Anyone else have a "straight friend" that likes to mess around from time to time? Sext, pics, fun play etc..?
Yep, for eight years now but has evolved into a foursome affair with our wives involved every now and again. He and I suck each other very regularly.
I don't know what you and your 'straight friend' do when you mess-around but if you are honest to yourself and each other, at best 'your friend' is a Bisexual. Messing around sexually with another man is committing [engaging] in a 'Homosexual' act. With that said, I really don't care how you, your friend or anyone else identifies them self's based on sexual orientation. That is between you and you and really is not anyone else's business.
Known each other for over 40 years. We both lived a straight life with our wives. About a year and a half ago whole he and I were sitting around nude watching football (as was common being we were nudists) we got discussing how things had changed sexually at home with our wives. How things used to be. We ended up with erections. Seems like each time we met things progressed even further. We don't get together but every few months but enjoy the times we do
The guy I've gotten together with lately is a total top. We make out like I'm his girlfriend, I suck him and then bend over the bed so he can finish up inside me. Does that qualify as "straight"?
Grin ... I haven't seen his cock, but it maybe straight... My FWB can't be labeled 'straight', his 'leans' off to the left a little bit. Keep on keeping on and have fun with your straight friend.
IMO neither of you are what most people consider to be "straight" / hetero-sexual. Sounds to me you're his "fuck-doll" and theirs nothing wrong with that if you're both getting what you want sexually.
I have a str8 friend that I've recently been fantasizing about. Not really sure how it started, but the past few times we've been together - we get together with our wives usually - I've noticed he wears snug slacks. I started looking for a bulge, and every once in a while it's obvious he has nice sized equipment. Finally masturbated one afternoon thinking about it, made me feel kind of weird.
Don't feel weird about it because those visions of him within your mind provided you individual pleasure during your privacy. During my first marriage after about 10 years in, two kids, and her periodic holding back sex I many times was looking at our couples friends (both men & women) and having sexual fantasies that I masturbated too later. I'd already been hooking up secretly with other married men for mutual oral to satisfy my sexual needs neglected by my wife and so wanted to suck the cocks of our married friends we hung out with on a monthly basis. I never brought it up knowing it would cause serious problems for everyone involved but it never stopped me from looking at the crotch wondering what is behind that fabric.
Yeah, I don't feel weird about it anymore. I kind of like the feeling. He and I don't talk about sex, but I know the wives do and I get the feeling he doesn't get much. Makes me wonder if he's like me, but like you say too risky to even bring it up.I do think about him more and more though
If two male friends like to mess around together, even if it's just from time to time, then neither one of them is "straight."