Struggling, but ok

Discussion in 'True Love' started by iriegnome, Jan 16, 2019.

  1. iriegnome

    iriegnome Member

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    Short back story. On year 10 of my first marriage, I found out my wife was cheating. So, I am now getting to year 10 of marriage #2. Things have been pretty bad with all sorts of things. Mostly (on my part) I have been under huge amount of stress and pressure from work. I changed jobs after 2 years of harassment. Due to all of that, I have not be at my best performance wise in 2 years. It has gotten way worse than I had thought. But last night, while on my way home from work, I talked with my wife and told her I wanted to race to see who could get home first and be naked. Well, the playful game worked because I got home first. When she got home she came straight into the bedroom and stripped. It was crazy good sex! I mean, like we were still dating sex. Man I miss that so much. The hope it for this all to move forward and for me to start living in today, not 18 years ago
     
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  2. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member HipForums Supporter

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    Good luck man. I'm not married. But it sounds like you did something right the other night. :)
     
  3. McFuddy

    McFuddy Visitor

    Keepin the drive alive.
     
  4. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Now you just need to add roles into your bedroom time and you'll be okay. :) I think the expectance of knowing what going to happen during sex is basically a turn off, so once something is routine and habitual, it gets boring. Once someone gets bored then the problems arise. In all honesty I don't know how some people can just do the same routine sex every day and get away with it, which I mean quite more often than not these days, they aren't getting away with it because one party eventually sees someone else.

    So you've seen now first hand what a bit of spice can give your love life, and it wasn't anything dire, it was just different than your habitual routine, the norm even. :)
     
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