So after reading a few threads on here, I've been unexpectedly turned on with the notion of sucking cock. Now, I'll never be flexible enough to reach my own cock, so that only leaves one option... I'm beginning to think that I might try and meet up with someone (anonymously, maybe a gloryhole kind of setup, where I can't see him / he can't see me) and give it a go. Of course, I've never done it before so I would probably bolt and run away when I first encountered another man's cock. But I imaging the sensation of having another guys hard cock in my mouth to be very exhilirating. Have any of you straight guys, ever had this feeling, or gone ahead and pursued it and actually sucked another guy off?
I highly doubt you were straight before "reading a few threads on here and unexpectedly getting turned on with the notion of sucking cock"
I straight. I've sucked cock. I, occasionally, am attracted by the idea of sucking more. Don't let conventional straight jacketing lock you into a label that doesn't apply to you. You're straight (attracted to women) and are turned on by the thought of sucking cock. If that doesn't fit in some people's boxes, that don't mean nothing. If you are looking for an opportunity to see if the reality is as much of a turn on as the fantasy, MMF situations are good for that. Finding that a close straight friend has similar inclinations is obvious. Give it a try. Be prepared for the possibility that the cock in your mind is more of a turn on than one in your mouth. Be prepared for the possibility that cock in your mouth feels real hot and you want to do it again. (Even though you are still turned on by women and therefore straight.) And for God's sake, make a stand every man who has ever received a blow job from anyone and swallow.
Ok ok, maybe I didn't explain too well on my first post. I've always considered myself completely straight as I've never had any other tenancy - women are the only ones that turn me on, genuinely. I'm happily married too. Now I guess that these latest feelings must indicate that I'm bi? So, maybe what I should be asking is how did you bi guys feel the first time you discovered that you liked the idea, and took your first cock in your mouth? Also, any tips for making it happen, how to meet up with a guy for an experimentation session, what to be aware of, maybe even how to involve a very straight and timid wife?
I can't believe that none of you guys have ever thought about the sensation of sucking a cock? I mean, plenty of you claim to be able to do self fellatio so.... ? I just would really like a bit of help understanding my feelings and how to act upon them.
You know if you interested in doing something then just accept it and don't worry if it is not for other people. If you are bi then you are. If you are happily married and love your wife do not go behind her back to fulfill your fantasy. That is just a shitty thing to do to someone that you are supposed to care about. I don't know what your relationship with your wife is like, but if you two communicate well and are supportive of each other being themselves you could tell her how you really feel. Maybe this could lead to more including her.
Thanks enhancer13. I would never want to go behind my wifes back for anything. We've been married for 8 years, how on Earth can I suddenly mention that I have these feelings? I mean, she could probably understand if I was into another woman, but these feelings of what I want to do to another guy? I think that would send her insane! Really confused on the best course of action, I think I'm best of just trying to forget it!?
Maybe your wife has a fantasy about being with a woman and you dont know? Bring it up casually about whats turning you on.
ashdawkins - I completely know how you feel. I am straight, I'm not attracted to the male form nor do I fantasise about it or anything. I love everything about women from their gentle nature to their breast, ass and vagina. But I have thought about what it would be like to suck cock. When I get these feelings I often watch shemale porn and this helps. Something about a "chick with a dick" turns me on so I look out for the really feminine looking shemales like Bailey-Jay and Serena Valentina. Honestly, don't worry about labelling yourself. in the animal world there is now gay/straight/bi. There's just sexual encounters. I have thought about a gloryhole scenario myself, as I really am not turned on my the male form, I just like the look and feel of cock! I have managed to suck my own penis but only the head at the moment and I enjoy it...but I don't recommend the immense back pain afterwards from contorting into a pretzel. Humans are not meant to be pretzels. Honestly, I'd say pose the question to your wife, maybe she has some fantasy about you with another man and you could both enjoy this new sexual experience together? It's quite good for a marriage to try new things as well. Whatever you choose, good luck and have fun. You only live once, so enjoy it!
Honestly no. But interestingly enough regarding the whole glory hole thing, if there was someone on the receiving side and it was totally awesome and you came so hard from it. And then afterwards realize it was a guy who blew you… Or let’s say you went to some pay for sex place and saw a nice looking ass sticking out of a small hole in the wall and nothing else, and went to town and then realized after it was a dude? Or what it you paid for a an escort, she was attractive, nice figure, things start to heat up and you reach down and grab a tree stump? What would you think or do then? Let down your egos for a second and seriously think about it… I consider myself straight, have never been expectedly nor unexpectedly caught in any of these sudations and am not sexually attracted to guys, I’d honestly have to think long and hard about it if I was in one of these situations myself and found out after the fact. It certainly would be a mind trip to say the least. Speaking as if I was single, no matter how drunk or whatever I was I’d never engage with a willing or persistent guy simply because my mind doesn’t go there, and I’ve never been the least bit interested in blowing a guy just for the hell of it or seeing what it was like no matter how inebriated I might be. And yet an ass is an ass, a mouth is a mouth, so... In some strange way I guess I can bring myself to admire or rather say “You go boy!” to guys who can transcend that gulf who are bi and can work both sides of the fence as I guess they’d get more action in the end, and I’m cool with that. Not my cup of tea, but if you have an interest in it OP, well then “You go boy!!!”
I know how you feel. I'm straight, only attracted to women, never done anything with a man, but would like to at least once suck a big cock & receive a messy facial. I've tried Craigslist, but most responses want me to pay them to suck their dicks, which I am not going to do.
I am what is considered straight. In my sixties now but still very sexually active. In my thirties I was involved with a knockout older woman who had lead a sheltered sex life. One night when sharing fantasies she mentioned a desire to try MFM. I knew a friend of mine was into that and was also bi. We had a number of great threesomes, no bi, then one day just we two guys were together and I tried it. It had always been a fantasy since my teens. If anything, it exceeded expectations. Bringing him to an erection by fondling and licking then keeping him on edge by sucking and deep throating for what appeared to be the longest time until I went for it and made him come in my mouth. I am so glad I had this experience.
Seems to me - that MF is straight, MM or FF is not 'Especially' If one likes it Fantasy and/or Experimental exertion is one thing - though a 1 off is one thing, habitual enjoyment = quite another
I say go for it, you only regret the things in life you don't try, don't worry about what other people think, do what feels good to you
Thanks for the replies guys, I'm glad I'm not the only one who has these feelings. I'm still not sure what I'm going to do about it. To be honest I wouldn't even know where to meet such a guy anyway!
Well, whatever you decide it is you choice and good luck to you! Even if you don't try it now, by accepting it you leave open the opportunity in the future!