So, I am bi with a gay leaning and one of my friends is straight. I stayed over at his house last weekend and he was really welcoming to me physically by letting me sleep in his bed and cuddle with him. He even showed me his penis (at my request). I tried to suggest we have sex or I at least give him a hand job but he strongly declined. He claims he's straight and that he wants to allow me to enjoy his body if I like it, but gets no pleasure himself from contact with me. It's tough to tell but I am curious if this could be possible. Is it possible he's just being kind to me and allowing me to play with him while he really has no interest? Obviously, I hope he's interested because that would mean we might do more.
oh come on, you-can-look-but-you-can't-touch? the guy is a cock-tease. surprisingly enough, there are guys like that out there. not worth the trouble. find someone better.
Stranger things have happened. So, to answer your question, yes, it is possible that he is being very kind to you. Only, it is not very likely at all. A straight dude may be perfectly comfortable with having a bi/gay friends. Cuddling in bed together/showing his cock goes quite a bit above and beyond your usual understanding of the word 'comfortable'. No one has means of reading his thoughts/plans. Be honest and tell him directly that you would enjoy having an intimate sexual experience of some kind with him. Being allowed to look ONLY, may work miracles for him or not, but does not do ANYTHING for you. You can still be friends but the cuddly/see my cock part ONLY does not work for you. It is important to state all of this very clearly. There is a chance that your friend is not teasing you purely for his own innocent fun/ego boost. By letting you see but not touch and play, he may be pushing you into a corner where you start being dependent on his willingness to carry on with his play. People have been known to have abused this scenario frequently. By staying good if asexual friends, and by demonstrating that you can easily find very accommodating playmates, your chances to have some fun with a genuinely willing him are much higher KD
I figured him out. Basically he just likes the attention and "gets off" to being seen by me and other people. He doesn't like guys per se, but he likes people looking including guys. So, we chatted and since he has a nice body and dick I am going to keep looking when he wants to show off. It's just like porn solos I guess.
?????I know I have two straight friends all my life through school seeing them both naked in the showers after sports, and when we spent the night with each other or camping,, both have great bodies much larger in the male package than me I love looking at them as I completely accepted my gayness I did not want that to cause any problems with friendship looking at them as they found out about me and seeing me dressed both still friends one however came to me wanted to try he had curious desires now I have a great intimate side to our friendship I am his total bottom and he is great my other friend I hope wants to explore with me one day also..
You're very attractive. Even a straight guy might well go off the res to get some. I think CDs often look more glamorous than women. We've all seen the WWII movies about German Stalags, in which British, American and Canadian officers and men put on cabarets which included cross-dressed vaudeville acts. Some of the cross dressers were turned on by dressing and more than one guy in the audience had a hidden hard-on. When guys dress up for a laugh there's often a hidden agenda - that curious ripple of euphoria which attends the brush of satin and lace against one's sensitive skin.
