I feel the only type of relationship I'll ever be good at is with me in a submissive role to a man or woman. Anyone else feel this way?
Most times I play both rolls...When sucking a guys cock I'm dominant but when he's fucking my ass I'm submissive. Same goes with the sexual activities with my wife.
There's times when I'll pin him down and power suck his cock...restricting his movement and sucking him close to orgasm...stopping...sucking...stopping until he is begging for me to make him cum. That's what I mean. I look at it this way...Who ever is taking control is the dominant partner...Being fucked in the ass is always submissive IMO...he's in control and dominating my ass with his cock...He has control unless I'm riding him where then I have control of the pace most times.
I love submitting to a women but especially to a man. There's something about having a dick inside me and doing whatever they want to fulfill that their fantasy that I love. Interestingly enough my girlfriend likes to be dominated. She likes to be restrained, choked and fucked which isn't my strong suit. I've gotten a lot better because I think there are aspects in that situation which are similiar to the other more submissive situation. But I've found it interesting and sometimes difficult to be more dominant in one situation and more submissive in others.
Love when a guy takes control! Usually with women it's more of the traditional male-female sexual roles. My longest relationship with a woman was about a year, so maybe I'm doing that wrong.
