Actually at the clubs in my area the girls aren't paid anything to be there. They work for tips and tips alone. A lot of guys will pay a girl $25-30 just for her to sit there and talk to him for 20-30 min, and they make the real money doing private dances in the VIP. So if you've got a girl (or 2) hanging out with you all night when she could be making actual money off other guys and you're not spending a dime on her? That's a really good sign.
Oh the joys of strip clubs. The pros and cons are endless. Just the right place for me, I do enjoy throwing a few dollars on sexy naked girls!
I have nothing against public nudity in the right setting and I have done it myself. I once worked in a hotel as a cook that an open kitchen and there were topless barmaids. A combination of sexual deprivation, alcohol and live tits made the blokes aggressive. Although I liked the idea to start with, I decided after a while it was not such a good idea.
One thing I don't like is lap dances. Seems like torture to me, being that close to a nude woman and not being able to touch. The only time I enjoyed it was in Toronto when it happened to the guy sitting right next to me and the woman was gorgeous.
I'm a gender mix..sort of pansexual/asexual, so I would enjoy watching either gender strip dance but wouldn't want to have sex with anyone so.. I could enjoy pleasure, without frustration! My last "ex" used to strip dance for me, and it was AWESOME!!!!! Still, I go beserk when I watch "Applause"- almost cry with pleasure watching Lady Gaga roll around in a shell thong...:love: Yet, I can't go any further in my imagination-the male/female aspects cancel each other out.
How is it even remotely possible to be both? pansexual; adjective: pan-sexual 1. not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regard to gender or activity Asexuality*(or*nonsexuality)[1][2][3]*is the lack ofsexual attraction*to anyone or low or absent interest in*sexual activity.
Haven't been in years and then only as a guest of one of the dancers or more often as escort/bodyguard. This was/is an interesting club, unionized, worker owned, the Lusty Lady in SF. http://www.lustyladysf.com/
Been to one swanky strip club.Girls were asking us upstairs for hand jobs,we declined but I paid for my mate to have a private dance. Been to a lower standard stripbar a couple of times at lunchtime because it was near to where I worked.After doing their turn the girls would come by with pint glass for you to deposit coins in. The folly of youth.Wouldn't negotiate such sad and tawdry experiences again. Skintrade sucks.
Seems to be common with androgynes. When in a past hetero relationship (trying to please my mom by dating) when I finally got over the gag reflex - usually took over a year of birding, ballroom dancing, having fun together, etc.-and we became a "couple," I was insatiable-which apparently threatens males, so I hid it. With my last ex (androgynous, bisexual, 6' 1" former airline pilot, resembles a Las Vegas male stripper) I didn't have to; we were both insatiable, both did it all- switch roles, do costumes of either gender, whips, mild S & M, play act mixed gender orgies, strip dancing, etc. :love: EVERYONE attracts me, gets me aroused..initially. Then (if it's a sexy male) my male side thinks of him as a peer, if it's a female, my male side is reminded of how gross it is to have female parts and the imagination is quickly squashed. In other words, after seeing Lady Gaga rolling around in her thong, I don't sit around fantasizing about her. My gender sides cancel each other out. I've been that way my entire life. Even as an 8 yr old, I'd get off multiple times in a row while imagining orgies with crowds of mixed genders, for sexual relief. Never thought about a specific person/gender/sexual act. Except for my last "ex" - he's bisexual and androgynous and we could do whatever and go wherever our imaginations took us. He's the only person where the very thought of him, or any accidental arousal makes me think of specific acts with him, but often he's just in the room during a mixed gender orgy..an orgasm catalyst. http://blogs.psychcentral.com/creative-mind/2011/02/the-complexity-of-the-creative-personality/ But I can enjoy the views on both gender sides, without torture. But now that I realize what I am, I no longer need my "ex" as a catalyst; I just picture myself first as a female getting it, then as the male doing it, and the orgasm is almost instant.
DC is another place that allows nudity and alcohol, thank goodness. Maryland has alcohol but no nudity, thongs. Lame. Do guys get completely naked at male SCs? I can't get off unless I see the ding dong. Interesting points everyone.
Has anyone been to a male strip club before? If so can you describe your experience(s)? I'm just curious.
Do straight guys often patronize male strip clubs? Maybe if I had a girlfriend and she wanted me to go with her to one I might be willing to go but I wouldn't want to on my own.
I've been to them. I find them kind of creepy and gross. They smell like Adult book stores and I am not a fan of the 'there is a naked girl on my lap and I can't touch her'!!!
