

If this question has been asked then pardon me but I couldn't find it. I guess this more aimed towards guys but the female members feel free to jump in if you wish.

If your other half told you honey you can have either swallowing or anal... which do you want? Can't have both. This means you never do the other. What would you choose?

 

Swallowing.

 

I think if my guy asked if I want to swallow or do anal I would buy me a great big black strap on and let him have it, any day he wants, right up the keister.
Ultimatums are just not nice in sex relationships, why not develop likings for both and see where it goes?
It almost seems like sex has become a challenge for women to please their man. What happened to love itself that it is all about, I love you so I will do this or that?
Man I am glad I have found good men who love me for being me rather then what certain favors I will do for them. My guy goes out the door to work and says "Man I love you!" then he texts me during the day, "Love you Sweetie" or calls to see that everything is going ok when he know I have things happening. That is love.
So,,,
New question, what if neither of those two were an option but your partner said you could have sex every day or once a month which would you choose? No trying to pick certain things here,,, this question is about making real love with your partner. Now this should make it interesting,,, hee hee.

 

Well since my girl always swallows, anal.

 

You are joking, right?

 

If you don't mind how old are you? don't need exact but mid 30's 40s 16/20? Been happily married for a decade or so and still going strong? Your man still looks at you 15/30 years down the line and thinks man I just wanna ravage her and his penis goes hard just thinking of you naked? I enjoy your talk-down just wondering where you have the wisdom to do so? Must be years of great experience. In a relationship 50% is the sex and the rest is everything else. When you have kids you still gotta manage that or else someone gonna get unhappy. Sex and open communication are the most important factors. When you first met your man was it not the sexual attraction that started the relationship? Did you just somehow managed to scan his brain and see that he would love you unconditionally and without any naughty sexual fantasies? I bet you man has plenty of those but is afraid to say anything, maybe he can't get anyone better who knows.

FYI My question was about preferences. Think of it as a desert island question, if you had the choice between X and Y. In this case if your woman gave you the choice (THE WOMAN GIVING THE MAN A CHOICE Sallysmart) not the man giving her ultimatum.

 

Can I have a link please? I find them separate but not together and I ain't talking about ATM.

 

Sorry Sallysmart if my tone is somehow sarcastic, that is because you answered from your high horse without reading the question

Question is very simple: Your wife/GF/partner tells you you can have one or the other but not both what would you prefer having.

 

Just look at the forums a little more. It is quite obvious this topic is widely talked about.

 

No I did not reply without reading, I replied as I saw fit, question of the day is do you find sex awesome or is anal or swallowing a must since those were the only two options?
My other question to your question is do we tend to find the wrong partners and swallowing or anal are not allowed so we must come up with questions like this? So here is the big question, questions,,, do you get either or both? Does it matter so much? Would you die if one but not the other or if neither but all other sex was great anyway?
Ok here is the really big one, why do guys seem to care so much if they are with the one they love? Shouldn't making love be about what she Will do and loves to do? As well as what he will do and loves to do.
Here is my answer to your original question, once he does all the laundry, gives it to me every night as I want, does all the dishes and cooking and bring me breaky every morning I will consider both, if I don't like either or both he keeps doing all those awesome things, hahahahahaha. Now that's me on my high horse and no I don't have kids but I have a business at home and yes timing can be tough sometimes but I manage to give and get all We want.

 

Sally, it's amazing how you are always present on threads about anal sex... (while saying you hate it, have never done it & will never do it)

Also, I think it was just a hypothetical question about preferences. Have you never played this 'game' before?

 

Anal, no question about it. I love fucking that warm little hole and blowing my load in her ass, and I couldn't really care less if she swallows or not. I just don't see why it should matter to me what she decides to do with the cum once I've already come in her mouth. And I'd still pick anal even if the choice was anal sex or blowjobs.

 

Rofl.

 

I will answer your question... although I do like both, if I needed to pick one, it would be anal.

 

Have I played the anal game before? Nope
Do I hate it? Nope can't say I hate it if I never done it
Do I have a right to play in any thread as you do? Yup
Is this a public forum where all can come and say their bit? Yup
Did I feel like playing the question game in this thread? Yup, it's for anyone, the OP said ladies are welcome to jump in.
Do I get a kick out of playing in anal threads as I do in any thread? Yup
Do I care of you do anal? Nope
Do I like people who do anal stuff? Yup, as long as they don't tell me about it. hahahaha
Am I anal about anal? Yup, it's kinda fun being an ass,,, no pun intended, or, hahaha
Do I ever question where your mug shows up in threads? Nope but it's ok if you do. I really don't mind at all, it shows,,, I have the powaaaaa! To piss even anal people off,,, oh man that was fun, hee hee.
Do I care if you down my post for this message,,, well that's kind of anal...
Do you love me still? Ya,,, you do,,, you know you wanna,,, it's hat I love about this place, we are one big happy family with the right to free speech, I guess that's why there is so much anal stuff on here,,, smile because we are all here for a good time

Disclaimer: This message is not intended to really piss anyone off, don't read it if you have heart conditions, or liver damage, talk to your doctor if your ass hurts after reading this message. Don't read this message to your grandmother. If you experience any tingling in your head after reading this message take two shots of Vodka and two packets of Neocitrin and go to bed. This message may cause some itching around the anus and if so discontinue reading. If the itching continues for more then three days you need to see your medical professional. If you notice any burning sensations around or in your anus after reading this message, check to see if you used lube last night or Vicks Vapo rub. Discontinue Vicks Vapo rub use if so.

 

You got pretty defensive. I never contested your right to comment on anything. But I stand by my observation. The fact that you are present in every anal sex related thread (while feeling the way you do about it) is funny.

PS: I 'do anal stuff'. There, feel free not to like me.

PPS: I certainly do not LOVE you.

 

Wow, that whole message was meant to be funny. I guess you got no funny in you, sorry bout that. Maybe it's because it's late. It is here, I woke up and couldn't sleep so I thought since I have the 3 am sillies I would put it to use. You really need to lighten up girl.
And No, I never get defensive on forums, now if my mom showed up here I might get a little worried after all I have said on here, HolyMotherOfGod I hope she never comes on here :0
Oh, and just because I think the chances of her coming on here are slim, I love you, and prit near everyone here. I am kinda gay that way,,, well not really but now I am bored, gonna go back to sleep and if I can't maybe we might chat a bit more. See ya soon.

 

Hey OP & pipgirl, I guess the 2nd lesson you learned here is to ignore Sallysmart.

BTW, OP, welcome to forum, most posters here are very helpful with suggestions and are willing to share their experiences. Unfortunately, there are a few posters who have nothing better to do than to put down other people who have different sexual preferences than they do. Rather than being helpful, they choose to preach holier than thou opinions and mock everything that they don't agree with. The best advice I can give is just ignore them. Don't waste your time to engage or respond.

You asked a simple preference question, and my answer is anal. My wife has only swallowed maybe a handful of times during our MANY years of marriage. To me, it made zero difference whether she did or not, so it doesn't bother me. What I don't understand is why she has such aversion to swallowing since she really enjoys giving me BJs and DT. She even does ATM regularly. She doesn't know why either since I have asked her in the past.

 

Like I said I DID look but I don't have as much time as you obviously to troll through the forum and read every post. If you could be so kind to point me to the said discussion it would be much appreciated.

 

I am sorry but I will answer your statement in a way you won't like it. I am happy for you Sally that you have a pussy of a man, great that he has no voice or sexual opinion and that you lead the relationship... I must admit from my experience business driven women are the worst, women also tend to be worst bosses ever as if constantly must prove themselves this is a fact said by other women working for women. From your tone and the way you reply to posts I believe you are one of those. Bottom line is that your man will eventually get bored. I honestly couldn't care less about you or your relationship and yet again you prove unable to read a simple question.

You either like apples of pears... but you have to come and give me the whole damn theory of why should you choose between those when you can have oranges or hey even go the vegetable route. NO the question was simple either A or B!!! No wonder you have your own business working from hom I imagine if you answered you multiple choice exam questions with reasons of why you should not have to choose those options I imagine you didn't get very far.

Again don't take it the wrong way but sometimes you gotta slap people to wake them up.