Straight but really curious

I am a straight guy but I can't deny i'm really curious about gay sex. Let me make it clear though, as curious as I am about that, its purely sexual and I've never had or think I could have emotional and romantic attachment or attraction to another guy like I do with girls. I don't know why but something about sex with a guy seems so enticing and I get so turned on by gay porn. I'm just not sure whether I should pursue this or not, experimenting sexually I mean, and if I should I'm not sure how I should do it.

 

Some guys just like the raw sexuality of another guy - chicks don't do it. Some guys get all warped about some other guys dick up against them. I'm straight, played around when I was younger - but it was just sex. Sex is more fun with 2 involved and lets face it - another guy has experience with the equipment that a chick can't have.

I like chicks - but there's nothing wrong with having a little blowout with another guy. Hot actually.

 

yeah its something like that, seems so much more intense than with girls. But basically I'm not sure how I should go about trying it out.

 

Quote: "I am a straight guy but I can't deny i'm really curious about gay sex. Let me make it clear though, as curious as I am about that, its purely sexual and I've never had or think I could have emotional and romantic attachment or attraction to another guy like I do with girls."


I think it's important not to get too hung up on labelling yourself. It sounds like you haven't had a sexual experience with another guy yet Wait and see how you feel when/if you do. If the desires are strong enough you will seek to be fulfilled just like anyone else.

The key for emotional well being is to accept yourself as you are .

Si.

 

Well put Speedfly, well put ^_^

 

u can often be sexually aroused by another guy but find a closer emotional attachment to a woman - that's how i find it,

Simon

 

There are plenty of guys who are curious about it. If not exposed to it by the internet, you might not have the curiosity as much. No big deal. Many men, str8,married, just plain regular guys would like to try it, but it would have to be the pefect conditions. Married guys aren't going to gay clubs, strangers are dangerous, getting aids is the biggest deterent.
You could be hanging out with a good buddy who might feel the same exact way, but wouldn't say anything. There should be a High Sign or something.

 

yeah, there sure should be a sign - that would make some changes if we could tell who's open. :sunny:
Simon

 

Hello: I think it is normal for all to be curious. Most of the rules of out society are strickly that rules. All men have a curiousity about other guys, something to campare themselves to. Am I normal? Am I hung enough? How do I fint in? Am I normal if I look at another mans dick in the shower? Well all kids look, they just want to know what they are in for, big? Hairy etc. As for the other desires perhaps to touch, or more I can not comment for you, but if the desire is thee then it is just that a disire! Live life with no regretes, be yourself, if others do not like it ... it is their stuff. Be honest with yourself!. You are unique but certainly not alone. We all think a bit different, but your desires are shared by many! (not all perhaps but a lot more than you can imagine) Be sure! I live by a philosophy all men will "go there" if they are in the right situation, eeither by booze or perhaps in teh right other frame of mind. I am sure there is no man that has not had the thought. whether it is in a group trio (sharing a girl with another guy) or ... Well the combinations are endless. Be true and follow your instincts, we live just once .. don't live a life of regrets ... you will not die well!

 

I'm not like losing sleep over it I'm just curious about how it feels to have sex with a guy. I wouldn't really mind if it never happened but if the chance comes up, I'd probably try it.

 

Chicks dont do it? BS! Yeah they do it....You really need to do your homedwork before making a statement like that publically

 

I'm with ya man...No desire for any relationship BS with a guy, just want a nice hard dick to jerk and suck. And the one poster was right, us married guys arent going to any club looking for it. It's a tough situation.

I've only had 2 experiences in my life - both i went looking for online. Both were awkward and less than satisfying. And not the type of guys that really did anything for me.

 

i feel like its other people who take isue with who bi or gay people have sex with

 

i don't think i'm gona go looking for it soon. i'm happy with girls for now but something tells me i'll try it at least once in my life but i don't think i'll go looking for in clubs, but tbh i don't how i will..

 

I feel like now is the time in your life that you should be experimenting with age comes more responsibility that will get in the way. Now ur like free from the confines of society

 

thing is i'm still a virgin and to be honest i don't want to lose it with a guy. at the moment i'm bi-curious at best and maybe in the future i'll find that i like sex with guys and i'm bisexual but i definitely want to lose my virginity with a girl not a guy so until then there is no way i'll go looking for it.

 

Well you don't have to go all the way with a guy to know. A kiss and a passionate embrace is enough to know

 

Why are you still a virgin

 

because he hasnt had sex.... derp//

 

I'm exactly the same way. You could try experimenting with toys at first to see if you're into that kind of thing. Thats what I did and let me tell you, prostate stimulation is awesome!