I just read this fabu-freakin'-lous book by Pat Griffin: Strong Women, Deep Closets. It's about gays and lesbians in sport (well, primarily lesbians, given it's from her personal experience in several parts) and a brilliant insight into how "locker room culture" hurts gays and women in a bunch of areas. Great for kids in high school, or adults who have tried to block out the four years altogether. I dunno, I can't make it sound quite as good as it is, but especially if you're into sports...read this