Straight but really curious

no.

 

I meant why hasn't he had sex

 

um because i haven't :S. Are saying that i should have by now or something?

 

sex with guys is definitely more intense than with women.

 

I am am new to this group & find the post here very interesting. A little info: an asian, married for 11 years and has a kid (just school going) and love my wife, but at times curiosity tend to get me (just tried twice mutual MB during school, ages ago and thats it), and as usual for the fear of safety & stds just to say a few (and i hope to keep it as such), so I keep to myself and found some ways like reading on: nifty.org which helps, to some extend. I tried out the local online thing but most are like grinder kinda thing which just adds to my paranoia. And do tend to agreed with you guys. And am I the only one a little paranoid with std and the stuff?

 

well since u havent there must be a reason no?

 

well i feel the other way i want to try to receive want to feel cock n cum be used may be...it sounds weird but i feel i am getting weaker for a man to open me up for something i crave for

 

The only sex that I want to have with a guy is sucking his cock and maybe a M/M "69". I want to know what it feels like to have an erect cock cum in my mouth and possibly what it feels like to have someone cum in my mouth while I'm cumming in theirs. No hugging, no cuddling, no kissing, no ass play or anal penetration just erect cocks shooting their loads into willing mouths.

 

Most bi guys find it a purely sexual thing, myself included.

365 Posts... Woo.

 

Sorry to revive an old thread but I only just happened across it!!

I'm 34 and find the female body to be the most exquisite human form on the earth!

I too have strangely compelling feelings towards being in front of a very big cock and would quite well want to wank & suck it. Fantasy is to be in a 69 position with a woman and watching as it slides in and out. Then it'd come out a bit to far and flop down into my mouth at which time I would savour the juices and raw excitement of sucking on something that literally dwarfs my own erect cock. 6"

However, even with those thoughts running through my mind at a time when I literally couldn't feel any more inebriated or open to suggestion I still wouldn't think off anything to do with the male except the cock!

I have zero desire to kiss, hug, have intercourse, look at, feel anything emotional for or even register that there's a person attached to the cock!

Men in general do nothing for me! The idea of kissing, having intercourse, laying down with or even coming into contact with a man in any sexual way literally repulses me!

So just as the OP was wondering, is that straight or bi?
I feel no attraction for men emotionally or physically except the one thing that a TS would have.

I've met some TS's that any 'straight' man would make an effort to chat up if they saw them in a pub, because they are equally as feminine in looks and mannerisms as any woman that would be in the bar at any given time.

So being as a TS can effectively be a woman on all accounts except genitalia would it be straight (attracted to female form) to find her attractive/sexy or gay (attracted to male form) because she has a penis?

 

Good question sevsman, in my eyes that is straight. I to could never see myself kiss, cuddling, hugging or laying with a man. But yet ive always wanted to feel a throbbing cock in my mouth just bwfore it blows its tasty load. Hell idk if i could let a guy auck me off, i guess itd all be in the heat of the moment. Dont get me wrong, i LOVE women, big ones, fat ones, athetic ones, skinny ones and drop dead gorgeous females but i still have that wonder. Maybe its just us guys wanting to know how it feels for a women. Idk many guys that havent put them selfs in the scenario were they have a vagina for one whole day. Most say theyd take the day off work, hit up the grocery store or toy store and just fuck them self all god for saken day! I know i would. lol What im getting at is, more then likely you are not infact gay nor bi, just really curious. Buy a realistic dildo, the rubbery smell and the dumb cumming actions can be a real detour tho. Differently not as good as the real thing but if your a shy guy it might just be the closest youll get. Try to feel out one of your friends without saying it, beat around the bush or get them drunk and just suck em while there passed out and hope to hell they dont kick the shit out you when they awake. lol who knows, maybe youll get one in return. Like one guy already stated, more guys think about this then you think. Your bestfriend could be looking at you as you read this thinking to him self if your cum taste better than his own.

 

Yeah it certainly feels weird!
Another thing that goes with it is the whole bf asks gf 'what's the biggest one you've ever had' question at some (early for me) point in the relationship. Now most men that ask that will obviously regret ever letting the words come out of their mouth, when the woman is honest and sais 9 inches.
Now I do believe that a hell of alot of men ask this and make their partner swear to tell the truth. But in my view the gf should read the bf and answer accordingly dependant on how secure he is.

Message to women!! Men will lie to save you feeling inadequate or to avoid making you feel self conscious. And that is the right thing in my book to do!

Message to men!! Most women will tell the truth because you begged for it and swore you could handle it!

People should always read their partner and not divulge things that will hurt the other, it's not really lieing in my book as it's solely for the peace of mind of your partner and you in no way gain anything by simply caring for their feelings!
People SHOULD tell little white lies like that because it's easy to hurt someone and just because they ask a question and swear to be comfortable doesn't mean that they will be! Not their fault, they just think that nothing that's said by someone they love can upset or hurt them!

Anyway, back on track!
So, I suffer from the old what's the biggest you've had hangup. However even if I'm with a woman that is honest and she speaks the truth I find it a huge turn on to talk about it. If we're watching porn I'll see a big one and ask 'was it that big? 'And whilst having sex I'll ask her to describe how it felt and about all the positions, did it hurt, was it ever really hard sex and if so was it comfortable, how much could you fit in your mouth and so on.
The hard part that makes me feel insecure or just plain deflated is when she's told me how big it was and seen that it turns me on but refuses to indulge my little kinky ways.

I know that some girls (for some weird reason) don't want to talk in detail about things like that, but knowing that it turns me on (of which I'd mention whilst asking the question in the first place) I don't think it's right to give a teaser like that and then clam up and play prude!

I think I'm just seriously kinky and in some ways perverted because of my big penis fetish but it's weird that I don't want to know about the person, just the cock.

I'm happy with my 6" and always make women cum, both from oral in intercourse (I always read a woman's body language and spend 99% of intercourse secretly watching the woman for signs of what's working and unless teased for a long time and being treated I always cum after the woman) , but I think that because I'm very masculine (used to fight alot and win, am very assertive in life) I like the idea of feeling of weakness.

I often make jokes about my dick being small in the hope that they'll catch on and say that although it does the trick it's not very big at all. One woman saw and understood and one day whilst texting about her well hung ex fucking her whilst she'd only wank me off she told me that although I get the job done 'in all honesty the tool I had to work with wasn't all that big' Instant hard on!!

It's so confusing to have the desire of giving a blow job (has to be hung like a donkey) , being physically and mentally turned on whilst discussing and fantasizing how my girlfriend used to get stretched by an ex and having it described to me in detail during sex. I look at the dick mostly in porn and almost only ever watch videos with extremely well hung men because I love the idea of watching in awe as something so big can fit in a woman so small.

So my fixation is purely with cocks. In saying that though, if one was in front of me or sliding in and out of a woman right above my face I actually don't know whether the urge to play with it would persist or if my brain would compute that a fantasy is just that, a fantasy.
Maybe it's just a whole new genre and that it's taboo and seen as wrong? I don't know :-(
I've managed at one point or another to try almost everything I've wanted with women so is it just my mind working overtime and finding the next freak piece if excitement?

Sorry for the long ass ramble, I've been up 28hrs now and my brain is fecked to say the least!

I hope my point made it through in the end though !!

If not then :toilet: it lol

 

Women are intuitive, beautiful, and knowing. I was married 17 years and told my wife I was Bi. Her answer? "I know" We are still together. We agreed on an open marriage and have been going strong for 2+ years. I don't know if your wife will be as cool as mine, but I wish you the best....:sunny:

 

First of all I homy post isn' irrelevant to the topic because I'm a girl. But I have recently discovered that gay sex really turns me on. Now I can't stop watching it.. I don't find any other porn arousing anymore I'm bi. But I've never dated a bi guy but now IRS so weird that I feel like I want my bf to be bi.

 

Talk to him. Maybe he'll oblige . I'm a bi guy but the only porn that gets me off is male-only porn. But then I prefer sex with men to sex with women, if I had to choose.