Straight/Bi Guys who like ass play or anal penetration...get in here...dont be shy

There is a difference between the physical sensation of anal stimulation and the psychology of sexual relationships. Between the prostate and all the nerves around a man's ass, any one of us could get off (or at least make our orgasms more intense) through anal play. But our preconceived ideas and taboos, or the psychology of it all, tend to get in the way of the physical sensations.... or with some, the taboos heighten the experience.

I love anal stimulation. I prefer to give it to myself because I feel too vulnerable letting someone else do it... which turns me off sexually. I get off on being dominate... penetrating rather then being penetrated. I'm hetro but love anal play with myself.

 

I am an older guy, but had a Bi experience in my early thirties. I had fantasized about is since puberty but it was such a taboo for men to discuss, let alone try, and still is verboten I guess. I was newly divorced and started an amazing affair with a woman 25 years older than me. She was attractive and a fairly well known public figure in Canada. It was quite a turn to have hot sex with a lady with a straight laced public, respected image.

One day in bed she shared a fantasy of having two men. As the conversation progressed she became really turned on, especially when I mentioned I knew a guy that was very much into this. Long story short, we ended up at my place twice a month with my friend and had a great threesome time. I loved to watch as she performed oral on him. She knew I liked watching, so she used to put on quite a show. What she did not know is that I was getting turned on because I was envious of her sucking on his sexy erection. It was the same when he mounted her in just about any position. I would fondle myself imagining what it would be like to have his cock inside me anally.

We arranged to meet at my place one afternoon for one of our great threesomes. He arrived first, and then my girlfriend called and bailed due to an emergency. We had already showered and were sitting around in housecoats and continued to chat about our crazy sex lives when I plucked up the courage to ask him how he got into Bi. He was open and easy to talk to about it (my heart was in my mouth!). He sensed my interest and came right out and asked me if I wanted to try it with him. At this point I was so turned on that I could hardly sit still, so murmured yes.

In the bedroom he slipped out of his robe and lay down and I nervously slid onto the bed and knelt next to him and took his cock into my hand and began to stroke and fondle it. It was electrifying as it became harder and harder until it was fully erect. I could hardly believe that this fantasy was finally happening and that the reality was better than the fantasy. When I could resist no more I lowered my head and began to lick up and down his shaft and from time to time took his balls into my mouth and did my best to swirl my tongue around them. I spent quite a bit of time teasing like this before I finally took the head of his cock between my lips and then slowly swallowed almost the entire length. I started to apply different suction pressures and tongue swirling, occasionally nibbling with my teeth and I was surprised that he came very quickly (CIM). He told me later he was really turned on by a new “conquest”.

We had already assumed a male-male sex thing where he was dominant and in charge and I was sub which suited me just fine. That’s probably why I dabble in BDSM from time to time.
He recovered in no time flat and pushed me onto my back and knelt over my face and had me suck him off. After a few minutes of this he got on top of me in a 69 and now I could hardly believe the sensations. He told me to perform oral on him exactly how I wanted it done for me, which he then began to mimic perfectly. It was almost like being in my own head and giving myself a blow job if that makes any sense. I came in no time flat and rolled over not believing what was going on. So much had happened in just thirty minutes.

We took a break, had a shower and back to the bed for another 69. When we showered together he had been behind me and fondled me to erection with a soapy hand and at the same time had begun to play with my anus. I am incredibly sensitive down there and in no time at all I had to lean forward on the shower wall to steady myself as waves of ecstasy ran through me as he gently worked his soapy finger inside me. He had already figured out that he was going to fuck me and I sure as hell knew that I wanted him to. Before we were too carried away with the 69 he rolled away, stacked a few pillows and told me to lay my hips over the top of them. I was laying there, my ass in the air feeling crazy vulnerable yet excited and nervous.

He took his time going to get the lube from the bathroom and when he returned he started off by massaging my buttocks, then gently biting and licking them until the electrifying sensation of his tongue in my anus shook me. He had me squirming at this point and after a while started to apply lube and slowly work my ass loose (well somewhat!!) as he probed me with one, then two fingers. The moment of truth arrived when he switched positions and I felt the head of his cock working against my opening. I was having a huge adrenaline rush from both fear and the thrill of it all. No question it was difficult and painful at the beginning. I can see how some men turn women off for life when they are not careful, but my friend knew what he was doing and really took his time. I could certainly tell he had a giant boner going! After a while everything relaxed and he was all the way in and I could feel him filling me up down there. We varied the pace, and I really enjoyed the sensation of him sliding nearly all the way out then slowly sliding all the way back in until he gave a hard push at the end. As he became more excited I managed to find his rhythm and he ended in quite the explosion.

The reality exceeded the fantasy and part of the thrill was the taboo and looking forward to those visits. We got together a couple of times a month for about a year. There was never any kissing of hugging, and I have never tried to label myself as gay, straight or Bi. It was a perfect storm of events in that I knew him before the MFM threesome, and I was already used to being around him sexually. I never did it again, but have often thought about those experiences and doing it one more time.

 

I wonder............

1. How many men fantasize about oral and/ or anal with another man, but would never dare admit it?

2. And also, would they try it if they knew that it was a one off and that it was a secret that they could take to their graves?

3. Men of course find two Bi women hot as hell. What do you women think of two guys having sex. Hot, neutral disgusting? Would you want to watch if one of the men was your significant other?

 

I carved a wax dildo from a candle it's about 8" long and 4" around. Only complaint I have it is has no flexibility

 

I tried using a candle for Anal Masturbation once, but even my own body temperature softened the wax so that it was impossible to pull it out & had to squeeze it out, as if having a bowel movement.

 

Maybe the candle will stay stiff if you do not light it

 

Iam a 49yr old straight guy and I enjoy anal stimulation also. I have tried different anal toys and they greatly enhance my penile orgasms. I have recently started using an device made specifically targets the prostate. I am able to have "anal/prostate" orgasms. They are more powerful and tend to be whole body orgasms. Enjoying this type of stimulation doesn't make you gay in my opinion.

 

Sparky Paul, Think about it, you can't be gay with yourself. Ain't no way!

 

I try & either use or buy cheap items to use as sex toys rather than paying out big $'s on manufactured types. Some Durex lube containers are ideal as either the perfect anal / vaginal stimulators.

 

I also have been straight all my life. Im married with three adult kids .But I have been messing around with prostrate toys and i have been thining how it would feel to get anal with a real cock.Im not attracted to men .Would like to try a fuck buddy.Discreetly

 

It is not hard to find, it is a slightly firmer part of the anus. See the image below.

http://www.dana-farber.org/images/pdq/CDR0000457840.jpg

Since I read about prostrate orgasms a year ago I have tried some experimentation with it and various toys, such as several Aneros stimulators and others designed for this purpose. While I have found the sensations pleasurable, I have never experienced what I would call a prostrate orgasm. And I am sure I'm the only guy who has not, based on other forums I have read. Sadly there is no way you can guarantee it will be spectacular for him, our bodies are all different and respond differently, what works for some does not work for all.

 

The idea of kissing a man turns me off.But i been playing with prostate toys.Ive been putting vibrators & dildos up my ass.Im glad to see im not the only straight guy who .would like:a real cock.I hope to meet someone who lives close enough to become a fuck buddy.This would be my first time.

 

Wouldn't a shemale be the perfect solution? I'd love to have a threesome with my wife and a shemale.

 

There's an ad on my city CL postings that "offers and guarantees" orgasms via a prostate massage. While I find it enticing, I don't have the guts to reply to the ad. Joshoa, you're not the only one. Wish I could too.

 

I also think everyone has bi tendencies...and i am bi

 

Lol I lost my virginity at 15 to two slightly older and one younger gal (17, 18, and 14)

Lost both of my v cards that day haha. The 17 year ok introduced me to pegging, it's been a fun thing ever since. I have done anal with almost all my girls in the past, I'll say this IMO don't fuck an ass unless you can handle it yourself. I believe it gives you a upper hand to the whole thing overall. Liking something up your ass doesn't make you gay or bi, if your secure about yourself and what you enjoy...GO FOR IT. (Nothing against the LGBT community I respect everyone equally and everyone deserves the right to love)

 

Was roaming the web when I came upon this post and wanted to answer so bad I signed up! And I think I'm gonna like this forum
I'm a married bi guy. Sex with wife has been dull for a long time (10 years...) which has led me back to fantasizing about men. Truth is, I love getting fucked. I'm uncomfortable about it and blush when a men asks me if I like it, but the fact is that I do. I love sex with guys even though I don't consider myself gay at all. I love women and love sex with women at least as much as I do with guys but the turn ons and pleasure is totally different. I'm sensuous both in a masculine and feminine ways and on the rare occasions I watch porn I identify more often with the women in them. Sure anal was and is a little painful at first but the pleasure is intense both mentally and physically.

 

"Sure anal was and is a little painful at first but the pleasure is intense both mentally and physically."
From everything I'm reading and seeing on the web, you're absolutely correct. It's a whole new and wonderful feeling. Somehow, I can't get through the "Psychological" aspect of it. No way can I "relax and enjoy it." Talk about being uptight. I've tried pegging myself. I just can't relax, aka, open up enough. I have no idea where that stems from. I can't even handle the prostate exam with a doctor. Go figure. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

 

I actually am the opposite of some of you here. I have a very physical attraction to guys and I do enjoy the cuddling and kissing. I started anal play as a kid. I started with a hairbrush and moved to a plunger. Through some other circumstances I enjoyed the feel of a penis before I knew what was happening. message me for the story details. but I to this day will still use dildos and have an occasional tryst with men. I have used my many skills I learned on dildos on many a lucky men. including deep throating.

 

Don't think I got interested in anal until middle age. Started experimenting with a friend at work and eventually had several encounters where I took a real cock in the ass. Love it immensely. Am lucky enough to be married to a woman who likes to rim and toy my ass, in fact, just this morning she used a new toy on me. She knows that I like real cock in me, but as of yet we haven't had the opportunity for her to guide one in me yet...