stuck on this guy in a weird kind of way

If you think about it, the logic of sexual desire is all back to front. It is a statistical fact that women outnumber men by far, as is the way in most animal species. This means, in theory, that males, being the rarer of the species should be more in demand. However, in real life the opposite is true & males have far more difficult in finding a mate.

 

I'm not sure that women outnumber men by any appreciable amount, but your point stands that men don't get enough sex... at least not enough with other people!

 

Generally speaking, it's easier for girls than guys. There are plenty of biological and social reasons for that. But it's not always as easy as it should be.

I get passed up for cuter girls all the time. You're only attractive as you are ranked compared to the people surrounding you.

 

I'm surprised. I've looked at your photos and you're very pretty.

Now I know where I've been going wrong! I stand too close to the beautiful people!

 

I'm fine with the way I look. I don't think I'm hopelessly ugly. In fact, I'm glad I'm not so super hot that I have to fend off unwanted advances all the time and question the motives of every person that speaks to me. That would lose it's charm with a quickness.

 

youre not hot pinocio tuesdaystar ?:2thumbsup:

 

I'm so glad to be actually over this hangup. I said I was over it before, but what I meant was I could see right through myself, but I still kinda wanted his nuttsack. I mean I'd think about getting him naked pretty much every time I saw him.

But I saw him last night and I felt totally cool. Just normal, not crawling out of my skin in the littlest bit, not begging inside, not feeling like a kicked puppy over the rejection. Just good and normal.

And that's fucking awesome.

 

He can see/think you just want the sex because youre note gettin any elsewhere, guys dont like that feeling sometimes.

Maybe its not that hes not relaxed, hes not that into it... I had sex with a female once, and she was... i was horny alright but she was attractive to me and... i felt like no this is not gonna happen again... why i said this, you made a comment that you may not be that hot naked...

This guy sounds like an undesirable dude/he probably hasnt evolved into the player type yet. point being, his possible slight naivete is still there and is still hunting for romance and not flat out sex

just based on the OP alone

 

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