Surrendering Yourself to Satisfy Others...

That sounds awesome! Best wishes to the three of you and hope the fun continues.

 

They are a lovely couple .. we are meeting up again this week .. sometimes play alone with one husband

 

That's kind of the attitude I'd want to take especially in a homosexual encounter, since I haven't had one yet and am still a bit unsure of the whole thing.

 

Are you also submissive with women too, or do you just envision yourself being sexually submissive with guys?

 

I think it can go either way with women. Now that I think about it, I would want to be dom with a younger guy.
Of course these are not rules written in stone.

 

I've never had 2 men or more, but I have surrendered before in the past and I do so again if I meet a lover who desires that. It is exactly how I met my last boyfriend some years back. I used to be on the fetlife website as a submissive man looking for a dominant man or trans woman. My boyfriend wanted a man who would surrender to his lusts for as long as he wished. We chatted for some time in messages back-and-forth until I felt safe enough to meet him IRL. I let my new lover have me any way he wished as long as there was no violence or rough stuff. We played all night long and he filled me every possible way... then he wanted 2 hours of sleep. Exactly 2 hours. Then we woke up and we had more fun for 3 more hours, until he had to go to work. He was the perfect boyfriend and a wild lover for the next 9 months.

 

I've done anything that would make my wife or past gfs happy. My wife wanted to watch me suck our friends cock and when I finally happened, she felt both thrilled and satisfied. I could see how much she was into it, so I gave it my best efforts.
When our friend and I would spend the night on the boat , there were NO HOLDS BARRED. We fucked and sucked each others cocks all night long and she watched it all.

 

Perhaps I’m way out in left field but in my D/s relationship with my Domme, “surrender” involves no force or non-consent. I think of it as the willing transfer of power to Her.

 

My thoughts are if you're going to have sex with someone, either you're gonna go all in... or you aren't. I've often felt that the concept of mutual satisfaction has gone the way of the dodo and instant gratification is the coin of the realm: I want what I want and the way I want it. If you're not going to give yourself into the pleasure of sex, why are you having sex? I get it: Sex is a trust issue; it makes us vulnerable and that's some scary shit and we find need to protect ourselves by not "surrendering" ourselves in the pursuit of satisfying others and ourselves. I'm not really talking about submissiveness but simply about giving it your all every and any time you have sex with someone.

 

Even as a top, when I'm with a guy it's mostly about his pleasure. If a guy wants dominant I'm not really the guy for him. If he wants passionate then I'm his man. I'm still waiting for the right guy to come along to give my anal virginity to, but I can see how so much of bottoming for a guy for me would be about surrendering to his wishes and giving him my body to maximize his pleasure, and that can be so fulfilling. I would love for a masculine man take my ass and all of me like that. The greatest sexual experience of my life was when I finally lost my gay virginity as a top, finally inserting my cock into another man's ass. That experience changed my life. I can barely imagine what it's going to be like when I give my ass to another man.

 

Youre correct Sir. If you are going to do something,do it right. My wife feels the same, which is why we can enjoy and share without any regrets. After all, its about pleasure, otherwise why waste everyones time.

 

I love to satisfy men with blow jobs or having them fuck my ass I just want the man to be satisfied even if it takes all night and day