Hey! I'm in kind of a hard situation. I have been in love with my straight best friend for about 2 years now. I am a lesbian and I'm pretty open about it. I'm pretty sexually experienced as well. Either way, I found out that my best friend has been curious about girls for a while now. She even talked to her boyfriend and asked him if he would be okay with her doing it with someone which he was. So like a couple of days ago now me and her talked about it and she asked me if I would be willing to experiment with her. A lot of thoughts have been spinning around in my head since then. I don't know if it's a good idea though. But I still really want to do it. I also know this is mean and wrong in a lot of ways. But I really want her to get feelings for me. I don't know if that would be possible though. Like maybe if I tried making it a bit romantic with candles, held her hand while we did it and a lot of kissing? Or maybe do it with her more than once? I don't know what to do. I really need some help :/
This does sound like quite the situation. I would probably tell her that it wouldn't be a good idea, and why. If you did go through with it, and she never returned those feelings to you, it could ruin a good friendship. On the other hand, my best friend was invited into bed with her crush and their husband. The crush ended up leaving her husband for my friend and now they are engaged. It is a hard decision, you're the one that has to live with it.
