I identify as stone butch. For those who don't know, it's pretty much a butch who doesn't like to be touched sexually. It's got more to do with my transgender issues, however I don't want to be touched down there physically in any way whatsoever. Would you go out with somebody who doesn't want you to touch them or would you not mind at all? Some people say it isn't fair for us stones, but I see it more as it isn't fair for our partner. I'm afraid my girlfriend will get sick of just receiving and might one day want to get more intimate. Opinions?
I never heard of the term "stone butch" before but I think your partner will get offended of not being allowed to touch you. If i was in her position I wouldn't feel right with you. So how do you get turn on then. I'm really curious to know
If you are certain you don't want to be touched at all, then there are "pillow princesses" who would be well suited for you. They only like to have their parts played with, but not reciprocating. Sometimes not letting ur gf touch you "like a girl" (u don't let her finger you or use a strap on you" can make it hotter for her, since you seem more butch and less like a vulnerable girl. I know a lot of butches wont allow penetration, maybe you could wear a strap and let her "go down" on the strap. You would still feel it bc of the pressure on you, and she might feel like she can pleasure you.
Hi Aijin! Can I ask what exactly is it you have issues with as far as being transgender? That was a little confusing. I think I would have a hard time just receiving all the time. For me i really like the intimacy and connection i feel when being able to give her something she really likes. It's like sweetheartluv said tho, there are always pillow princesses. Although, I haven't really heard of any sticking around for very long. Not that it can't happen of course.
@dreamsDOcometrue: I just enjoy pleasuring her. @sweetheartluv: Pillow princesses tend to be too feminine for my taste (stereotypically), I usually like femmes but that don't mind rolling around in the mud. Anyhow, I really love my girlfriend and have no intention in finding a new one just to fit my preferences. @R.Rook: By having transgender issues I meant dysphoria, since I identify myself as genderqueer and don't usually like being female-bodied. When you said "...being able to give her something she really likes", well, I do really like doing it with her. I get my pleasure by pleasuring her. Having to be touched would make me feel uncomfortable and I wouldn't like it at all.
