Straight Men

I'm a straight guy.
You gotta look at it this way...
Humans are nothing more than animals.
Men are designed to be attracted to women.
And isn't it a compliment when they look at you?
You can't change what someone is born with.

 

Don't say things that only prove your stupidity.

Homosexuality is practiced by most animals.

 

I also agree to a point but don't pigeonhole people. Do you hate every male and female that get drunk and make out when they are under the age of whatever and not a couple? Can't people just have fun and not worry? I understand how many do things like that for attention and how it undermines serious things but really.... what about two females who aren't just looking for attention (or looking for attention) at all but just want to kiss just cause? What- they shouldn't be allowed to do that because it would upset you?

addition- I've now read the entire thread and it appears everything I would have said has already been said, only better then I would have said it....

 

Is it a problem that I extremely dislike most of them?

In short, yes.

There are some who are different, but every time I find a guy watching ashley and I in a mall or something, I wanna castrate him. Men are pigs, and they're underming the seriousness and validity of the lesbian relationships. Theres a crisis going on.

Some lesbians/bi girls look at my girlfriend, should I castrate them? If a bisexual woman looks at me and my girlfriend should I be angry? You should be lucky that they aren't throwing crosses at you, what you see as disrespect is actually acceptance, 20-30 years ago you would have been disgusting. True, alot of men are pigs, I like to think I'm not. I'm labelled bisexual, but I am primarily heterosexual which makes me (kinda) fit into the group you speak of. I find girl on girl action fascinating, I'm sorry if that bothers you, my intention is not to undermine lesbianism, but also I reckognize that many guys are complete assholes and have no respect for women in relationships. I don't think it's bad enough to call a crisis, however I live in Europe, I may have different experiences.

Young girls are showing off for young boys, and I find it disgusting. If you are under the age of 16, and you're making out with your friends who are the same sex as you, you need to be spoken to.

I'm not sure what this is supposed to mean... girls can also be curious, let them.

they're succeedeing in making women into puppets, and we've been fighting it for so long. I'm really afraid for the new found 'hot lesbian action'. If you're busty blonde its hot to be with another girl. If you're a short haired brunette, its gross. I hate every woman that has sex or makes out with another girl In public when they are NOT a couple. you should be disgusted with yourselves, yes?

Wether it's a busty blonde or a short haired brunette is a matter of taste, but you have to understand that many men simply find girl on girl fascinating/hot. And I wouldn't judge all straight men so quickly, it makes you no better than those straight men who undermine women in relationships.

I have no idea what the truth is in the probelm, but i do know how I feel. Coming out seems to mean nothing anymore.
opinions?

You make it sound as if there's a war on, you make it seem that every straight man is against you. People constantly undermined me because of bisexuality, which is why I keep it to myself recently. Coming out is complete bullshit, I hate the expression "coming out", I've never used it and I never will. Most gay people I have come across are complete motherfuckers because they can't accept bisexuality, but I don't consider it a crisis, they are just motherfuckers and let them stay that way.

Just ignore these straight men who admire you and don't throw crosses at you or give you over to the inquisition, in reality you and your girlfriend have it really nice, your making something into a problem that isn't really a problem.

My opinion may be somewhat comical and straight-forward. I mean nothing offensive, maybe if you clarify your opinions better I might understand you more...

 

If you regard a whole gender as "pigs", that's your problem, not the gender's.

"Your problem" being an inability to deal with something that is normal and natural, to accept yourself as part of a whole and the nature of that whole as something inevitable and immalleable.

"You" being the impersonal "you", not one specific one.

 

That's what I 've tried to say! Yea I'm 14 but I'm really gay. It's just like the bi trend and it pissess me off. Those little kids (no offense to mysekf) need to grow up some.

 

as a straight guy, yes most of the time we can be pigs. do i get turned on by lesbians? hell yes. but i make it a point not to stare. i respect that its love between two girls and not just sex. i think if guys wanna watch two girls get it on, fine, watch porn at home. dont bother innocent lesbians. please dont castrate me

its strange, that it is too. ive done my fair share of experimenting, found out that cock doesnt do it for me. i remember freshman year it was so taboo to be gay, and by the time i was a senior EVERYONE was "bi". this is bad because if someone really was gay it would be brushed aside as "another follower". its kinda like the whole emo thing. emo kids *shudders* made cutting (self-mutilation) fashonable, making anyone who actually has a problem an "attention seeker". its so lame and sad too.

thats my 2 cents

 

As a straight guy, I know that girls that try to show off by making out are actually trying to assert their sexuality over me. The guys that let them to do that by staring them and egging them on lose any respect the girl already had for them- those guys are losers. They're not gonna get pussy. It's a shit test by the girl to test your value.

So my strategy in those situations is to just fucking ignore them and be like whatever and go play Nintendo or watch a brain surgery on the Discovery Health channel while they try to get my attention by making out. When they find out that doesn't work, they're down for getting for dirty with me =)

Basically, the guys that were staring at you were losers and probably aren't getting much straight pussy either.

 

Hating a being because of its actions is no better than commiting the actions yourself.

And you deem the actions of those you denounce to be immorale >.> Maybe so...but youre certainly not expressing the pinnacle of morality yourself here, you know.

xD

 

Who told you that??

If this is addressed to the post above yours, I'm not really sure where you're coming from. No-one said that women "using their sexuality" is necessarily immoral. He just said he intend to rise to it. Do you consider it the height of morality to let yourself be dominated, given that someone who opts not to acquiesce to subjugation is "certainly not expressing the pinnacle of morality"?

Or am I just talking shit?


(moving on...)

I do wonder with straight guys and the lesbian "fetish" - is it lesbianism that's a turn-on, or just the fact that, like, it's a woman, but there's two of them? I just kinda wonder. The girl-on-girl could be seen as lesbianism, but it could just be seen as an indicator of promiscuity/experimental potential (i.e. "dirtiness"). So it's a turn-on to know that a girl is "up for it" as much as it is that she's sucking some lady's face off.

I don't know, I'm merely speculating. While I've always been more attracted to straight dudes, I (unsurprisingly) don't really like watching them kiss girls. I understand that that's a different thing (because the girl isn't attractive to me, and kissing isn't particularly a demonstration of masculinity), but I'm just not sure how different it is. The few dudes I've asked about it kinda hinted that they weren't convinced that lesbians would want to pleasure them or anything like that (and were largely conscious of the whole "bisexual prickteasing" thing), but were turned on just by the mathematics of it.

 

I think this pretty much illustrates my problem with showy "fauxmosexuality", and yes, as you point out, it's kind of irrational. It's a little galling when heterosexuals do public making out with their own gender for a laugh, because it reminds me of how innately intimidated I feel by the public when I'm with someone, knowing that I almost certainly won't experience a serious negative reaction if I do kiss a guy, but at the same time being too afraid. It sorta reflects my anxiety and makes me feel a bit stupid, which is stupid in itself because I know that they're only doing it because they can, they only want to because they feel free to do it. It's frustrating when I'm someone who wants to do it when (I feel) I can't.

 

It was directed to We_All_Shine_On >.<

I was saying that you shouldnt hate people...not for any reason. <--- Very simple message, lol. People end up making things so complicated all the time.

 

i dont know....the fact that a straight guy can look at two lesbians with the utmost fascination, but look at two gay guys together with disdain annoys me. They bitch and moan that homosexuality is wrong, but they advocate it, as long as they're both female. Talk about hypocrasy..... I've never seen two girls make out for the sake of attracting male attention, but if I did, I would have no problem walking right up to them and letting them know how I feel. I think it's stupid to force yourself to do something that deep down inside you don't really want to do, all for the sake of some attention. There are PLENTY of other ways of getting attention. Like wearing a sleazy, tiny white t-shirt and no bra. That's a sure-fire way of getting some straight guys to look at you.....might be a little white trashtastic, but it works. But there's always the trouble of determining whether or not the two girls are ACTUALLY lesbian, or faking it. Now....when it comes to two GUYS kissing in public, I don't care whether or not it's fake....it's hot....

 

couple of years ago i was attraced to straight guys only , and i desliked gays and their relationships and everything that is related to them ... buy lately when i discovered how mistaken was my vision and started to dive into the gay world i become hypocritical and i hated every thing related to straight ... and that was because of the feeling that i was so deprived when i accepted the straights , the nature law, and disgusted by the homosexuality ........ but this era was short and now i can accept any human kind regardless to their sexual preference....

 

Are straight women turned on by two gay men making out? Just curious.

 

WEll girls. Are you turned on by this?

 

If the guys were hot (my type I should say...),
then I'd be turned on...

 

I don't dislike all straight men, but I prefer gay men...I have a weird thing--I'm a straight girl yet I'd rather think of a man being with another man than with a woman. Hmm. I guess I'll have to change my theory when I get older.