Stupid Bullshit /rant Please comment?

I wouldn't put up withat crap. tell his ass off. say I'm sorry but we cannot hang out anymore. until you grow up and stop acting like a crazy person. I will not stand for that shit. end of story. maybe what I did was wrong, but chocking me. come on. was that really called for? couldn't you just talk about with me like normal people do. instead of flipping out

 

He doesn't think like you do buddy, but good luck.

 

Jennifer19: no way, guys respond to physical warnings much better then a 'talk' with other guys. The biting was for sure fucked up tho and purp should just distance himself a bit from this guy if the guy is calling him names and shit.

 

he wanted some advie. I gave it. end of story. if he dosn't want to take it, that's fine. I did my best. moving on

 

Shit, you're a better person than I am, I still harbor anger towards my mom for choking me when I was a teenager. Only time she ever laid hands on me, and I didn't speak to her for days. Had it been anyone other than my mother (I hold a firm belief that the only people in the world who hold rights to take my life are the ones who gave it to me in the first place or myself) I would've decked her and written her the hell out of my life. You don't touch my fucking throat without expecting consequences. I'm alright with just about anything else, but you fuck with my throat, you're fucking with my airway, you're fucking with my LIFE. Good for you for being the bigger man in this situation. But I'd still be wary as fuck around the homophobic prick.

 

Purp- if I were you, I'd be pissed at myself for fucking with someone who was bigger than me physically but smaller mentally. You're smarter than that. He had already displayed his affinity for douchebaggery so how he reacted shouldn't have been too much of a surprise. Tend to your wounds and maybe there will be a scar to remind you.

 

Let me get this right. You grabbed a marker and was going to write on you cousin's face but he wakes up and gives you a beating and your made at him?

 

If that dude bit you he is uber bitch, you're the better man.

 

i wasn't writing on his face for one thing.

and yeah. if you pass out in my house and i'm still drinking, you deserve to get written on - don't like it, don't come into my house. easy as that.

i can be a dick when i'm drinking, sure, but i'm not looking to physically harm somebody. if you are gonna be a puss and whine about a marker then you DEFINITELY deserve it.

jen: thanks for the advice. as far as guys not responding to 'talking' as well as physicalities - i think that's a little brutish and only serves as fuel for feminazis to hate men lol. if you think men only respond to physical attack then i wouldn't really classify you a man, anyways. i think one of the most masculine qualities is control (for good or bad, but it is very masculine) which includes controlling your anger - sometimes it gets out, i know of that first hand, but i never let it out on a friend much less family. you aren't much of a man if you only respond to rogue emotional outbursts. just my thoughts on that.

 

You need to read/watch fight club purp its amazing and oh so true about the male psyche.

 

Amongst the younger generation, it's a set rule that he who crashes first gets fucked with first. I thought it's always been like that, for the younger ones it's shaving cream in the hand and a feather to the nose, dipping sleeping hands in warm water... The older ones take a sharpie to faces and take pictures. Fucking with your friends is the best way to show them you care. Haha. But yeah, if you go to a party, do NOT be the first to crash. Unless it's your own house, then you have ultimate ass beating rights.

 

Some of you people exemplify why I don't like social drinking, but kill a handle alone in a few days.

Putting the jews in a "shower" is traditional, and the first one to pass out goes in the oven.

Tradition doesn't mean shit... sorry...

But his cousin was still waaaay out of line, you can crush someones windpipe and easily kill them by choking, he does sound like an out of control, sexually repressed, general nutter... Even if I disagree with fucking with sleeping people, his outbursts pretty much null anything happening to him at the time, short of mortal peril.

 

....i could probably recite the entire dialog of that movie by heart. it isn't 'oh so true' about the male psyche...maybe sort of but if you really think that just because us guys have testosterone and shit, does NOT give a right to physical attack.

in good fun and a respectful manner I can appreciate a good fight, but when it's rage and not willing of both parties it is completely wrong. i don't really understand what you are trying to justify here, but i would think that you would agree that it is more of a coward's trait to explode in anger - i know i have before and i have felt extremely ashamed afterwards...maybe that's just me, maybe there are different breeds of males - perhaps some people have yet to evolve from primates.

I understand where you may come from, different people drink differently. I drink to have fun and let loose. it isn't as much about 'tradition' (fuck, i'd rather be non-traditional) as much as it is about just enjoying myself and wanting people that are asleep to enjoy themselves with me - instead of sleeping. I didn't ask you to come to my house to pass out, I wanted to drink.

 

You writing on someone's body while they are trying to sleep does not exactly exemplify a stellar iq so quit the 'youre primitive if you're physical' nonsense.

 

i'm not even gonna bother man


you are trying to argue that it is better to fight than to talk...aight bro, go fight club it up.
i dunno about you, but i'd rather not fight my friends...if i got problems with em I squash it and end it and we are better in the end.

i do enjoy getting in fights with random peoples though haha

 

so its only primitive if its a fight with a family member or friend but its evolved if its a stranger?

Your logic is flawless

 

uh no, i'm saying fighting no matter what is pretty lame.

piss off, champ. i feel like you are trolling just to troll.
i can't believe somebody who prides their internet ego on so much psychedelic use is even trying to argue the case you are arguing

 

what you need, is some industrial strength zip-ties. tie that fucker up.

the shoe rule is a pretty good one. if their shoes are on, then you can fuck with them. but if they aren't, then you shouldn't.

one time me and a few friends went around our party after everyone had passed out and tied up a good 20-30 people that were sleeping with industrial zip-ties. i don't think even one of them tried to get revenge physically.

although that shit does get old after a while. it's situational. like, if there is that one dude that is just totally shit wasted passed out in the corner, then OF COURSE he is going to get messed with.

also the fact that it was your house gives you more seniority.

 

i was unaware that there was a shoes on/ shoes off protocol. you learn something new every day im not a social drinker (i drink alone, yeah with nobody else) so i have never been in a situation where i was first passed out, and i wouldnt do that to someone else anyway.
but its good to know the rules

 

The Thou doest protest too much rule, its why everyone thinks the angry homophobes are just closets becuase not always, but more often than not they do end up gay.

You dont really see it at 19, cos everyones still running around getting hammered at parties, but hit late 20s when everyone is settling down getting married etc and types like him will stick out more

The Irony is the girls hes getting with at the moment can see it coming better than you can, with all his talk, they get him in the bedroom and he doesnt get as excited as other guys do, has trouble keeping it up, but of course never call him on it cos he'll go pyscho

The shitty part is 10 years later they'll still be angry, angry at women, angry at guys like you, try and make out they are the same thing as you are, try a little too hard to fit, and at times you may be forced to mingle with him or the likes of him, even though you know full well 10-15 years previously he might have helped put a little twink in hospital